The Masturbator Pensées (Thoughts) is a collection of fragments written by chronic masturbators
That is one of the biggest benefits of masturbation forums for me. Before the internet it felt like I was the only one on the planet that masturbated as much as I do which made me feel like I was abnormal and weird. When I found the old CPM group it was confirmation that there are plenty of guys into masturbation as much as me. That was all I needed to get over those feelings and totally accept my love of masturbation. That immediately increased the level of pleasure I get from it as well as freed me to be more open about it including venturing out of the bedroom and enjoying risky situations that give me an arousing exposed to the world feeling while naked and stroking my hard cock.
The other benefit is that because I’m so into masturbation, even just conversing about it arouses me.
I’m absolutely 100% a wanker.
I was just like you. I was convinced that I was the only person in the world who spent endless hours masturbating and I was sure that I was some sort of freak of nature. Sites like this one proved otherwise and it was such a relief to know that there were many, many others just like me! I will say though that I had long ago come to terms with my masturbation habit and fully accepted my role as a chronic masturbator and I wasn’t going to change, whether I had found sites like this or not.
It’s nice to see videos of horny, compulsive masturbator’s like myself. I watched a porn video yesterday, of a female getting ready after a shower. She had been recorded using a “secret camera,” and she kept masturbating! She would give herself an orgasm, but the urge would come back, so she would get on the mattress edge, spread her legs, and masturbate again. At one time she said out loud, “I’ve already cum three times,” but it didn’t stop herself from pumping her hairbrush into her pussy one more time for a 4th orgasm.
I get her, I understand those feelings, wants, and urges. I completely would have done the same thing. I can’t get enough!
I think it’s a great video, because I have been that girl. Where the urges are so strong that I just can’t stop. I usually don’t come fast, so that means that I masturbate for a little bit longer than she does. Or there has been times when I have an orgasm. I go do something, and then I end up coming back to the bedroom 45 minutes later because I’m still horny. I need to do more masturbating.
(Kind of like what I’m doing right now I masturbated this morning and now I’m going again. My pussy is swelling nicely, and I have hard nipples while I masturbate again.)
I love a bald pussy and I understand how that can trigger you. I shave my cock and balls at least every other day. I’m a pretty hairy guy so my hairless groin area really stands out and that sight always triggers me. I love the look and feel of my smooth cock & balls and it’s hard for me to keep my hands off of myself!
Like you, Wet Jane, I too enjoy masturbating off and on all day and then going out with my semi-swollen cock swinging between my legs. I also wear a heavy, metal cock ring which adds to the weight of my cock and makes my bulge even more prominent.I love the look and feel of it and it’s a constant reminder of what a chronic masturbator I am. I love the fact that we are both triggered by our own bodies!
I shaved this morning after my fist session. Then late this afternoon, I could feel my ball pussy. It started to tingle, so I came up to my bedroom and gave myself a two hour session. I got really wet, and I loved the tingling. I gave myself a pretty good orgasm. My pussy is smooth and clean, and still a little wet from my second orgasm I am triggered again. Round #3!
I am such a masturbation addict and love it. I should post here more, not sure why I don’t other than I’m so busy stroking with other addicts on cytube and discord.
But right now, I am close to out of my mind. I’m in the middle of a 3 week trip with my significant other (a great fuck, but who has no idea about the depth of my lust for porn and self-love), so I haven’t been able to have a good long stroke and moan, or even a good quick pump and grunt. No matter how much sex I’m getting, I still need to fuck my fist two or three times daily.
Today has been rough, we went to the beach and I swear half the women could be strippers or porn stars – thong bathing suit, tight asses, pert tits. Ugggh, I need to shoot so bad. I’m thinking right now of a great bate session me and a mic bud had to Nicole Aniston before I left, both of us talking so dirty about how much we wanted her beautiful blond pussy and how we’d share her between us. we were watching her fuck some lucky porn dude where she’s a beauty queen who for some reason has to suck his cock. We both moaned and groaned with the scene finally letting our ropes loose with the pop shot. Nnnngh, so fucking hot, Nicole makes me erupt so hard. my bud too, though, I suspect he’s getting off to me getting off as much as the porn, but that’s cool by me. I fucking love masturbating.
Even though I am a fat old man with a small penis I enjoy masturbating on cam on the rare occasions I have the opportunity. Married and retired, I have to wait for the wife to be away. I masturbated on cam on the Discord vc channels a few times. Mixed results there. Sometimes very exciting with lots of interaction among the participants. Other times just a bunch of guys masturbating silently watching a porn stream. Boring. Best is the 1:1 interaction with another masturbating man, watching each other masturbating and talking to each other as we get off on exposing ourselves masturbating and watching the other person masturbating. I really get excited watching a man masturbate and masturbating for him while he watches me masturbate and listens to me goon..
