In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:
I am not sure if it is accepted but it is definitely tolerated,, or is it even encouraged???/.
This is a fascinating topic, I am really glad you brought it up, as I have been exploring this area of my masturbation constantly for the last 6 months. I have expressed to the the members here my intense pleasure in not only performing these tasks, but having the responsibility of taking our lifestyle to what are really main stream people.
I am giving away a bit here but truth is I haven’t published my findings on this very topic yet because I AM STILL IN RECEPTION MODE. Thats right I am still getting messages back and have a few pending.
its been going on for weeks…
Some conversations are so shockingly candid that I cant even begin to tell you. I am also concerned about keeping these people innocent so I have to obscure screen names/images ect…. there is a lot to do,but Richard has already offered any help I need so when I finally get to it I am just tickled pink to share what I have found.
Anyway as a teaser let me just say that I think that it is still reprehensible and can be loathed feared and derided without worry of reprisal. masturbators that are consistent CAN and DO lead normalized nonexistence with a fair number of people knowing and even dare I say accepting such abhorrent behavior as normal. or “just the way he is”
I can say this because I have been overall working on this for 5 yrs but recently have outed myself to around 30 individuals now, majority being female.
I have extensive knowledge and expertise on this area of acute chronic masturbation in its fetishistic form.
The Internet has changed the rules of the game, but not the goals. I was a chronic masturbator back in the paper mag and snail mail days. I corresponded with other masturbators by mail and phone, even exchanging audio cassettes of masturbtion sesseions. Now it is so much easier!
Mr. Masturbate, many of us are turned on by exposing ourselves, to greater or lesser degrees. My first orgasm, before puberty, came from exposing my naked body with it’s little hard on to schoolgirls some distance away.
Curiously, I don’t relate to showing my masturbation on cam, (except to a couple of woman friends who are highly appreciative). I certainly have fantasies about exposing myself, and most of the images that I like, my muses, have to do with women watching me masturbate and encouraging me.
Unfortunately, what was legal for a little boy isn’t for a man, so my masturbation with others around has to be very discrete, but I’ve become good at it in coffee shops, a swimming lake, malls and from my car :)
I’m eager to see your “report”. The internet has been a boon to solosexuals “coming out”, at least to each other.When I discovered there were others who loved masturbation, and preferred it above sex, it was unbelievably exciting. I don’t know how many serious solosexuals were around before the internet, but it would be interesting to speculate.I expect there were many. Porn shops in big cities catered to tourists and businessmen, but there was always a regular and devoted clientele who came every month for their fix of favorite magazines. As a teen I would visit, not even to buy, but just to be in the company of men who undeniably were masturbators. I found it to be extremely exciting.
Today, with the internet, we know about each other, Most men still view jacking off as a substitute for real pussy, but increasingly men (and women) have been able to emerge from their bedrooms to admit that masturbation is their preferred kind of sex. At first I was excited that on the internet I could visit the “dirty bookstore” any time I wanted–be in the company of masturbators. Then I realized I could drop the pretense of “normal” sex, and view myself as one of a community of solosexuals. What a revelation~
I’m a solosexer, obsessive masturbator, and enjoyng every moment of it! My enjoyment of masturbation extends to exposing myself in public, which heightens the whole experience/. I haven’t found many men who do, or admit to doing, exhibitionism and masturbation.