a lady said:
Am I the only straight female under 40 in this group? And I have a
question for all the guys, what is the turn on for a guy to cum on a
woman? – I personally think it is disrespectful for a guy to cum on a
womans face but yet all men seem to enjoy cumming on both pics and
women. Thanks.
Linda
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masturbators replied:
It may be a power thing, but it also may be the fascination some have with their own cum and marrying that to the beauty of a woman’s face. I can’t swear for a fact which it is for me, I tend to think it’s probably some of both. All I can say is I find cum beautiful and a woman’s face or body (depending of course) beautiful, and mixing the two looks great. My wife enjoys it when I cum on her tits on occassion, and I think that’s certainly a pretty sight. That’s just my two cents. As others have said, indeed, not all guys are into cumming on women.
Oh, and, btw, being bi, I enjoy cum on my face/body, btw. But I admit, I am submissive in many ways, so I can’t dismiss the notion it’s a power thing. On the other hand, I do enjoy a powerful woman, and re that one of my favorite fantasies is cumming on a woman’s feet or shoes or clothing on her command. As I go on a tangent here, I’m reminded of the time in one of those booths with a woman on the other side of glass where she commanded me to cum on the glass on a count of 10 and then lick it up for her. Great fun!
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I agree, Linda, it is disrespectful. And I think that’s why guys like it.
It’s a power thing, or a humiliation thing. Now, I think if a woman
understands that it’s a turnon for her man, and permits it, that’s one
thing; but if the guy does it against her will, or her wishes, that’s
another. In porn, it’s become pretty much the standard way to show the male
orgasm. The man would ejaculate on the woman to show that he had climaxed.
(if he cums inside the girl, there is no proof that it hasn’t been faked).
Then, after they started showing the climax on the girl’s face, guys began
to like it because of the power thing I already mentioned; and the
popularity took off.
Personally, I’m really sick of the assumption of male dominance in society.
The fact that men are generally larger and physically stronger than women
shouldn’t be extrapolated into any kind of superiority. There’s a more or
less covert misogyny, as well as a reverence for machismo, in our culture
that is really ugly. More power to those of us who enjoy a little power
exchange in our love play, but once we start taking it seriously, trouble
starts. We have to treat each other with respect. If we don’t, we’ll be
forever mired in conflict.
And if you’re under 40 and straight, that’s fine, but neither fact really
matters here. You just have to be friendly and tolerant, and you’ll always
be welcome.
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There are a few things to this:
1) In porn pictures/videos, cumming on a woman’s body shows that the guy actually did orgasm and ejaculate. Not showing the cum might indicate that he didn’t. It’s the real vs. fake issue.
2) In porn pictures/video, the woman is almost always shown enjoying the act of the man cumming on her. This is a turn-on to guys watching and masturbating to the picture/video. He can “cum along” with the guy pictured and pretend that the girl is enjoying him cumming to. Also, the more cum the guy can produce, the more virile he seems to be.
3) In real life, some women do enjoy it. Maybe they don’t like to give blowjobs. And some guys enjoy licking it off of the woman.
lame reply about it being disrespectful.
the second commenter is out of touch with the world. “guys began to like it” after porn started showing it? so we never liked it before? this thing known as Porn (which is invented by humans) is what convinced us to like facials and cumshots? LAME.
1. some women actually like to SEE cum. you can’t argue against that. what, you’re going to tell those women they’re wrong?
2. while not so common, some women ejaculate when they have orgasms. is them SQUIRTING on me a bad thing? Am I not supposed to see that?
you can’t blanket everybody under one criticism for what is a natural male biological function. I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve been asked, “Will you come on my face?” THEY ASK ME. And it’s my pleasure to make them happy. If that’s what they want I give it to them.