Jack–masturbatum – The conditions for sexual life centered on masturbation are here; the necessity for men to be ‘caring providers’ is relaxing with economic independence of women, and cyber networks allow maturbators to communicate and encourage ‘advanced’ solosexuality. The signs are there…solosexuals are appearing in media, not as pimply nerds, but as a legitimate sexual choice.
The biggest transition is in the social attitude toward alpha-males, which in past has driven men to strive for pussy fucking even when they are not suited for it. The awareness of the damage caused by toxic masculinity is supporting a more positive attitude toward less aggressive sexuality. Women want to be in charge of their own sex life, and men want to be relaxed from the necessity to fuck pussy (and only pussy) all the time.
The social norm is still very strong, but even within dating (fucking) circles, a lot is changing. Straight-A nerdy girls, who used to NEVER hook up, are leading some of the changes in hook up and #me-too movements, demanding sex on their own terms. More and more women realize they can satisfy their sexual needs best in two ways–masturbation (and sex with women), and hooking up (but not needing to marry) an alpha male. They are not out looking for “nice guys” and pressuring them to have sex to rope them in. That leaves the masturbators free to spend Friday night pursuing the kind of sex they most want to have, and with that new heights in solosexual pleasure are being reached by ordinary men.
Extreme sex–sex that travels far beyond simple fucking or jacking off into realms of erotic fantasy and heightened arousal is becoming easily available (and most easily available without a partner), and is viewed increasingly as a birthright for women AND men, and women can’t deny self-pleasure to men when they are demanding it themselves.
Source: #mental-masturbators