a masturbator said:
Glad you’ve gotten something out of reading of my
experience and realised that you don’t have to be gay
to enjoy masturbating with someone of the same gender,
neither does it MAKE you gay, gays are born gay and
look upon men in the same way that straight women do.
Just a word of caution to those members that might be
thinking of ‘sounding out’ any friends. Don’t! Mike
seems to have been lucky but I have heard numerous
tales of guys that suggested this to a friend and,
with the excitement of the moment, gone ahead only to
find that the friendship quickly deteriorated after
that. The reason is that the friendship was based on
other things, not sex, and don’t forget you both have
mutual friends, you never know what the ‘friend’ might
say to others that know you. That’s what makes a
‘special friend’, (a wanking partner) special, he (or
she) doesn’t know your friends, relatives, workmates
and you don’t know theirs so, no matter WHAT happens
in the future, and even if your special friend tells
everyone they know, none of them know YOU so your
secret is safe. This gives you both a feeling of
security and you can really indulge yourselves by
describing favourite fantasies whilst stroking and
thus share the feelings. Believe me, when you know
exactly what point your partner is at, YOU get the
same feelings, even though you’re receiving no
stimulation at that moment. When the other partner
cums, it’s not unusual to feel as if YOU’VE cum! You
get the same feeling of satisfaction, believe it or
not! As my partner observed, it’s like having TWO
wanks, one when each of you cums!
I strongly suggest that nobody should imagine they
could do this with someone who is a current friend,
you MIGHT be lucky, like Mike, but imagine what the
friendship would be like if your friend gave you a
sideways look and declined the suggestion!
Rick