I want to share a toy & technique that IS safe if done with common-sense care and the tested/approved equipment described. Also, the progressive “edging” stages described here are an important part of this technique for an extremely heightened-and-extended pre-orgasm zone time(!). Note: I just found out about Venus 2000 (now called Venus for Men). Obviously I would l-o-v-e to try this but it’s out of my price range. This method should be a close 2nd!
This suction toy is a specific type of milk bottle (see pics below) which gives the sensation of being fucked & sucked at the same time!! You might cum quickly due to the intense vibration on your cock (if your cock’s girth is right), as the air rushes into the vacuum inside the bottle on the up-stroke, between the inside of the bottle rim and your cock (a zero gap!). The noise it makes during action acts as a feedback loop on your pleasure, adding to the excitement.
TECHNIQUE:
• I lay out a full-sized bath towel underneath me, mostly to one side. I’m left-handed so the towel is 80% to my left.
• START BY HAND: take your time…at least 5-10 minutes to get a basic, not throbbing, hard-on. Recommend not touching the head or “jerking” the shaft yet. Do it dry.
• after teasing it dry for awhile and it gets bigger, go a little longer dry (these build-up stages are a key part of this technique).
• apply Albolene. By hand, don’t get too close to the edge as happens when it’s slippery (men who’ve lost sensitivity, like me, can probably get away with rougher stroking). Try edging this stage . . .
• NOW BOTTLE: after edging by hand for several minutes slip the APPROVED bottle over your cock. Work gently. It’ll feel slightly cold, but that disappears quickly!