Masturbators speak: Edging and Denial

Even though it’s SRS (Semen Retention September) for me and my boys, I spermed yesterday in celebration of my birthday. Had a wonderful ruin followed shortly thereafter by a full ejaculation. I was so gooned I can’t even remember what porn I was bating to. A heavy flow of thick, senior semen gushed like lava down my rigid penis and all over my scrotum. What a glorious mess. Now it’s back to edging and SRS for the remainder of the month. Sperming is great but edging is almost better, in my bate book.

Whether it’s a few days, a few weeks or a few months, edging with ejaculation deferral is incredible, imo. Semen retention does not necessarily mean no fap. That’s a personal choice. I applaud all of you edgers ?? and cheer you on as we proceed through SRS: Semen Retention September. Sure, you may ruin or even go over. No big deal. You just start over. I spermed three days ago for my birthday now I’m SRSing again.


Going to try locktober best I can, bought a cage last year when wife was staying with her mom to take care of her wife has no idea about it. I wear it during the day when shes at work and sometimes at night after shes asleep. ive slept in it a few times but get nervous if something happened in middle of night i would be exposed. but im going to try and lock myself up as many hours as i can in october…maybe ill expose myself and see how she reacts….

good luck! I really want to try Locktober, this is the first year I have a cage. Unfortunately I’m having a guest come to stay with me and my wife starting literally the 1st, and any kind of accident, bumping into her the wrong way, etc could be disastrous, so no cage for at least the first two weeks. I’m just going to have to try really hard to keep my hands off myself…


  1. So for me after stripping naked and getting organized, lube cockring at the ready, porn on screen, I lube it good, throw a cockring around my cock and balls and start the porn. Unless I’m really horny, I let the porn excite me slowly as I slow stroke myself to rock hardness. Once hard, I work it fast and hard to get to the point of no return, PNR, that second just before you shoot cum and I release my cock and let it calm for a few secs then work it hard again, this time switching hands, grip styles, changing seating postures, etc. All the changes are to change up the stimulation so that I can get to PNR, faster and enjoy the sensations of being so close to cumming, longer.
  2. [6:35 AM]If you are new to edging, the toughest part will be paying attention to the cues in your body, recognizing the sensations and the order in which they kick in and then stepping off the gas pedal before you shoot.
  3. [6:36 AM]Most folks who edge cum a lot as they figure this out , lol, so no worries. Enjoy!

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