Masturbators, does any of this sound familiar?
He spends a great deal of time on the computer. It is not uncommon for porn addicts to spend anywhere from three to six hours daily online. If you enter the room, he may flinch, toggle to another page or turn off the computer all together.
If your husband is not tech savvy, the history file will disclose their online traffic pattern. If they are tech savvy, they will have the history files clean so you are not able to see where they have been.
The porn addict spends a lot of time on the computer late into the night or right after work to ‘unwind’. The user may be using work as a cover for their activities by having to ‘work overtime’ at home. (Working overtime in itself is not a sign of usage however, combined with the other signs it can be.)
Someone trying to hide their porn addiction may have email accounts or rental mailboxes that you may not be aware of. Many addicts will set up accounts specifically for their online and offline activity.
Your sexual life has dwindled, or is dead. You may find that your partner is no longer initiating sex. OR you are asked to perform sexually on a very frequent basis often with requests that you may be very uncomfortable with.
He is overly obsessed with his penis and/or grooming below the belt. Most men are obsessed to a certain extent but this is above and beyond. He may be constantly touching himself, either consciously or subconsciously, by ‘adjusting’ himself, jiggling change in his pocket, etc. He will openly talk about to you about his anatomy a lot and may expose himself on a regular basis. Some men may become overly conscientious with their personal hygiene and grooming in the pubic area.
The compulsive porn user frequently masturbates. This could be during long showers in the morning, during a work break in the car, even after sex. There may be a preference for climax through masturbation.
He may start receiving phone calls or text messages from those met online. He keeps his cell phone in the car charger when at home
via Porn Addict Hubby – Signs Of Sex Addiction.
I hope my wife never reads an article like this one! Fits me as follows:
– He spends a great deal of time on the computer And phone and may flinch or quickly change screens
– He may be using work as a cover for their activities (masturbating while looking at porn at work right now)
– He is overly obsessed with his penis and/or grooming below the belt ( definitely keep my penis and testicles shaved smooth and moisturized)
– constantly touching himself ( while watching tv or driving)
– walk around the house naked with only the wife in the house
– compulsive porn user frequently masturbates ( 2 to 3 hours a day, more when possible)
– sex with wife is just foreplay for good masturbation session, wife goes to sleep, I get up and masturbate
Definitely addicted to sex and masturbation is my favorite activity fueled by lots of porn!
Jim
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