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Re: Encouraging chronic masturbation in others
Unread post by brnout » Sun Apr 13, 2025 9:45 pm
Habitual masturbation, especially to porn, is always the right thing to do for yourself. Embrace solosexuality. Embrace pornosexuality. Reject the conventional woulda, shoulda, coulda of having or being a sexual partner. Being pornosexual doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with whether you “could get” someone. The fact is, there is no need to even bother. Frequent erotic activities by yourself — masturbating — doesn’t mean you are broken or inferior or fucking up somehow. On your porn journey, you should expect that your interest in having sex with a real partner will gradually dissipate. This is natural, even desirable, and you should actually hurry it along. Your destination, in fact your target, is 0% fucking, 100% masturbating. Ultimately, your desire for partner sex will be totally supplanted by powerful porn-based eroticism. Ordinary sex, for you, becomes uninteresting, if not actually burdensome. In fact, if you try fucking anyway, you may find it difficult to maintain or even achieve an erection. Believe it or not, that’s good! Though the bogus label PIED stands for Porn Induced Erectile “Dysfunction”, it’s actually not a dysfunction at all. There’s no erectile difficulty here. After all, porn gets you plenty hard! PIED is not problematic, it is a positive indicator. PIED means your sexual arousal response is properly focusing on stroking to porn. Because, face it, masturbation is superior to any form of traditional partner sex. It is empowering to take matters into your own hands.
I am Onan’s Son
Post by selferection » Wed Feb 05, 2020 12:29 pm
This statement is my creedo and declaration of my Masturbation Addiction which I proudly share – Masturbator to Masturbator – with all men and women living with Chronic Masturbation Addiction and readers of the Onania Masturbator Forum. I was weaned off the teat by the aroused swinging of my male sex organ between my thighs and my hand squeezing ,tugging and pulling on this thickening dick and the training and management of my E R E C T I O N to lead my masturbatory habit into a lifetime obsession with Jack-Off and J/O.
The doc who trimmed my foreskin to roguish Protestant standards left me a good wad of skin to work and play with. That extra skin has been a basis for the foreskin stretching and restoration that my Solo Dick Sex Habit has done for my Masturbation physically and mechanically. Although I can’t enjoy what undoubtedly was, at birth, a generous frenulum on my penis, my penis appears uncut when in its flaccid state, or resting position before re-engorgement for more masturbation. Still, my family DNA endowed my loins with dickmeat of a HANDsome girth, which my well-greased palm engorges to thick sausage-like proportions. I proudly show my bulge in trousers, sweats and spandex speedos on occasion when a cockring gives the swinging meat extra prong for my dong.
Pornography and Phone J/O ramped up my masturbatory habits as a teenager, and Boy Scout Camp/seeing naked males in the woods fueled my fantasies and visual memories my addiction has obsessed over and over to this day. Growing up with military traditions I came to meet and fantasize about a wide variety of masculine behavior and conduct from men from all social backgrounds. I came to understand Masculinity as something coded, and signaled by traditional or uniform male clothing and grooming, feeding my adult masturbation over camo and athletic gear, and white teeshirts. The best part was learning to be comfortable, or natural -even- bonding, with all male nudity. For me the prize was seeing adult male penis, this became fixed in my head as my masturbatory habit fixated on the sizes and shapes of heads of mens dicks(GLANS PENIS) and the bush and the girth of the adult male sex organ, which my own provided me with 6-9 loads or ejaculations as I masturbated to pictures of naked men, or situations of all-male nudity with the bonus of seeing male erections and witnessing men in the act of solitary phallic absorption.
For me the sexual revolution was the Supreme Court decision to allow pornography to grow an entire industry, AND more importantly the changing standard which made it the norm to not only see MENS DICKS but to see PUSSY PENETRATION, BLOWJOBS and CLOSEUPS. Most significantly to create the specialty porn of ALL-MALE SOLOS in which I could witness masturbation and men exhibiting their stiff erect dicks for the camera. My porn collection is focused on MALE SOLOS, from the last fifty years(of masturbation) I watch men and lust after their MASTURBATION, especially outdoors or in the gym showers. Frank Vickers posing with his well-oiled boner in an outdoor poolside mirror was a game changer for my sweet sixteen Masturbation Addiction .
With anonymous encounters and the time spent waiting for “the right male to show up hard and ready” I learned the power of edging and I practiced Prolonged Masturbation and came to understand my masturbatory obsessions as both a Sport that might involve other(men) and Art in which craft of the gripping, tugging and stroking measured the depth of penis pleasure. I was off and running as a Boner Fide Masdturbation Addict and I hadn’t even been to a J/O Club.
I am proud to confess these things as proof of my addictive compulsive masturbatory habits and my proud dedication to living with Masturbation Addiction.
Titsexual
post by brnout » Tue Apr 29, 2025 9:47 pm
Ever since I started masturbating to porn, I had a special love for big tit porn. But since I discovered edging to it, now I can masturbate for hours at a time. It’s so hot, how addictive edging can be, how tits can keep me saturated with horniness, so close to orgasm, for so long. The way everything I touch, every babe, every tit I see, becomes completely sexualized. I pretty much never really feel like fucking any more, except for titfuck fantasies. I have become so completely titsexual, pussy can’t keep me hard, even porn pussy. They call it partialism, or mazophilia, or some crap. I call it focus. I’m obsessed with tits, with stroking for tits. I’m always preoccupied with when can I watch more tit porn and start stroking again, and even just thinking about touching myself gets me hard.
Tit porn has become my primary source of pleasure, and I even changed jobs so I can spend entire weekends bingeing constant self-pleasure. I have left my friends and family behind, and I don’t bother with hobbies any more. I stay in with my window shades down and stroke all day and most of the night with huge tits overflowing all my computer screens and even huger tits on my projector. It’s like cleavage paradise and it’s getting deeper all the time. In fact, I think my tit addiction is getting more powerful than ever. Constant edging for tits is becoming something I actually need to do now, not just something I love doing. I have to keep stroking but after a few hours it’s not even really a sexual thing any more, it’s more like the porn is becoming an end in itself. Tits are in charge and I can’t help it . As my addiction keeps getting deeper, I always crave more tits, bigger tits, deeper cleavage, more edging. But edging has to plateau at only 24 hours in a day, and before long there won’t realistically be any porn babes with tits big enough for me. I’ll need to find ways to make tits more intense and more consuming — titnosis, maybe, or just toons and fanciful AI. Even so, I think I’m on the right track. What do you think?
Re: Signs of the Chronic Masturbator
Post by Samantha » Thu Feb 27, 2025 11:05 am
My relationship with my wife and my chronic masturbation has evolved over the years. We used to have sex frequently with penetration but overtime that happened less and less and I would hump her legs and feet after her orgasm u til I would cum. If I took too long she would push me off and make me stop. I would then lay beside her and hump my hands until she made me stop. I was already wearing panties by then but not in front of her. I started sneaking off to another room, putting in my panties and play with myself on the floor. I found that I enjoyed that even more than sex with her. I could control my orgasm with edging and play for hours. I have very little desire to have sex with her anymore and have replaced sex with her with porn and toys. I love it. And when she catches me I love the humiliation. She knows how much I play with myself and will always announce when she is entering a room.
God I love being able to talk about this with others like me!
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