A masturbator wrote: Pathetic Masturbators versus Real Men

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

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There are two types of males out there in the world; pathetic masturbators like us and real men. The thing that sets us apart from real men is our decision to give up on competing for women. For whatever reason, shyness, ugliness, low self-esteem, we cannot establish a meaningful relationship with women. Instead, we have sought sexual gratification through manipulation of our own genitals.

“Why make an effort to attract a woman when you can just reach down a stroke your own cock?”, Pathetic Masturbators ask themselves, “The effect is the same. All you want to do is achieve orgasm.”

In contrast to us, real men compete for more and more attractive women. They build up their bodies with exercise while we waste our bodies with masturbation. They are busy earning money to impress their sexual partners while we squander what money we have on pornography to feed our masturbation habits. They interact closely with women, gauging which ones would be ready for sexual conquest while we shy away, too timid to even talk to them.

Instead we slink away to the dirty holes we call home, barely containing the urge to masturbate until we are behind closed doors and are free to indulge our pathetic fantasies about women who would never give us the time of day, let alone a chance at their pussies.

Stroke away pathetic masturbators. This is the life we have chosen.

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yesss rodney,due to years of almost constant masturbation, when time available,and rejections by the superior ladies, or if accepted it is only because of our financial aid,they can sense a solo sexual. we have a very low self esteem. unable to control our addiction,we keep on doing longer and longer sessions,it change our brains getting us unable to slow down our increasing craving.. i was a married cuckold for many years,submissive to a dominant lady,stimulated by her busy sex life,humiliated by her sisters and her many friends.haven for such a mommy’s boy. yes rodney u r right! after all u should know being such an avid wanker. segaiolo

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Hit the nail on the head – I cannot get erect for real pussy anymore. The massive amount of porn that I watch, combined with my fetish for being a solosexual masturbation addict, has rendered me impotent except for my hand.

It has been this way since my early 20’s, which I know is pathetic. The shameful memories of not being able to get hard for girls, specifically my GF, who eventually broke up with me, fuel my bate to this day.

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I have to get back to work but had to check in to feed my pathetic nature; i’ve gone deeper in my masturbation solely into humiliation and starting to wonder if i will ever get off to anything else; i felt compelled to send a note to my Wife telling her how i crave it and that i’d like to get back to our normal mutual masturbation but now can’t see anything but being at her feet, need it so bad and so horny; she’s not responded but she’s used to my pathetic notes and i ask her not to respond unless she wishes to.

and as you say Richard the worst part is how fucking pathetic it is that being a useless loser makes us hot

i am at a coffee shop to get work done, and i got up and realized i had a major erection, had to walk carefully, fucking pathetic loser

back to work

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the last time i penetrated was on my wedding nite when i was 22 years old even then i couldn’t orgasm in my wife stretched out large hole. i had to get it out and stroke it to her amusament.i never tryed again. i was bon to be an avid solosexual ,when alone ,at it constantly.i only need more and more porno totemporarily satisfy my craving. segaiolo

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It’s so pathetic that this gives me an erection.

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Servufon, i don’t know what’s more pathetic your single-minded SPH addiction or me but my tiny dick is ready to jerk off for anything of an erotic nature all day and nite. Every morning I’m on chaturbate exposing my tiny dick to humiliation and jerking off looking at all the amazing guys, all with cocks at least triple my size. Alittle later I go on to all the tumblr blogs i follow; young girls, beautiful women, musclemen/women, tiny dicks, big cocks, gay, hetero, group, voyeurs…and continue wanking and cumming. If I go out i take my laptop and continue on tumblr but even with an erection i can confidently get it up without even being “noticed” – 3″ doesn’t “tent” very much.

God Yes, I revel in being an LDL. It’s pathetic that the only constructive thing I do in life is jerking off. I can’t even write this message without stopping to jerk off. God, I it’s so fucking great being a compulsive chronic masturbator; OMG I can’t stop!!!

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it’s single-minded these days, but less “SPH” than humiliation in general (foot worship, verbal abuse, ) for being an inadequate loser; although i enjoy SPH it’s usually so phrased to be “tiny” dicks that it sometimes seems not to include me (i’m give or take a 5 incher, sometimes over 5.5″, sometmes just over 4″, but the real drawback is the lack of girth, again not terrible or so out of the ordinary, but IIRC 4-4.5″ circumference, around an inch less there in circumference).

but yes lately i only want to hear and experience humiliation, the only thing i deserve

i guess we’re just pathetic

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Yes – although there have only been a couple times I have had the “opportunity” to go soft since my break-up (as you can assume I am not exactly a ladies man), and none in the past several years.

