a lady masturbator said to male masturbators:
The next time that you have the time to do this, go to the longest or full length mirror that you have. Notice the lump sticking out as you unzip your pants. Cool, huh? Did you ever notice that it feels good just to unzip? Now, as if you were at the end of a strip tease, remove your underpants. Does the cool room air feel good or is it annoying? Take your family jewels out where they can be easily seen and display them in all their glory. Aren’t they beautiful? The balls are so nice and round, covered with soft fuzzy hair and the color is just perfect for you, to act as a frame for your delightful dick. And what color are they, and what color is the shaft? Black, chocolate, cool brown, warm beige, yellowish red, cream, or pale white? I saw one once with an incredibly beautiful blush of pink at the tip like you would see on the cheeks of a child. I have seen another one glowing red underneath like a log in a fireplace.
Did somebody decide that your foreskin is a dirty worthless piece of schmuck and have it cut off and thrown away, or are you fortunate enought to still have a foreskin? How far does your foreskin go—just up to the tip, but not covering your urethral meatus—covering just the head, or is it so long that it is drooping with wrinkles down away from your shaft? Take the edge of the foreskin that is closest to the shaft and slowly and gradually pull it down and away from the tip so you can see what it hides and protects. Notice how good just that one movement feels. Is your foreskin so tight that it just barely goes below the bump, or can it be pulled part way down the shaft? It feels good when the foreskin tugs on the place where it is fastened securely and it announces to you “I would feel a whole lot better if you would do that more than once–and maybe just a tad bit harder and faster.”
Do what it has just requested: stroke just long enough and hard enough to get a full erection. Does your dick go straight out like a water diviners rod, does it curl upwards like the toes on oriental shoes, or curl down as if it were bowing in respect to it’s next playmate?
You have been so busy wanking as fast and furious as you can in order to get to the big “o” that you have never treated wanking the same as a slow delicious gourmet dinner—one bite of food at a time, savored for temperature and texture, color and flavor, chewy or smooth, moist or dry. Where does the joy of your life fit into this following continuum when limp and then during play and then after you either choose to stop and edge, or let the cum explode from inside out. How does that feel? Have you ever aimed it at something just to see if you could get it where it was pointed, and wanted to see what it would look like with shiny white blobs and loops of semen dangling from its surface.
Are you kinky enough or brave enough to experiment with using all sorts of string, cords, ribbons and ropes to tie up various parts of your magnificent wealth. Are you willing to go look it up to make sure you do no harm while experimenting like that? When you cum all tied up like that, does it make it more exciting, more joyous, or does it just hurt instead?
Place a finger cot, or rubber glove on your right hand and slowly massage all around your wrinkled muscularly ringed hole. Does it feel good or are you so embarrassed you just do it real quick. Do not run away. It has no teeth. It cannot bite you. Just relax and notice how it feels good to massage that area. Now slowly slide your moistened with water or lubricant finger inside and wiggle the finger around whereever you can reach. Feels good, doesn’t it? Try to find your prostate and if you cannot reach, then find someone willing to be a partner to introduce you to that part of your body.
Nobody (parents) ever taught you those things as a child did they? Every time you were found with your fingers anywhere near that part of your body your hands were slapped and you were told to leave it alone—maybe even threatened with blindness. And that is still happening today, I am sorry to say. Are you willing to share this with a buddy or friend so that they no longer flinch nor hide when they see or manipulate thier body?
Don’t ask me where it is, but did you know there is a site online where you can go to learn how to wank “properly”. And please make sure that those delights of your life are not used to hurt others, mskr sn unwanted baby, nor exposed to a myriad of germs and bacteria, so they remain safe and sound, and healthy.