Onania Masturbator Forum: prefer to masturbate than to have sex

Other than a very few blowjobs my sex life for the last couple of decades has been strictly solo. I vividly remember what it was like slipping my stiff prick into a hot wet pussy, nothing I can do by myself quite equals that. In addition to the penile sensations, there are all the peripherals, a soft warm female body against mine, stroking and kissing her all over, watching us in a mirror. Yes, I miss it.

But as a practical matter, doing myself wins on all counts. 

I can get a little satisfaction just about anywhere and any time, by rubbing my bulge. Usually I can find an opportunity for a fully satisfying session within a few minutes or hours of feeling the need. It is almost never that easy if you need a woman for it, delay and frustration seems to be the norm.

Another advantage of solo sex is that I can watch porn, keep my libido high. Most women hate that, they want it to be all about them. In this age of limitless electronically delivered porn I can always find something that turns me on. Every session is like a new sex-life, depending on the type of porn I find.

I can also do myself for hours if I so please. Only in the very beginning of relationships have I had a female partner willing to fuck for hours. But by myself I can go all day, all night, and every day. I frequently make a “date” with myself or go on a trip just so I can masturbate without interruption or distraction for an entire day or weekend.

I truly love my penis, and like to see it there in my hand as I work to please it, follow its subtle changes in color and shape as I coax it along. And no matter how many times I see it, watching myself orgasm and shoot cum is still a thrill.

Finally, at the most basic level, sex with myself is better because I know what I want, I can fine tune my grip, pace, porn, whatever is necessary to optimize and prolong the experience. Nobody knows my penis better than I do, or can interact with it in real time with such precision.