by oktostroke » Fri Feb 24, 2023 1:58 pm
I’m 63 years old and have long known that my sexual orientation/sexual preference is best described as “masturbator.” I have had partners in the past but have decided for forego relationships and be 100% solo in life and sexually I know I can satisfy myself through the enjoyment of masturbation and porn. As a teenage masturbator, I did it anywhere from about 3 to 6 times a day. I was so horny all the time and quite obsessed with getting my hands on porn magazines to masturbate to. Early on, I noticed that when a porn magazine photo showed the model masturbating that I got especially turned on. And later came to realize that as a true masturbator, the very act of masturbation is what turns me on. This includes male masturbation. Although I am sexually attracted to women and women are the focus of most of my beat-off sessions, I do enjoy watching a guy in a porn video pump his hard cock and shoot his cum; pretty much anything that celebrates the awesome pleasure of solo sex is a turn on for me. Like most masturbators, I am still “in the closet” and don’t feel I can come out and freely identify my sexual orientation in today’s society. I find it fascinating that society is becoming more ready to accept transgender people, non-binary and so on but masturbators are the last (and very large) group largely still in the closet. I am still a very frequent masturbator. I typically do it twice a day, sometimes once and occasionally 3-4 times a day. I love porn and almost always watch porn videos or live porn when I masturbate. I don’t really think of my enjoyment and preference for masturbation and porn as addictions. I have plenty of time and energy for many other activities. I just like to give myself orgasms but don’t spend more than an hour a day masturbating, on average. I spend more time exercising and reading than I do masturbating. But there is no better way to enjoy 15 minutes for me than to put on a porn video and stroke my cock!
by celebgoontard » Fri Feb 24, 2023 6:48 pm
Nice to see a masturbator so out and proud (albeit online for now!). I resonated with your words. Welcome to this most encouraging community! Though I’m 20 odd years younger and you’re an older masturbator I aged into my solosex before the internet age took hold. I first got glossy papered porn mags at 18, amassing a small collection that highly stimulated my brain before my years finally getting broadband access. PORN and celebrity pictures in magazines and vhs tapes of cuts of them became a big part of my masturbation.
I am avid in my love of porn and masturbation. I do label myself masturbator. But I identify in orientation(s) as Solosexual, Pornosexual. As formally as you can online in lewd communities! Loving to think about fellow male masturbating. Loving to feel the primal female goonettes of the world. When I am most horny and thrilling my mind is when I think of words like “chronic”, like “compulsive” and like “addiction” or “addicted” to trigger heightened sensations to the acts. To “bombard my brain” as I put it. And to play on my closeted lifestyle in the eyes of society. But in reality I am able to abstain. I am not dependent on either. But I simply see no valid reason to deny myself hours of pleasure. I can give it to myself the best of any human, basically. It feels too natural to deny! And I think psychologically those words have a high bar. For instance you must think it is a problem to seek help for ‘addiction’ involving porn or masturbation.
You got me philosophical today. I think the year of 2020 was a really landmark time when people who previously thought they were the only one indulging in solosex [to the degree many of us have all our lives] found discord masturbation orgies and other outlets to share in their love of self-pleasure online. Together. Yet solo. This is THE time of the masturbation and porn aficionado. In even under another 10 or 20 years there will be big segments of society out about their masturbation, solosexuality, pornosexuality. Their attraction to masturbators.
by Tony baloney » Fri Feb 24, 2023 8:01 pm
I am a masturbator and have been for over 50 years now.
I started playing with myself when I was 6 or 7 years old
and never lost interest.There is nothing I enjoy more than
sitting in a comfortable chair and beating my dick up
and down for hours. I also love to be watched while I’m
abusing myself.
I’m always interested in chatting/caming with other chronic
masturbators male or female. I also enjoy watching all
types of pornography especially humiliation porn.
I am a masturbator and I love it!
by Palmlover » Tue Mar 28, 2023 6:54 am
Ahh yes! When I retired, the time I spent masturbating increased greatly. I started stroking 6 hours a day while my wife was at work. We divorced over 7 years ago and then my masturbation time really skyrocketed! I started stroking 8 to 10 to 12 hours every single day and life became simply glorious! My life quite literally revolved around it and I had truly never been happier in my adult life.
Last summer my ex approached me about getting back together and one of the first things I discussed with her was my porn and masturbation habits and I told her I couldn’t truly be happy if I had to give it up completely. I knew it could be a deal-breaker but I simply wasn’t willing to give it up, I had become too steeped in it over the years we were apart. Fortunately for me, she said she understood, and after living together for a couple of months, as I continued doing what I normally do, we mutually agreed we could both live it and we remarried in November.
I still spend most of my day watching porn and masturbating off and on. She knows exactly what I’m doing and I make no attempt whatsoever to hide it. Occasionally she pops in the room to ask me a question or tell me something and I never miss a beat and she never blinks an eye. The only real change I’ve made is I pretty much only have orgasms when we have sex or mutually masturbate together.
