The Onania Masturbatorium on Discord

The Onania Masturbatorium on Discord is a safe and friendly place for chronic masturbators like you. It is open to adult masturbators of all genders and sexual orientations. Our purpose is a supportive community for people who “identify” primarily or exclusively as masturbators. Our focus is on meaningful (and stimulating) communication among masturbators. The Onania Masturbatorium runs on the free interactive site Discord. You can access it with a browser or optionally download an app.


FEMALE FRIENDLY: We actively keep this place female-friendly. We do not tolerate people who troll, pursue, solicit, pressure, or degrade females; or send DM/Friend requests without permission.

NOT A PORN SERVER: We encourage frank and sexually explicit discussions of masturbator lifestyles, including sharing moderate amounts of explicit visual material relevant to masturbation. We do not collect or share unrelated pornographic images or videos.


  • Members may experience intense sexual arousal and the urge to masturbate.
  • Prolonged participation may reinforce a chronic masturbator lifestyle.
  • Members share sexually-oriented jokes, satire, humorous exaggerations, fictional material, fantasies, and role-play about the subject of masturbation. We presume members are competent adults able to distinguish imagination from reality, and playful enjoyment from harmful behavior.

Onania Masturbatorium does not provide professional therapy or counseling. If you are concerned about your situation, see National Mental Health Hotline or Suicide & Crisis Lifeline 

If you already have a Discord user ID

Current Link for joining on Discord: Expires Jul 27, 2024 

  •  When you join the server, you will have limited access to browse some of the content. Please read all #rules, which are strictly enforced.
  • To remain in the server and gain full access, you must introduce yourself in #introductions.
  • If you have problems, read #how-to-join prior to asking for support.
  • If the link above does not work, you may contact Richard Lovel

If you don’t have a Discord user ID

It works best to register and confirm your email address first, before joining Onania Masturbatorium.

  1. Register and create a free account by clicking
  2. Look for an email from Discord and confirm your email address before the next step.
  3. Once you are confirmed as a user of Discord, you can join Onania Masturbatorium.

The Discord user interface can be confusing at first. Once you get used to it, you will love what it can do.

Some people have trouble registering with Discord the first time, and then they receive a message “that email is already registered”. If this happens to you, then here is an easy fix: Go to and create a new Gmail account, with a new email address. Then register as above on Discord. Once you are registered with Discord, you will not need to use the Gmail account. (But keep it, in case you are accidentally locked out or lose your Discord password; you can use the Gmail account to reset.)

Moderation and Appeals

Onania Masturbatorium is closely moderated to ensure a safe and enjoyable community. Sometimes there are questions or disagreements about moderator actions. If you need to contact a moderator to discuss a situation, do one of the following: