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The Onania Masturbatorium on Discord is a safe and friendly place for chronic masturbators like you. It is open to adult masturbators of all genders and sexual orientations. Our purpose is a supportive community for people who “identify” primarily or exclusively as masturbators. Our focus is on meaningful (and stimulating) communication among masturbators. The Onania Masturbatorium runs on the free interactive site Discord. You can access it with a browser or optionally download an app.

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Onania Masturbator Forum: Caught and then some

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

A while back I used to live with a roommate. One particular morning I had the day off while he went to work. I waited until he left and then sat down at the living room computer, turned up the sound and spent an hour or so masturbating to all kinds of porn before finishing with a long loud orgasm. One of the best parts of having the house to yourself, right?

I went to the bathroom to clean myself up, and froze when I heard my friend’s bedroom door open and someone swiftly walking out the front door. Peeking through a window I saw my roommate’s girlfriend, who’d apparently spent the night and then slept in when he left for work.

My cheeks burned as I realized she’d been twenty feet away from me the whole time and heard every filthy second of the videos I was playing – women moaning as they fucked, and gurgling on giant dicks… the constant wet slap of pounded pussies… the endless male grunting of cumshot compilations… the dirty humiliation of jackoff instruction… toys buzzing… women pissing… and of course all the dialog: “You can’t stop playing with your penis, can you? I bet you’re playing with it right now…” “Uuuuhhh yeah, fuck me fuck me fuck me!” “I’m gonna cum – ah, ah, ah, ahhhh!” And through it all she’d also heard the slick sounds of me jacking off, my own groans, maybe even me talking back to the pornstars as I watched them…

I was shaking with shame, but you guessed it – I was also ragingly hard again, and I immediately sat back down and went through the history of my last session, reliving the best moments while imagining her hearing it through the thin bedroom door. Despite just having orgasmed, I blew another urgent load within minutes.

Naturally that morning immediately became one of my favorite pieces of fantasy material. I imagine her as she’s woken up by an endless pornographic soundtrack. She realizes what’s going on and dresses as quietly as she can. Then she sits and waits listening to it all in agonized embarrassment, knowing she has to hear me cum before she’ll have the chance to sneak out. I wonder whether she was disgusted or aroused – probably both – and of course it’s hot to imagine her reluctantly getting turned on by it all until she’s compelled to lie back, flip up her dress and masturbate along with me.

It’s not the only time I got caught, but it’s certainly the best time.


For more like this, join the Onania Masturbator Forum,  a supportive, affirming community of people living with chronic addiction to masturbation. The focus is on our lives as addicted masturbators, and the pleasures / conflicts / impacts related to our compelling habit.

Join the Onania Masturbator Forum


The Onania Masturbator Forum

is  a supportive, affirming community of people living with chronic addiction to masturbation. The focus is on our lives as addicted masturbators, and the pleasures / conflicts / impacts related to our compelling habit. If you (or a partner ) are addicted to masturbation, you are encouraged to join. Here are some samples of the discussions:

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In Onania Masturbator Forum  we freely share our masturbatory fantasies and techniques, including extreme excessive practices used to intensify autoerotic gratification. We explore our conflicts about the costs of masturbation addiction on career, family, friends, and life goals. We process residual feelings of shame, guilt, and humiliation that for some attach to chronic masturbation.

Unlike other pro- or anti-masturbation groups, the Forum is value-neutral and non-judgmental. We make no assumption that masturbation addiction is inherently good or bad, or that chronic masturbators should seek to change their behavior. Each member is free to form and express his own opinions without fear of criticism or judgment. We offer understanding, encouragement, and validation — both to those still struggling with their compulsions and to those finally reconciled to permanent and incurable masturbation addiction.

Onania Masturbator Forum welcomes both male and female masturbators (and partners of masturbators), from gay to straight in sexual orientation. Though a large percentage of the members are male, ladies are encouraged to join and are treated with respect.