Back to the topic, retiring is a real boon for chronic masturbators! As long as you did a good job planning for your financial future, retirement affords you all the time and opportunities to indulge in your porn and masturbation habits whenever, and for as long as you want, especially if you’re single.
by GentlemanJO » Tue Mar 28, 2023 9:05 am
I am a shamelessly proud and happy penis masturbator
I also recently have hooked up virtually with an old girlfriend. It took us awhile to get around to talking about sex but we started a long slow tease about what we were thinking and doing. And cum to find out we both have becum happy chronic masturbators. I am in heaven. We write to each other describing and exposing our masturbating addiction to each other. This is part of one email I sent to her because we both had the fantasy of exhibiting our compulsive masturbation to each other.
“I will start and you watch. I start out fingering my soft little flacid penis if it wasn’t hard already. As I get aroused my penis swells and I am able to frig the part of my penis just under the head called the frenum. Frigging is quick little gentle rhythmic strokes of the frenum that often brings me to a full erection. I love dry frigging for extended periods but eventually I start producing precum, one of nature’s wonderful lubricants. I will spread my precum around my swollen purple mushroom and then palm the cap lewdly to spread the wetness around and down my hard penis. This is so delicious and thrilling when I imagine I am teasing your vulva with my penis and spreading my precum and your wetness around your clit and swollen lips.”
“I can talk about what I like and you can ask questions as we do this. We both seem to have developed a vocabulary of words and phrases that excites us. I seem to have “trigger words” that I like to use like lewd, masturbation, penis, vulva, nipple, thrusting, orgasm etc. And I even make up my own words like penisboner and penistip and frigging. I love reading your descriptions, they are amazing in both the details and giving me insight on what you are feeling. It is so erotic, how do you do that? Have you had practice? When I am fully edging I am unable to give long detailed descriptions, just bits and pieces of passion, sometimes it works but sometimes it’s frustrating. But there is a stage of arousal that is pre-edging when I am hard but can stop and write more things like this and that is what I am doing right now.”
“So I will show you all of the ways I like to masturbate my penis through various stages of arousal. After I have a full erection I will apply some baby oil to supplement my precum. It’s an old habit that allowed me to stroke for extended periods without irritating my penis. The middle stage when I am teasing myself up to the edge is usually a combination of wet frigging, making lewd slurpy sounds, quick little strokes, little bumps against the ridge of the engorged peniscap. Then long slow strokes of my entire shaft with my palm making a wicked little twist around the wet tip at the top of the stroke and down again. Then “backhand” milking with the same two motions, milking and frigging and tugging under the penis head then long milking strokes, repeatedly “entering” my palm at the top of the stroke. I am doing this now in between sentences and it is wonderful, thinking of you being here and wondering how I would feel with you watching me.”
“As I get to the edge my favorite way of staying on that luxurious precipice is to palm my penistip. I kind of rotate and squeeze my swollen purple head in my palm for 3 or 4 seconds until that burning ecstasy starts boiling deep in my groin and rising up my throbbing erection. Then I stop and feel my erection throb with pleasure in my hand. And then I palm my penis again to the edge, over and over again. Wonderful, wonderful, Mixing it up with frigging and milking then palming again. Milking and teasing that boiling orgasm spurter deep in my groin to the edge over and over and over aagain. wallowing in penis pleasure. I used to do that for hours and hours, on the edge the whole time. Now I usually have to cum after 5 or 10 minutes but it has been getting longer recently.???? Or I stop and maintain the erotic buzz like now.”
“My most frequent thoughts when I am fully edging are the wonderful moments of just starting to enter you in various positions, wonderful endless variations. Or of hard fast thrusts, pounding, slapping loins, then slowly slowing down the thrusts until they are slow short thrusts edging edging within you. now I have to cum in you ohhhhhgodSPURT”
by caged4luv » Tue Mar 28, 2023 3:05 pm
I too, am now retired, early 60s and hornier than ever. I masturbate every chance i get, whenever wife is out. I like to have 2 orgasms a day when time permits and yes sometimes 3, had 4 in one day about a year ago. Sex with wife hasn’t occurred in over 2 yrs now, although we’ve tried on occasion i generally can’t get hard enough to penetrate or lose my erection and fall out. I used to think if i slacked off the masturbation i’d be able to successfully mount her but i no longer really care, i prefer edging which provides me with longer and more enjoyable orgasms. I am, and will always be, an addicted, chronic, penis masturbator.
by explorer1 » Sun Apr 02, 2023 10:37 pm
Yes I’m a masturbator enjoying many aspects of my solo-sexual adventure.
I love playfully exploring a wide range of pictures, stories and interactions with others who are solo sexually driven as well.
My enjoyment of my own self-pleasuring pursuits is deeply enriched by a love for the beauty of the human body.
I enjoy exploring pictures of women and/or men in nude or almost nude situations of all types, including all types of masturbation, voyeurism, exhibitionism. lovemaking and oral pleasures that are mutually desired and lovingly expressed. I absolutely abhor any misuse or coercion of another person and despise ANY use of underage individuals in any type of sexually suggestive situation. I love the instinctive beauty and dignity of all types of playful, mutually affirming erotic exploration.
I like to masturbate with mirrors and selfie types of pictures and sometimes just gaze very happily at my penis as I enjoy the strong demands for touching, fondling, teasing, caressing, petting and stroking that it makes of me. My masturbation life is totally secretive. NO one in my non-cyber “real” world knows how much masturbation means to me.
Yes, I LOVE playing with my PENIS and I love the word “PENIS”. Verbally expressing my masturbatory passions is one of the ways I like to play