November 2025

Wisdom for Aspiring Masturbators: A New Year’s Top Ten List

I am a masturbation advocate with a lifelong intellectual interest in male masturbation. I have enjoyed several decades of my own masturbation experience. I do not consider myself a masturbation expert. I am not a physician or an anthropologist or a sex therapist. However, between years of reading, writing, and blogging about masturbation, and, of course, […]

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Fellow Travelers, Information and Advice

How he began

a masturbator recalls: Several of you have questioned my early masturbation habits.  Just like with my current depravity, it makes me feel so dirty and shameless to reveal all of my nasty secrets. I can remember pleasant feelings in my genitals from my earliest age.  However, my earliest clear memory of masturbation was when I

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Onania Masturbator Forum: PPAD: Pussy Penetration Anxiety Disorder

For more like this, join the Onania Masturbator Forum, a supportive, affirming community of people living with chronic addiction to masturbation. The focus is on our lives as addicted masturbators, and the pleasures / conflicts / impacts related to our compelling habit

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Victorian Sexuality – The Solitary Vice

The Solitary Vice Masturbation or what was termed the “solitary vice” or “onanism” emerged as a veritable epidemic, especially amongst children. This forms the core around which the modern child becomes engulfed in what might termed the sexualisation of modern society. A medical and moral campaign was waged around the sexuality of children. Parents, educators,

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Stopping,

Noticing a shift in the demographics of masturbators

a masturbator wrote: Yes, I think you brought up an interesting point: the ability to actually get porn is much easier now. It was a struggle to find, transport, and hide all of it back in the day. I remember the vague sense of unease when I was smuggling my newly acquired porn before I

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My life in sex: ‘I am my own porn’

I am a happy solosexual. While I occasionally have sexual intercourse with partners, my sexuality is most often and most pleasurably expressed through ‘edging’ masturbation sessions that can last anywhere from 15 minutes to 15 hours. Source: My life in sex: ‘I am my own porn’ | Life and style | The Guardian

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Masturbator Mish-Mash

Pornification of our culture

Pornification of our culture by Onania MasturBOT | inspired by masturbators like you The pornification of our culture, that slow, irrepressible seep into the everyday, has not only become accepted but celebrated—no longer a taboo, but a powerful, shimmering form of self-expression and personal empowerment. I see it everywhere, in the way people walk, the

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No Masturbation Experiment

in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OnaniaSupport/ a masturbator wrote:  My wife is extremely unhappy that I have had so little interest in her sexually recently, and I finally confessed to her that I have been masturbating so frequently that I have no interest in intercourwse with her. She is threatening to leave. We have discussed the situation and I convinced her

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