These days I choose to stay at home, in my edge cave, and masturbate for essentially all of my free time. I live alone, have close to no social life, and watch a mix of porn (mainly humiliation and cuckold, with a mix of bbw, amazon, big dick, and dp thrown in occasionally). I am a complete no-life loser, when I think of how deep I have gone the mix of shame and arousal is overwhelming.

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I keep reading all yout posts and getting harder and harder. I´m 21yo, never fucked a real pussy cause i´m scared so I guess this is my faith.

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This is so inspiring! I too went on a masturbatory overload the last few days I outed myself to so many classmates and friends on Facebook. OMG it was so erotic!!

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I plan to post my results and write about it later tonight. It was a huge session and went on for hours
and hours.

I will post the exact thing that I said, it was very well crafted and executed. Yes I sent individual messages, at open point I had 12 open at once!!!

Many people were very supportive, I will show you I am fascinated by this and very very proud of my work. I really exposed and humiliated myself. I can feel the sexual tension around me even know, like a shameful lusty afterglow!

Both men and women in fact I just got a reply over there from someone that was one of the most Delicious results I ever expected. Frankly I am still excited about it and cant wait to see her reply back from yesterday. I poured it on really thick.

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yes i know what you mean

nobody but us can understand this; they can have pity or even be amused, but they don’t know….which makes it worse, knowing we’re so fucking warped and deranged, but it’s our life

i realized recently just what my Goddess Wife’s bed chuckle is….it’s same as those humiliating vids, that laughing AT you not with you

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i would not be allowed. :)

it’s been an interesting day, my Goddess Wife has been seeing me over the top horny and has lightly teased but given no clue if i will get any relief

when i told her i should have worn some panties as my cock was dripping cum, she was bemused and did say to me i needed to keep it covered since “I have to be seen with you”

little things like this today to drive this pathetic LDL crazy…

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I know I am a pathetic solosexual. I stopped being able to perform my “manly” duties of intercourse in my early 20s, due to my blossoming masturbation / porn addiction. Now I am relegated to my bate cave, living alone, no friends, constantly edging. I love this. I need this.

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Mmmmmm…. I have loved reading this msg thread. I haven’t attempted to fuck my wife in six months and only then because it was “a special occasion”. Nothing since. I could barely keep my cock semi-erect for her. I love masturbating in my basement home office much more than being in my marital bed. It’s amazing to me that you can actually masturbate to the point of being impotent around pussy. Apparently, I’ve done it as have many of you. I’ve become so addicted to porn as well, but have no desire whatsoever to be “cured”.

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It’s amazing to me that you can actually masturbate to the point of being impotent around pussy. Apparently, I’ve done it as have many of you.

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mmmmmm…yes!!! mmmmmmm! I was 40 years employed and had a job I always was practically alone at my office so even I could be naked at work and masturbate all day.
But since 13 years I enjoy my retirement and can pathetically masturbate all day from early morning til late evening.

Life, and other unimportant stuff, is what happens….. during the not more than 1 hour… I allow myself between one great orgasm after hours of edging-masturbating session and the beginning of the next long lasting wank session.

I’m not only pathetically masturbation addicted but also I have learned andhard pratcticed to overcome that stupid refraction period after orgasming, so after about half an hour normally I’m hard again and masturbating wilder than the prior masturbation session. A sweet and pathetic masturbation addiction and compulsion… I can enjoy

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Me too….I have a large thick, uncut 8 incher, six inches around that needs long periods of masturbation ever day.
I think those of us who have big dicks and especially if you have thick, loose foreskin like me…we need to masturbate more than some others. My cock has thickened over the years and my foreskin looser and so arousing to play with….I don,t know if others feel this way but….my orgasms at this stage of my life, now over 60 and in good shape, are so strong and intense every time. I moan and writhe around and pant for several minutes at each orgasm…it is so deep and intense…much more than when I was younger. Anyone else experiencing this?

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I experience the same always I orgasm. I’m 73 and also in best shape. My big thick dick is 18 cm long and also 16 cm around and also need several long lasting masturbation periods everyday. My orgasms also are stroger and more intense as years before.
And as I reach to orgasm 3 – 4 – 5 at each day and as I ejaculate almost nothing, the last few daily orgasms, the strenght and intensity of the feeling, the lust, the pleasure… increases

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I think it is a vicious circle that pulls us in. Sexual inadequacy (with partners) leads us to self gratification, which leads to greater feelings of inadequacy, which leads to failures with partner sex, which leads to greater self gratification ….

For me the need for humiliation goes very far back, long before I became a masturbator. At 6 I can remember experiencing a strange excitement at certain submissive scenes in movies, and having fantasies of being exposed naked in front of crowds.

