by jameshat » Mon Feb 19, 2018 1:29 pm
Although we all have our unique interests and habits, there are some tendencies that the majority of us probably have in common. I’ll list a few for your masturbatory amusement – see if you can recognize yourself.
If you’re single and cum or edge every day, you’re definitely serious about your masturbation. If you have regular sex and still masturbate daily you’re moving into chronic masturbation territory. And if you’re in a relationship but you choose to live separately so you can still have long ‘bate sessions whenever you want, that makes you committed to masturbating.
Now if you live with a partner or roommates, you’re probably a chronic masturbator if you immediately start touching yourself whenever you have alone time. If your partner or roommates make comments about you doing this, then you’re such a chronic masturbator that even they can tell. And if you’ve gotten to the point where you just plain jerk off in front of your partner or roommates, then obviously you’re a fully committed masturbator – even more so if you use porn while you do it.
Serious masturbators have a sex toy, chronic masturbators have multiple sex toys, and committed masturbators use multiple toys per session to enjoy a wider spectrum of stroking. Serious masturbators have a favorite cumrag, chronic masturbators have one that’s actually labeled “Cum Rag,” and truly committed masturbators leave it unwashed to get off on the sight and smell of previous sessions.
Serious masturbators keep a box of tissues on their computer desk, for obvious reasons. Chronic masturbators keep a bottle of hand lotion there as well. Committed masturbators don’t even move them when company comes over – this is how to recognize a fellow masturbator when visiting their home.
If you have to limit yourself to edging in order to save some orgasms for your partner, then you’re firmly in chronic masturbation territory. Once you start doing this, you may be motivated to have more sex just so you can have full wank sessions afterwards – if you find yourself doing this, doesn’t it mean that your real commitment is to masturbation? And of course, the most masturbatory among us make sure to handle our own genitals during sex in whatever way we can, and fuck while fantasizing about masturbation and recent jackoff sessions.
Anything else come to your mind? Feel free to add it below!
by masterbator45 » Fri Jan 25, 2019 5:11 am
My wife knows I’m a chronic addicted masturbator too. She doesn’t like it but accepts it. I’ve been caught countless times by her over the years, which always resulted in an argument. I eventually wore her down, because she realizyI wasn’t going to stop my habitual masturbation. I now wear only a robe at home so I have free and unfettered access to my penis at all times and can quickly cover up when my wife enters the room. She even calls out my name before she enters the room, so I can cover up.
by goonerpervert » Fri Jan 25, 2019 2:45 pm
My wife doesn’t know… But both your stories give me hope that, despite me being a fully pornosexual masturbator right now and for nearly 2 years, one day I can be openly my full self with my GF (call her my wife, basically is) and wear her down to the point she fully accepts the WHOLE me despite my total denial of her for “real” sex. She wants and needs penetration, and I don’t. I still find her attractive. Still kiss her. Still want her to have weekly orgasms with her toy while I am there, actively help, or merely suck her big titties and thick nipples.
But I very much long for a day when she no longer complains and creates relationship stress around our sexless partnership, but just understands I’ll never change my preference for mountains of porn than to even consider my shaft near her pussy. A hairy (she insists) tight hole in a bad way, one that can’t compare to the goddess pussies I mindlessly drool over, much less compete with the beauty of my chronic handpussy obsession.
Always deeper for our chronic masturbator goals and destiny Ngggh
Post by wayne160598 » Mon Sep 16, 2019 12:06 pm
Agree with the idea of having towels and lotions near your bed and couch(and wherever else you masturbate).Other possible signs–walking around naked at home or wearing the bare minimum of clothing -I wear Speedo bathing trunks all day at my home-nobody ever visits me and I love the feel of the fabric.Also having your laptop permanently on and ready with a big list of videos,photos etc.ready to be accessed by one-click.Also wearing rubber band permanently round my cock.Also having DVDs ready to be viewed via a couple of click on the remote.BecauseI live on my own I also have literally hundreds of pin-ups on every available wall and ceiling.My neighbours have caught glimpses occasionally and unavoidably.They have seen in my hallway there are about 50 pictures of Kelly Brook so they know I jerk-off but I don’t care.And finally going to bed for the night quite happily about 5.00pm-drawing the curtains and putting out lights- to give yourself hours and hours of uninterrupted masturbation time.Having your curtains drawn all day even in brilliand sunshine is probably another sign.
by hairybi » Fri Dec 24, 2021 6:10 am
Jameshat should be a psychologist, he understands us! He definitely described me.
