Cuckold arousal?

a masturbator wrote:

In another discussion I described how I can’t fuck my wife’s pussy any longer, because I’m so addicted to masturbation that I go limp for the real thing. I’m pretty well resigned to this situation, and will probably never fuck another pussy in my life. On the other hand, maybe my wife needs something that I can’t provide her. More and more I have fantasies of being cuckolded, by my wife or some fantasy girl friend because I’m a totally chronic masturbator incapable of intercourse. These fantasies are really powerful and I often jerk off to photos of women fucking other men, especially when they are looking at the camera as if to taunt me with my incapacity. Anybody else get off to cuckold fantasies? Want to talk on phone about them?

Oh Yes, many of my best fantasies are of the cuckold kind. After she accepts that I will never be able to satisfy her, we reach an agreement. She gives me permission to sink fully into my masturbation addiction and I give her permission to fuck anyone she wants.

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I love imagining what it would be like if my wife made love with
another man.  She is 46 years old with shoulder length brown hair and
has full breasts.  While we still have sex for the time being, I love
masturbating so much that I know I have been missing (skipping?)
opportunities to have intercourse with her because I’d rather
masturbate after she goes to bed.  In fact, I’ve come home early from
work this evening with the sole purpose of cumming to this, my
favorite website, to enjoy 2 hours of edging and masturbating before
she comes home with our children.

Well, back to my cuckhold fantasy.  I have tried on many occasions to
open discussion about her fantasies but she is very tight lipped.
This is arousing for me because I take this as she has something to
hide from me.  I also ask her if she ever fantasizes about having sex
with other men or if she would even consider it.  She actually gets
really mad at me when I even bring up the subject so I haven’t even
mentioned it for about a year.  I try to get her to humiliate my by
telling me she’d rather have another man’s penis inside of her when
I’m inside of her, or by telling me she needs a penis larger than my
tiny thing to satisfy her.  This is about as far as I can get her.

However, I can see her in my mind’s eye allowing her clothing to be
removed by another man.  Getting down to bra and panties, she helps
him from here.  Unsnaps her bra in the back allowing her breasts to
fall slightly due to no support.  Then she steps one leg out of her
panties and then the next until she is completely nude.  I can see
her sitting on our bed, then pulling her legs up and turning so her
head is on the pillow.  As her lover gets on our bed, she spreads her
legs for him.  There was no need for foreplay as she has been
anticipating this and is extremely wet between her legs.  The lover
then begins to slide him penis into her vagina and does so with
ease.  I can hear the cooing sounds and ever-so-slight moans that she
makes as he reaches that moment of deepest penetration.  These are
sounds that only I have been privy to hear and experience for the
last 14 years of our marriage.  I love seeing the man’s penis slide
in and out of my wife’s vagina and realizing the satisfaction she is
receiving from someone other than me.  I love seeing that his
strength and hold of her body is making it almost physically
uncomfortable for her.  In other words, she is being ravished by
him.  I can see that they are both very close to orgasm, as you can
hear their breaths racing as their hearts beat faster.  Then just has
he begins to fill her vagina with his hot semen, she also has an
orgasm at the same time (which is something she has never been able
to do when my penis is inside of her).  After they are finished,
neither of them can move due to the exhaustion.  She reaches for a
towel to stop his semen from staining the bed as it backflows from
her vagina.  Sorry to end with you all but I am now ejaculating…

Bottom line is, I’d better be careful now of what I wish for because
I just never know if and when it will come true.  I’ve also heard if
you think about something long enough, your actions are
subconsciously drawn to taking steps to eventually making it happen.

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In addition to scorn from the woman a masturbator cannot satisfy, I think
there should be some direct humilification by the man called in to fill the
gap.

For example, I think a cuckhold should have to kneel, humbly, and REQUEST
that the man give the pleasure to his wife (in her presence, of course) and
perform the duties of a husband–and explain WHY this request is made.

This request should be performed nude, and should include a remark as
to how, in spite of how, even during this humiliating request, the cuckold
is unable to stop rubbing his stiff penis, that the moment the cuckold attempts
to penetrate his wife’s pussy, he instantly wilts to impotence.

Still kneeling, the cuckold should take off his wedding ring, and place it on
the man’s finger, symbolic of how he is taking over the role of husband.

And I think the most appropriate way for the fuck to take place is for the
cuckhold to lie, face up, on the bed; for his wife to lie OVER him, face up;
and for the man to mount the wife, missionary position.

In this position, he can look down at the face of the cuckhold.

I think a sort of rhythmic, antiphonal chant might be set up to orchestrate
the strokes.

The cuckhold could say:  “I’m a flop of a man, and a limp little noodle,
and tickle my pickle like a hairless boy!”

And the man might answer: “I’m fucking your wife!  I’m fucking your wife!”

One final conceit I enjoy is imagining how the man, upon his semen jetting
deep into the wife’s vagina, might let the cuckhold know, in detail, how many
squirts are taking place inside his wife by SPITTING into the
cuckold’s face, simultaneously, and in harmony with each powerful
spurt out of his penis.

Perhaps the cuckhold would even have to keep his mouth open to receive
the spit upon his tongue, while his wife is impregnated by the sturdy
penis of a REAL man, right over him.

I’d enjoy discussing this subject on Skype with a man who enjoyed it too.

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I would love to talk about the arousing fantasy of being cuckolded. For several years now I have been unable to perform sexual intercourse, because I lose my erection in the attempt. It is a combination of performance anxiety, masturbation habituation, and loss of interest. I really WANT to have sex, in my imagination, but in reality can’t carry it off. So this has resulted in a growing fascination with the idea of being a cuckold. It will never be a reality, given my wife’s nature, but the idea is exciting. My wife does play along in other ways, by masturbating me in humiliating ways and teasing me about my “little dickie that thinks it can” etc. I also have Small Penis fantasies.

In my fantasy though, my real wife is replaced by some fictitious lover/wife/mistress/girlfriend; imagining my real wife is a bit to personal for me. My fantasy lady has sex openly with other males and teases me for my incapacity, perhaps even locking me in a chastity device while she is being penetrated by another. A lot of my Captioned Muses show what is going on in my mind.