In the Friend Zone

Well, one rather humiliating ‘friendzone’ experience I had was with a girl named Lisa.

I met Lisa at a local gym and we hit it off so to speak and began talking to one another. Then we began meeting for coffee and or for drinks and that is where she really stated to open up to me about her life.

I knew she was married, but didn’t really think too much about it during the getting to know each other phase of our friendship. She confided in me that her marriage was on the rocks and that she wanted to leave her husband. She said that she needed a more ‘take-charge’ kind of guy…I am not that kind of guy, but that didn’t stop me from deluding myself into thinking I could be next in line for this beautiful woman.

We began texting more and meeting more and she would talk about herself and the problems in her marriage. We would always leave each other with a big hug and a see you soon or ‘text-me’, which I would do as soon as I got back home. I would tell her how beautiful she was and how I would be patient and wait for her. he wold thank me and tank me for being patient with her and that she loved how I respected to not make any sort of moves on her until her divorce was finalized.

Well, she finally separated but still said I needed to be patient – which I was and I continued to be her confidant and her friend. She kept telling me how she needed a man to take charge and that it had now been three months and was getting quite horny. This had made me excited to no end but also gave me pause as I remembered my past failures at getting hard for woman and began to worry that this would also happen with us if we rushed things.

I think Lisa had sensed I was just a masturbator because she would question me about my sexual past and my past girlfriends and was curious about what I did to ‘get some relief’ assuming that masturbation was something a real man would not or should not be doing. She would often make subtle humiliating comments about some guy she had once dated that couldn’t get it up for her when they decided to finally sleep together. She made it known that she thought any guy that couldn’t get it up for her must be some sort of a sissy or something. This hit home as I imagined this could very well end up happening to me if I had the chance with her.

A couple of more months passes and we grew distant and she stopped texting me. Finally, I saw on her facebook page flaunting to all her girlfriends about this new guy she was with. Posting pictures of the two of them. It made me feel humiliated but at the same time (just like you suggest) accept my inferior status and get off on knowing that he not me is getting into her pussy.