1. Regular sex and still masturbate daily: Yes
2. Touch yourself whenever alone: Always
3. Use porn: Can’t imagine not having it readily available.
4. Jerk off in front of your partner: Yes, I’ve done it, as well as in public, and in masturbation groups
5. Multiple sex toys: Yes, I have them, but unlike Jameshat, don’t use them every session. Hand is my ultimate sex toy.
6. Box of tissues: I laughed at that one, yes, I have a box prominently displayed at both my work and home desks.
7. Lotion: I have both vaseline and albolene in my desk drawer. I use vaseline primarily for the memories, as it was my first lube.
8. Have more sex, so you can masturbate afterwards: He describes me, particularly when I was married to a woman. I would have sex with her, ejaculate in her vagina, and then while she is asleep, retreat to my den, and spend hours looking at porn into the night. Now, a male partner and I have sex, and still masturbate together and separately.
9. Fantasize about masturbation while having sex: All the time.
10. Use a used cum rag: I have one in my nightstand in the second drawer.
I bet you chronic masturbators meet many of Jameshat’s excellent criteria. He understands us! From now on, I will always use the word “chronic” to describe who I am.
by Gonzomonger » Fri Dec 24, 2021 4:43 pm
When I have trouble with arousal sometimes I tie my cum and Albolene-soaked cum towels around my face, positioning the most recent wet spot right over my nose, so all I can smell is the overwhelming odor of my own sperm with every breath. It really kicks the pheromones into overdrive, especially when I think about how my blowjob buddies’ fluids are mixed in with it from cleaning up his spills. I know cum smells like cum, whether it’s yours or someone else’s, but something about the chemistry of the mix seems to make it hotter. You’re right though, it’s very intoxicating! Just use the same cum-rag for a few months and it’ll be perfect.
PS: Can’t believe I’m admitting all this, but…. Be sure not to use lubes with any fragrance or it’ll overpower the aroma of your cum as it accumulates. When I use A&D I always have separate cum rags (red shop rags) for clean-up. A&D-tinged cum doesn’t quite smell as pure as fresh unadulterated sperm! Albolene has no odor. I use blue medical-surgical towels for Albolene-cumshots and blowjob cleanups. Shop rags are cheap and a $8 pack of 20 will last several years. I just throw those away when they get to where they can stand up by themselves on the floor. The surgical towels though get washed on hot, separate from my other dirty laundry m, due to the heavy wax content. I keep about two or three going all the time and wash them 3-4 times a year. ????
by jameshat » Sat Apr 16, 2022 9:50 am
When it looks like a woman will become a regular sexual partner, I have the masturbation conversation to see whether it’s a good idea. A few girlfriends back I brought up the topic, and one of her first questions was “Do you have a cum rag?” At the time I didn’t, but she went on to describe how she’d found her last boyfriend’s cum rag and got turned on using it to monitor his masturbation.
The conversation gave me an idea (maybe her intention?) so I started one using a small facecloth. A few dates later when it was nicely crusty and still wet with a fresh load, I went to my sock drawer so she could see where it was, and handed it to her with a small flourish. Her eyes lit up – “Is this for me?” – and she quickly mounted me while examining it with enthusiasm and questioning me about my recent session. Of course, this was back when I could crank out a load or two after work and be ready to go again when she came over.
Clearly she’d wanted to do this with her last boyfriend, and from then on she’d occasionally initiate sex by coming into the room, cum rag in hand and a twinkle in her eye, saying “Someone’s been a naughty boy!” She was never interested in watching me fill it – she said she’d rather have sex when we were together – but the thought of “catching” me obviously turned her on.
Since then, I’ll keep one when I’m single and the memories of us playing with it will get me going, but when I’m with someone, I don’t kid myself that just any woman would be delighted to discover such a thing.
Source: (22) Signs of the Chronic Masturbator – Onania Masturbator Forum