While dating and then engaged, my wife and I were fairly sexually adventures so I fully expect regular sex once married. Oh my!The wedding night, we did not consummate the marriage. Nor the day after.For the first year, we had sex maybe once or twice per month. When I asked her about it she said that was all she wanted. Besides she said, I prefer to masturbate”. When I suggested that we masturbate together she replied that she only masturbated in private.Second year, we were down to once a month or once every second month. I bought her a vibrator and a dildo, hopping it would fire her up during her solo-sex sessions. It did, and she started masturbating more frequently. But no more sex. Instead, she said to me, “Charles honey, don’t you think sex once a season should be enough?”So now, we were down to 4 times a year.We wanted to start a family, so I figured that would up the frequency of sex. But oh no. We were the ultimate fertile couple – pregnant on the first try – for each of our kids.And, no sex for 18 months after each kid was born.Once our youngest was born, my wife said to me, “Charles honey, you asked me to marry you and I said yes. Now I am asking you for a sexless marriage.” So I said yes.We share a bed. we kiss and cuddle. But no sex – no intercourse, no oral, no handjobs, no shared masturbation.
Source: (29) The Joy of Sexless Marriage – Onania Masturbator Forum