The purpose of a chastity device is to provide a cosmetically appealing, safe, and totally secure device which will control your partner’s orgasms. When you require your partner to wear a chastity device, he will not be able to see his penis, he will not be able to touch his penis (not where it will do him any good anyway), and it will absolutely deny him the control to masturbate to orgasm by himself
The cornerstone of understanding why this device is so effective is two fold, and cannot be over stated: 1) A chastity device allows you to totally control your partner’s masturbation. Your ability to now control your partner’s masturbation and to provide the only relief for him, is a powerful tool. Few women ever come to realize how important masturbation-denial really is. Most women believe they have control over sex in the relationship and they incorrectly feel this gives them some sort of control. Controlling sex is not the same as controlling your partner’s orgasms. Just because you are controlling sex, don’t be misled into thinking that your partner is not orgasming without you. Most women just don’t realize how much most males masturbate. And, they certainly would never admit to themselves that their man is doing it. After all, you’re not doing it, and you wait for sex with him. Shouldn’t he be waiting faithfully for you? Well, wake up honey and smell the COFFEE. Recent studies show that it is not uncommon for males between the ages of 25 and 40 to masturbate at least 3 times per day. This shocks a lot of women. I hope it doesn’t shock you, because not only is this normal, it is so very important that you know how much your man masturbates, and what a huge part it plays in his life. Because , you are about to deny him a tremendously significant act, and not only that, you are going to control when, and how much he can orgasm.
OK, so now you know the naked truth about what a big deal masturbation is to men. Next, lets talk about what men are doing when they are masturbating. Remember, that the studies show that men fantasize when they masturbate. They fantasize about everything, everyone and anything, when they enter their favorite personal fantasy sex world. I like to call this their personal masturbatory fantasy world. Again, don’t bother asking him about what he fantasizes about, he’ll only tell you its always just about you sweety. I’ll tell you this: His fantasies may very well have you in them, but you probably would be surprised at all the dirty little things you do for him and maybe who joins you. It isn’t important to know what he fantasizes about, what is important, is to know that this is what all males do when they masturbate, and yes, your sweet guy also does some of this himself.