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I reckon it’s the amount of porn we look at that makes us impotent for fucking rather than our excessive masturbation. You could try jacking off without porn for a week or 2 to see if it makes any difference. Easier said than done for guys like us.
Luckily my gf’s sex drive is just about nonexistent so I can wank to porn as much as I want without any concern about getting a hard on for fucking.

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This has happened to me a number of times, always when I’ve been edging all evening and finally allow myself to cum when I’m becoming too exhausted to keep going. The feeling of relief as the orgasm dies off causes me to nod off for a few seconds. I suddenly wake up convinced I have been naked and jacking off in front of everyone at work.
I figure it’s a subconcious thing, wanting everyone to know I’m an avid masturbater.

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what about if you watch porn with Wife during sex and still don’t get it up or it goes limp in?

or does this not happen to people? or does nobody’s else’s wife watch porn with them during sex?

i think that tends to show for some people (if it’s not just me) that it can be the difference in the feel of the hand or such versus the pussy (or even, for some, another person’s hand; tho i have failed to get it up for a handjob, too, before)

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On the rare occassion we do have sex it mostly involves me having my head buried between her legs. Hard to watch porn when you’ve got a face full of pussy. She’s not into porn anyway so it ain’t going to happen.
I’ve failed to get hard to hand jobs and blow jobs but then the technique of the person giving it has a lot to do with how my cock reacts too.

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I’ve tried combining intercourse with pornography and/or fantasy. I still go limp.

I agree about the need for the feel of the hand. I sometimes go limp when I try to fuck a plastic pussy, too. So it’s not just performance anxiety. I need HAND PUSSY

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since my teens i always needed verbal abuse and humiliation. i was in haven when i was married ’cause i was known as a cuckold only good at masturbating by every body including her family. this went on during all my married life. the feelings of inadequacy and low self esteem are a great stimulus to my daily sessions, allowing me to stroke more and more to reach the evening totally exhausted.life of a masturbator.

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I have noticed a lot of the facets of my masturbation addiction stem from some sort of vicious (virtuous?) cycle. A prime example of this is my addiction to masturbation. For me, the knowledge that I am a hopeless solosexual masturbation addict turns me on. Because I am turned on I spend more time masturbating, making me more of an addict. The increased addiction makes me even hornier, making me masturbate more, etc.

This cycle has been going on for many years, with me sinking deeper and deeper into the addiction every year. I am now at the point where I typically edge 6 hours on weekdays, 12 hours on weekends, and still want more. Needless to say I have no social life, love life, or any life really outside of bating and a menial 40 hour a week job that I am overqualified for. I have given up everything for the pure pleasure of masturbation, and still want more…

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I agree as well. I’ve been increasing my masturbation for well over 50 years. The more I msturbate the more I can masturbate but no matter how much I masturbate it’s never enough. Just knowing that I’m in this glorious spiral of more and more masturbation makes me masturbate more and more.

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My wife has put on porn several times (all more than six months ago) to enhance our sex experience and to keep me excited. At best, I maintained a semi-hard erection. I think we ended up rubbing our own selves off while watching. It was just easier that way…

Masturbating just feels sooooo good.

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Re that cycle, agree, there is the element also some have like me with humiliation and that i think of how humiliating it is to be someone who gets off to humiliation, which invites more humiliation then more thinking about that etc.

i love your note, that’s beautiful re your 2nd paragraph

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agree with u guys, it is a vicious cycle. i always needed humiliation and verbal abuse . i got a lot during my married life, from my domm. wife. to be known by every body was a potent aphrodisiac to this sicko.

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I would love to see a real scientific study done on this effect and the reasons that people engage in such a cycle. I also wonder if each time it gets deeper and more incurable? I have varying opinions on my own behavior, as in the past it seems I was more extreme, but is the pathology now more ingrained… who knows

There is no doubt that there is a major turn on for me with the whole humiliation cycle. I am riding probably one of the biggest waves since I got fired and used to email my former female co workers & the female co workers after I left !! LOL

No really I have my Facebook buzzing and to know I exposed myself and confessed to that many people is amazing.

I know I promised details and write ups to give details ( I really want to share this all part of the humiliation process I am sure) however I actually still have a few reply trickling in. Over all the results have been both UNREAL with some of the explicitness of the conversations as one group member can attest to a small sample I showed him ( you know how you are wanker boy)

I think people will be VERY surprised at the results, but again I want to take the time to present them in a discreet, but candid way. So please bear with me.

Besides I haven’t figured out where and how to post but more than likely there will be visuals and I will post them here with a message over at Onania since you can upload files here.

In the meanwhile I am being forced by my humiliatrix Missy Priscilla to once again remind you to visit her site and keep visiting. Lots more to come and do sign up to the newsletter so that you are first to know when we make new pics and vids and lots of other things…

Hey there I have been waiting for you http://missprissxxx.com/

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