watching women in control? does it make you want to wank?

a masturbator wrote:

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for the last few years, i’ve been watching net videos of women
taking control of wankers (like us) and doing to them as they
please. ie. humiliate, cfnm, ball busting ect.
dose watching these things get anyone else excited. just
curious.
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I sometimes watch  cfnm vids and I admit to watching female doms humiliate and spank guys.   For me it is more a turn on if it is a regular woman type, and she talks dirty with out using swear words,  preferably a younger guy and an older woman,  not so much if they are dressed in leather and spikes,  and not guys spanking guys,  not the same thing.
And I don’t care for bondage.  I want them to be forced to willingly hand over that hair brush or whatever.  Hmmmm,    sounds too much like when we had to go cut our own green switch from the willow trees out back when I was growing up,  and if it wasn’t the “right size”, meaning thick and strong enough,  then the mom threatened to find one that was!!   Yikes that is crueler than the number of swats received.    I have no desire to be personally humiliated or spanked myself,  and I do not care for genuine inflicted pain, not even on film.

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A willow switch. Ouch. At my house it was my did’s belt. I shudder when I think of how many times I heard “wait til your father gets home”. When I saw him unbuckle his belt I knew that my worst nightmare was now happening for real.
But thankfully, that all happened before puberty so it did not pollute my sexual awakening at all. I find nothing erotic in pain, bondage, or any type of physical torment. And no leather, I like my women naked thank you.
Ah but the verbal is something else. I spent so much of my teen years being put down by girls, I wish I had dime for each time I was told “go away” or “I just want to be friends”, only to find out later that the same girl was fucking one of my friends. Of course, after being put down by a cute, sexy girl I would have to go home and jack off. The inevitable result was that rejection and embarrassment became imprinted on my pubescent brain as hugely erotic experiences that still fuel my masturbatory fantasies decades later.
This is starting to sound like masturbatory psychoanalysis. I hope I’m not being charged by the hour for this…
Ah but the edging feels so good, it’s worth it whatever the price! Now I think I will bring up Richard’s latest slide show. Not only is it great jack off material, I want to see if I can pick up any new tricks from his jack off technique which is very different from mine.
Stroke on, my fellow masturbators!

 

My case is not exactly femdom, but since 20 ys, my role in our wonderful 3some relationship is me furiously  stroking, watching my wife and our big endowed friend Diego fucking her. It makes us so incredibely horny, me, watching them so hard, watching Diego’s 10incher going out and in my wife, watching and hearing my multi-orgasmic wife groaning her orgasms, and both they, watching me stroking and finally cumming on them

 

 

Bill, you are so right. I would love to find all the girls who
rejected me sexually as a teen and thank them for what they did. For
me sexual rejection is the best turn-on. To have a woman say “sorry
loser, you are never getting any of my pussy” is beyond wonderful.
Of course after being rejected, we jack off reenforcing the
rejection.

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defintiely appreciate the humilation and overall rejection aspect. it just
seems so natural to me.  i did not have any postive experiences.  i went to
two different high schools.  i was more or less ‘deported’ from the first
one due to a number of embarassing factors in the small town.  there was no
chance at all that a girl would have gone out with me in that school.
in the second school i behaved better and did a little better.  one of my
major dates in high school was going to the prom as a senior. her brother
set it up because he had a date and no car, and i had a car and no date.
there was nothing other than the date.  in fact her boyfriend was waiting to
see her when i took her home.
my other dates consisted of being the cover date for a ‘hoodlem’ friend of
mine.  her parents liked me and hated him so i picked her up and took her to
where he was waiting.  then i disappeared (and read) until he brought her
back.  gee, then people wonder why i am such a cuckold.
other dates were me getting two tickets to a play and attending by myslef so
that my ‘date’ could get extra credit for attending the play (and the report
i wrote for her).  the enlish teacher thought i had some really hot
girlfriends.  he was right, two of them became playboy bunnies.
i do very much enjoy masturbation.  i have not pursued any form of sex that
would require me to penetrate another person in over thirty years.  being
able to do it in the presence of a female is a major pleasure.  laughter and
degrading comments are a real plus.

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