by Justeveryday » Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:48 am
I’m new to this forum. Therefore, a confession: I can’t give up. Sometimes I tried, but it was pointless every time. Relapses came again and again. And they did mean a deeper restart than before. But why detours. Now there is no longer a inner Person wanting to be free of masturbation. You let go such attempts when you are finally a real masturbator At this point I am now: not back, but forward. 8-) :evil:
by hairybi » Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:55 am
Welcome, you belong here, we can’t give it up, it is who we have been and who we are, and whether we have cocks or pussies, we need our hands pleasuring our bodies while we watch sordid porn and think of sex. I can remember dry orgasms at nine, but I also remember my Mother telling me to keep my hands to myself long before that. I tried to stop many times, when I first got married, when I felt religious guilt, and when I was worried about my more than daily orgasms. But, you can’t stop, face the reality, and enjoy it!
by Palmlover » Thu Feb 15, 2024 7:51 am
When you finally realize and accept the fact that you are a chronic masturbator, life becomes so much better and easier. You stop wasting time and energy agonizing over your masturbation habit. You know you want to do it and you know you need to do it. Just embrace it and give in to the pleasure. You won’t regret it!
by DrDave » Sat Feb 17, 2024 6:19 pm
I gave up restraint and shame, and gave in to masturbation, and I’m glad I did. I accept that I am a masturbator and that I crave masturbation and that I masturbate whenever I can and that I am aroused to confess my masturbating to other masturbators and to hear their confessions of masturbating. I confess, I want you to know that I am a masturbator. Proud of my advanced masturbation skills, and continually honing my craft in search of ever greater masturbation bliss.
by Turbine1 » Mon Feb 19, 2024 7:23 am
I started off at 12 years old. I was immediately hooked! I come from a religious family and the number of years I went through the guilts amazes me now. I felt so ashamed after my orgasms and promised myself, “this is the last time!” It would not be more than a couple of days that I would find myself scrolling porn and playing with myself over and over. Finally, after the upteenth time trying to keep my hands off my dick, I gave up and have relegated myself to allowing my body to give me exquisite pleasure. I am playing with myself now. I have to say one last thing. I have been a chronic masturbator for almost 64 years. I will die knowing that through marriage, work life and raising children, I have pleasured myself to my heart’s content.
by DrDave » Mon Feb 19, 2024 2:13 pm
Thank you. When I accepted that I was now a solosexual masturbator it lifted a burden and opened up a new world of sexual pleasure. I enjoyed many years of sexual activity with many women and many men and I’m grateful for that but now ED prevents penetration, my wife refuses giving or receiving oral, and her efforts at masturbating me or each other are so lacking in skill and enthusiasm that I don’t bother. I am my only sex partner now. That’s okay, believe me I’ve had worse. ????
Masturbation always was part of my sexual life, but not like now. Now I embrace masturbation as my sole sexual activity. I embrace “masturbator” as my sexual identity. I give myself permission to explore the world of masturbation to the fullest. Masturbate whenever I want? OK. Masturbate as long as I want? OK. Enjoy any porn or fantasy that excites me, however depraved “normal“ people might call it? Yes. Taste my cock as I masturbate? No problem. Eat my cum after I shoot? Yes, you freaky thing! Let myself descend all the way into the babbling gooning cock drunkenness that I used to think was going too far and now I see as the highest state of expert masturbation practice? Absolutely. As often as you can and as long as you want. Confess to other masturbators how much I masturbate and how much I love it? You know you love exposing yourself. Go for it. Tell them how much you crave your own cock. Describe in detail the ways you worship and serve your penis. Enjoy the thrill. Embrace sharing your masturbation with fellow masturbators who accept and encourage you to masturbate with abandon. Join the community of masturbators who share their masturbation with you and want you to share your masturbation with them. Hearing their stories lets you know that being a masturbator is a real thing, and a good thing.
Being a solosexual masturbator is a very different sexual life than before but in its own way it is quite wonderful. I confess that I love masturbating.
Post by Clive » Mon Feb 26, 2024 5:45 am
Yes, that watershed moment….. I completely understand that. It was exactly how I felt, it was as though I wanted to shout it from the very roof tops “I am a masturbator! A Solosexual masturbator!!” And yes that desire to do nothing but watch porn and masturbate all of the time – the fact is that once in a while that is exactly what I do, an entire day given over to that. True, there have been those times when I have berated myself for having wasted a day but now my attitude has changed. I can masturbate all day if I want to, it is entirely up to me if I want to be totally absorbed by penis, porn and masturbating – I am after all a masturbator – a chronic masturbator. Of course I do wish that long ago I had wholly embraced the fact that I was a masturbator rather than going with the flow and having penatrive sex, which I admit that mostly I didn’t enjoy that much. However, I have to confess that at no time in my life have I ever felt any guilt or shame about masturbating. I believe that I was a born MASTURBATOR, a WANKER from day one!!!