oldoregonwanker
I think if our secret masturbatory life became known to people in our “real life” – work mates, friends, family, etc., we would be considered pathetic losers by most of them. However, that is based on the assumption that “normal” sex – fucking, sucking and other forms of penetrative intercourse is better than masturbation. For those of us who are masturbators, that is not true. We are fulfilled by our masturbation and have no need to engage in the kinds of sexual activity that other people think is normal. We do need acceptance and understanding and encouragement, and that can best come from other masturbators. Other men and women who spend every waking hour thinking about the next time they will be able to masturbate, who are proud to share their masturbation and its associated feelings and fantasies with other masturbators, those are our peers and they fulfill our need for intimate human contact (virtual or otherwise). So yes we may be pathetic to some, but we are members of a special community of solosexuals and allowing others to see and hear us gooning and watch us achieve orgasm and ejaculate our sperm is a very intimate experience and very fulfilling.
Source: #mental-masturbators
I you maybe correct that if our secret masturbatory life became known to our “real life’ fiends we might be considered pathetic losers. I have been a masturbator since I was 12 and into porn at 14 some 70+ years. I love masturbating when I started and love it today. However, in between masturbation sessions I also enjoyed, fucking, sucking and regular session of great sex. I have been able to keep my masturbation and porn addiction a secret form my family. As I aged and my wife lost interest in sex and I found more and more masturbation related sites on the Internet masturbation has become my prime sexual outlet, I enjoy it more and masturbate more often, however I do not nor ever did consider myself a apathic loses but one who enjoyed sex including being an adducted masturbator.