a masturbator wrote:
I read your post about masturbation management and ruined orgasm I am very interested. I have always enjoyed having someone else control and/or manage my masturbation sessions and the circumstances under which I may masturbate.
My past experiences with masturbation control have been a positive one. I have had had several (now ex) girl friends control my masturbation in various ways including edge play, orgasm denial and of course ruined orgasms.
One girl friend would watch me start to masturbate. When I had a full erection, she would take over with giving me a hand job. Prior to having an orgasm, she would stop and tell me to “cool off” by having me stand facing the corner of the room (this became known as “corner-time”) with my hands either at my side or behind me for a specific time period or until I had lost my erection. Then she would start all over again, having me masturbate until erect, her giving me a hand job until I was about to orgasm and then stopping with another round of “corner-time”. Sometimes she would repeat this process 2-5 times or until she got tired of it and had me stop all together for the day or have me finally orgasm. Either way, she almost always had me go down on her until she was sexually satisfied. As our sexual relationship progressed, her need to intercourse became less and less. We would always end up with hand job and “corner-time and more often than not, a completely “ruined orgasm” with her laughing.
After a few months of this, my girl friend felt she would take advantage of her “masturbation control” over me and have me not only perform “comer-time”, but also have me perform domestic duties for her. She had a two bedroom condo. Sometimes she would have me in a sexual frenzy for several days and use this energy to have me vacuum, dust, clean dishes, iron her clothes, run her errands, go shopping with her, etc., etc. I think you get the idea, Richard. By the time we reached this stage of our relationship, she had total control over my penis, my masturbation and my orgasms all without a chastity device. This went on for almost 6 years. We eventually ended our relationship when I moved.
I would enjoy discussing the options of masturbation management with you soon.