Pussy Penetration Anxiety Disorder

Pussy Penetration Anxiety Disorder – PPAD

(From the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Masturbatory Disorders)


  • Loss of erection, failure to erect, or premature ejaculation when presented with a penetrable pussy. The more available the pussy, the less the penis is able to penetrate it.
  • PPAD is distinguished from normal Erectile Dysfunction: The patient will be able to achieve and maintain erections while masturbating, even masturbating to images of penetrable pussy, but experience extreme anxiety and erectile failure in actual pussy-penetration situations.
  • PPAD may also manifest as Premature Ejaculation, as the PPAD sufferer ejaculates as quickly as possible to relive his pussy anxiety stress


  • Fear that the male won’t perform well in bed and satisfy his partner sexually
  • Poor body image, including concern that he is not a real man
  • Male virginity or limited sexual experience
  • The male’s penis is too small to satisfy a woman
  • Chronic compulsive masturbation has left him impotent except when his penis is in his own hand
  • Fear of ejaculating prematurely and spurting all over the pussy
  • Fearing his partner will ask why he can’t fuck her properly, and having to confess his Pathetic Masturbator Syndrome

The PPAD/ED male begins to see the pussy as a threat after repeated sexual failure and humiliation. These anxieties cause his body to launch a “fight or flight” response. Stress hormones like epinephrine and norepinephrine are released in a series of reactions to prepare his body to confront or escape a threat. One of the effects of the stress hormones is to constrict blood vessels, and less blood flowing into the penis makes it more difficult to achieve an erection. 

The PPAD/PE male feels an unbearable tension when presented with a penetrable pussy. He develops a strategy of premature ejaculation in order to relieve his stress as quickly as possible. Sometimes this develops into full-scale Pussy Proximity Disorder and he ejaculates on approach, even before contact with the pussy.  

Of course, a pussy isn’t a threat to a normal, real man, which is why this response is characteristic of chronic masturbators. PPAD is often associated with chronic compulsive masturbation. The clinician should always pursue a thorough examination of the patient’s masturbatory history when PPAD symptoms are presented. 


The prognosis is not hopeful. Most PPAD sufferers retreat further into a pattern of arousal / masturbatory release / shame / arousal.  Initially a defense mechanism, PPAD Erectile Dysfunction or Premature Ejaculation become fetishsized and the male derives arousal and satisfaction from his humiliating failures. The feeling of being a sexual loser with PPAD is strangely arousing to chronic masturbators, and effectively short-circuits any attempt to overcome the problem.

It is possible that a very understanding female partner willing to provide low-stress “pittyfuck” therapy may be beneficial. But only if the masturbator sincerely wishes to be cured.

10 Sex Toys With Ridiculously Ancient Origins

Lady substitutes are recorded as far back as the seventeenth century, when French sailors devised the Dame de Voyage: a collection of curvaceous rags that could only ever resemble a woman to a homesick Frenchman. But it wasn’t until vulcanised rubber was patented that the more familiar model came about: in 1904, alchemist Rene Schwaeble recorded meeting a ‘Dr. P.’ in Paris, who built inflatable dolls for discerning gentlemen.

via 10 Sex Toys With Ridiculously Ancient Origins.

Onania Masturbator Forum: Managing the urge

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

It’s so difficult and I lack the will power. I come into my home office in the morning with every good intention. Not an intention of not masturbating — that would be pointless — but the intention of getting some work done FIRST, then rewarding myself with a nice long session. But like a robot I go on automatic to G+ and my naughty Gmail account, and the session begins without even a second thought. Masturbation addiction is real, and incurable. I need help, but help would be to no avail. I am a masturbator

For more like this, join the Onania Masturbator Forum,  a supportive, affirming community of people living with chronic addiction to masturbation. The focus is on our lives as addicted masturbators, and the pleasures / conflicts / impacts related to our compelling habit.