In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:
I know for a fact that people can tell the difference between a player, a relationship man, and a Peter Beater. I have been mostly a Peter Beater, but I thought private matters where supposedly obscured but I think somehow people can tell by the way we carry ourselves. Can I get some feed back on this?
good q uestion Stephen.well my wife’s [ she passed way 2 years ago] know about my life as an impotent cuckold, i let her sisters caught me stroking many times. my g.f. now know of my addiction to solo sex [she is an expert on computers]i leave her by herself in my place so she can read about me on my computer[ turns me onto be known as a pathetic masturbator , makes me stroke furiously] i don’t know if she told her daughter [they are very close ] she made some remarks about me having a lot of times by myself etc….i sure hope my g.f. will cuckold me,if she hasn’t already.[ she goes by herself to a club were there is many single guys ] at the pub i go by myself [ g.f. doesn’t drink ] there is still two waitresses left from the time my wife was going with some of the pub costumers, the two girls know about me.the other waitresses as well as ladies costumers i know most sense some thing maybe they think ‘m gay? or the waitresses talk among them self? or
most likely it show in my looks [ skinny, pale,most of the time stroking with my left hand trough the hole in my pants pocket.i stroke slowly but love for people to notice and be known as an addicted wanker.i was blessed with a big cock 8″ and the elastic bandage i use gets it bloated and fat around .i wish it was even bigger for people to notice more.so stephen by my behavior an observer would conclude than yesss i’m a masturbator.[ they would be surprise how much i stroke ] segaiolo
In some cases I think it is very obvious. A guy who is nerdy and awkward, clearly interested in girls yet always alone, might as well have “masturbator” tattooed on his forehead. I think girls look at a guy like that and think “I’d never fuck him and probably no one else would either. He’s horny and he’s alone, so he has to be a masturbator.” This was me in my younger days.
Sometimes it’s more subtle – maybe the guy doesn’t look that nerdy but he’s shy and awkward around women, shows no confidence, can’t look them in the eye, doesn’t know what to say. This guy is obviously not experienced with women so it’s not hard to guess that he’s probably a masturbator.
Actually when I was young I fit into both of those categories.
I think women can sense a masturbator and for me that’s a good thing. I too love to beat my meat, small and single I have noticed women react to me by pulling their skirts tighter or closing their legs or giving me a sternlook as they catch me sneaking a look in my local coffee shop, it’s as if they know I am going to go home and masturbate myself longing for pussy. It’s as if they can sense my shame that my sex life consists of rubbing and beating my meat but also that my excessive masturbation gives me great pleasure. It’s exciting to me when women look at me and think Peter beater.
i know people can tell we are maturbators by looking in our eyes…bator eyes…i feel people can see by looking in my eyes that i masturbate all the time..everytime i use a public restroom i feel they know ive been masturbating in there…maybe its just me wanting them to know how proud of a masturbator i am…
I like to think that females can recognize masturbators by the subtle signs referred to in the previous posts. I like to think that they are sympathetic and take special pity on us. I also am grateful that they harbor no false expectations of our sexual capabilities and therefore are not disappointed by our failures.
My married female friend of 7 years, like me in her mid forties, asked me if I had a girlfriend when she first met me I told her no, a few weeks later she walked up her basement stairs in front of me, she suddenly pulled her skirt tight I guess to prevent me looking up, which I hadn’t intended to do, she probably thought I would get a look and as I was single obviously I would go home and masturbate. At the time I was insulted and a little embarrassed as she clearly sensed I was a masturbator, but she was right I had masturbated to her and have done so many times since. I still see her and she knows I am still single and it excites me now to think she must suspect I am content to masturbate and feel no need for a partner. I wonder what she would say if she knew how MUCH I masturbated,how often I think of her when I masturbate, that It excites me to post intimate details of my masturbation for others to read or that I fantasize about masturbating with other people men and women and that I am a chronic meat beater.
Of course she knows you are a masturbator, Phillip, girls always know, and I think that some married women appreciate us all the more if they allow themselves to think about how a little sight of a breast or a leg or a hot nipple will lead us to worship her as a sex goddess.
And some will take pity on us, knowing, instinctively, how MUCH we do masturbate, and how hopeless and pathetic we are. And I wonder, since you have know her for so long, if she’s perhaps discussed you with your mutual friends, as some time or another…just a hint or a word, or even a fleeting expression…
Whether a human male is a player or not, if he as a functional penis, he’s a
masturbator. It goes with the territory.
Back when I was in my youth and dating girls, after a date, whether I got
laid or not, I always masturbated.
After I got married, it wasn’t but a month or so that I was clandestinely
jerking in the shower, despite getting laid several times a day.
These days I often do it in bed as my wife is snoring by my side.
Now that father time is catching up with me, my only regret is that I didn’t
masturbate even more frequently back during the years when I could ejaculate
many times a day. What was once a multiple gusher is now little more than a
dribble. Of the gushers, I have only the sweet memory of that delicious
sensation of ballooning urethra.
So to all you youngsters, know that life (which is short) is divided into
just two phases — ejaculations and all that other stuff that happens in
between. Have all the ejaculations you can as many times a day as
circumstance permits while you are still able. Before you know it you too
will be limited to a once a day dribble.
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I don’t have any problems with whether women sense I’m a masturbator or not . I’m an exhibitionist, and enjoy masturbating for them and letting them see me!