Quite often the question is asked “How many times do you masturbate per day?” and I read that as “How many times do you cum per day?” as I think that is really what is being asked. There is a difference between masturbating to orgasm 3 or 4 or more times per day and masturbating for hours, edging, every day without cumming. IMHO, mastering the art of edging is a watershed moment for a truly chronic masturbator. Once you learn to control yourself, you can spend hours in masturbatory bliss every single day, reveling in the constant pleasure, and truly appreciating it! Being an edger is most definitely a lifestyle choice and one I made years ago.
I agree that there are some of us out here who simply have an extraordinarily high sex drive. It manifests itself in truly chronic masturbators through masturbating to orgasm several times per day, especially when you are younger and, as you pointed out, the refractory period is very short, and also through, later in life, the sheer number of hours per day that one spends in masturbatory bliss and in that transcendental “goon state”.
You are precisely spot-on about preferring masturbation over “real” sex. Most likely, many of us enjoyed “real” sex in the past and may occasionally do so in the present, but we happy few came to the realization early on that we much preferred masturbation! I would also add that many of us probably incorporated porn into our “ritual” early on as well as it does go hand-in-hand with masturbation, no pun intended.
I can only speak for myself, but watching porn and masturbating became the focal point of my life a few years ago. The hours and hours of pleasure I get out of it is indescribable! I did remarry (my ex) and we do masturbate together. I enjoy it, but it doesn’t last for hours like my goon sessions do, and that is what I truly crave, spending hour after hour mindlessly pumping my cock, totally oblivious to anything else. Fortunately my wife understands and doesn’t mind one little bit. Lucky me!
The first time I made my dick stiff by fondling it I realized I really enjoy the feeling of being aroused with a hard cock. When I was 15 I had the opportunity to regularly spend several hours masturbating. I used to try keep myself highly aroused with a hard throbbing cock for as long as possible but my edging back then was hopeless and I would usually cum 3 or 4 times during a session. But at 15 that didn’t matter because my refractory period was extremely short and even after cumming 4 times I would still have a hard throbbing cock. Being 15 is a fantastic time for an avid masturbator.
But something that has always been obvious is the more I masturbate, the more I get the urge to masturbate. Once a day soon become twice a day which soon become 3 times a day, and if my situation allows it, in no time I’m spending all day wanking.
So I don’t think having a normally high sex drive to is needed. If you really enjoy masturbating your body will naturally create the craving to do it more.
And a long refractory period just means you will be more inclined to edge.
I suspect us keen masturbators simply got more pleasure from masturbating than other people when we first started doing it and it just grew from there.
No doubt in my own case being an introvert who feels more comfortable being alone has also contributed to my preferring masturbation over any other sexual activity.
I agree with most of what you say, but if you didn’t have an extremely high sex drive then you wouldn’t want to masturbate all the time, would you?
Whether some of us are just born with a high sex drive I couldn’t say, nor could I say when it first shows, I only kow mine showed when I had my first dry orgasm at age 9 because after that I took my cock out and masturbated every chance I got. though I never ejaculated until I was 12 1/2. Up until the age of 14 I had 4 friends I used to masturbate with occasionally {one at a time) but the differece was I always wanted to but they did only sometimes and if they came they would lose innterest and want to do something else’ I wanted to keep masturbating. I found if I jerked off my cock would get really sensitive for a short while but in a few minutes would be hard again and the urge to cum again was irrestible so I would jerk off again. then the process would repeat itself and my cock would get so hard as to be painful. After doing that for a time I decided to limit cumming to once or twice a day and it was more comfortable.
I agree that the more you masturbate the better it gets, like anything else practice makes perfect. Think about it, if you exercise your cock for hours every day naturally it will be in excellent condition and I am pretty sure that the feeling gets better too; if it didn’t how could you masturbate for hours every day?
As you get older this almost becomes a mandatory practice, at least in my experience. My refractory period is very long now and once I cum, I’m pretty much done for the day. But I don’t want to be done! I want to keep masturbating! Edging allows me to masturbate all day long if I so desire (and I do!), and it keeps me in a highly aroused state, which I love! To me there is nothing better than spending hour after hour watching porn and leisurely stroking my cock. There’s no rush, just enjoy it! Revel in it! And it is much more satisfying and relaxing!