I am new to this group and I want to thank you for letting me join.
I am a masturbator.
I have always masturbated but I thought that when I got married it would stop. Wrong. I would start to mount my wife and as soon as my cock head penetrated her pussy, I would go limp. This went on for a long time in our marriage.
We tried watching porn. I would get quite an erection watching hung men take their huge penises and fuck these hot women.
I would roll over on my wife and as soon as my cock touched the opening of her pussy I would go limp.
She would let me manually stimulate her to orgasm and then I would masturbate myself.
She soon tired of this and one day brought another man into our bedroom. Her reasoning was that maybe if I saw some one else able to stay erect inside her I would be able to as well.
Well, I did get a hard erection watching him mount her and bring her to orgasm with his huge cock. However, I still had the same problem and when my penis touched her vagina, I went limp.
I have now resigned myself to the fact that I will always be a masturbator.
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In my case I simply stopped having sex with the wife and I devoted myself to the upward spiral of masturbation addiction.
We don’t talk about sex–it simply doesn’t happen. I just masturbate and masturbate and masturbate.
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After my wife started bringing friends home she had me try it with the man she had invited. When I tried to mount him I had the same results, went limp.
I do enjoy masturbating so not too disappointed.
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On the rare occassion my gf and I do anything sexual together i give her an orgasm orally then I jerk off. Even if I can somehow stay hard for intercourse it soon bores me and I pull out so i can wank instead. I’ve never been able to make my gf orgasm from intercourse so it doesn’t bother her that we don’t fuck.
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I know how you feel. I always went limp when I tried to penetrate someone. I am a 47-year-old solosexual but was a very active bisexual in my 20s and early 30s. It has been about 20 years since I have had sex. I have had my share of humiliating instances where I couldn’t even penetrate a girl or a guy. At first, I thought it was because I preferred one sex over the other, but then I realized that I actually preferred wanking and watching porn, which I do most of my days. I couldn’t convince my last girlfriend to try a cuckold relationship but I was able to convince my last boyfriend to whore out his ass while I watched and jacked off. We never had sex, but just kissed and touched each other. He realized that I was a complete jackoff when every time he touched my dick I would go limp. But he was amazed how hard I could get just by watching him get fucked and jacking off. He was an insatiable little prick who was always looking for guys to fuck him. I didn’t care because I was having sex too. Now I am your typical solosexual loner. Except for work, I hardly go out. I stayed locked up in the weekends, watching porn and jacking off up to 25 times. I am pretty hung (eight inches) so there are times my penis gets really bent out of shape — the skin and meat hang over the head. Because I live alone, there are cum stains all over the floor in my computer room. If I don’t jackoff I become very edgy. When I get edgy or anxious, I have to run somewhere — a public bathroom or a closet to jackoff. This comes from the time when I was a teenager and I was working in a storeroom and a set of boxes fell. I ran off to the bathroom and jackedoff. This is the sub-sexual culture that I have chosen. And this group is great because I have met a lot of similar pathetic porn addicted jackers on messenger. I can be who I am.
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its like me, it bores me too, actively fucking a pussy. I stay hard too, but I also pull out and then I furiously bate…
So the only way a woman can get pleasurable orgasms is when I lay down on my back and the woman rides my hard cock.
The first time that happened in my life was almost 60 years ago, 1953, when I was only 13 but alredy had my adult 7 inches big and thick dick (6 inches when limp) and I proudly took HIM to school as a big bulge in my pants. one of my female classmates, Hilda, 14, asked me to fuck her but I said I only could masturbate, so she suggested
she could <<<pussy-masturbate>>> me. That led to years of her riding me at home for hours, almost every afternoon, after school, until we finished highschool
The so nicely depraved Hilda even agreed that her riding my 7 inches gave her greatest orgasms as she could enjoy so much all my 7 inchesdeep filling up every milimeter of her pussy – that didnt happen when a guy fucked her in misionary position