Self-gratification over marital sex
Post by chronicperv » Thu Feb 29, 2024 9:33 am
For the last year of our marriage, i consciously avoided sex with my wife of 9 yrs. In place of the ole in ‘n out, i found every opportunity to engage in all-out solo orgies. While driving ,outside in the tree farm i managed and once during Mass in the balcony of the parish church. Porn was my lover and my penis clung to my fist continuously. I am not ashamed but regretful of my disregard for my deprived nympho wife. I still (6 yrs after divorcing) adore the act of the big CUM. This is my reconciliation. My dick and i look forward to more sessions.
Post by goonerpervert » Sat Mar 02, 2024 4:38 am
I call it being solosexual. I am proud of my sexual orientation! But I also have a complicated history with my ‘marital’ situation. She stopped trying years before we stopped even attempting to penetrate. Getting limp sticking it in it was a slow decline. In which I relied on myself more than ever. Gave myself more love than most people are brave enough to.
My life began to revolve around my self loving urges. Acting on them. Or thinking of my next time to do it.
And I love being someone who put self-gratification over marital sex. Years doing it. No shame. My favourite era of this deepening full embrace of my self loving was in 2018-2019 when she would go drink at her girlfriends house overnight leaving me for 12 up to 18 hours. Naked and wanking most of that. Glistening in sweat. Feeling vulnerable at the goon chair…
Nudist in the house wishing I had a close friend over and we would both be naked openly. I would fantasize, masturbate in all rooms, put porn on TV, and go for late night jerk offs in the night air in the backyard. I miss that house. 11pm-1am gasping and stroking, sitting in a cheap white plastic chair.
Heart racing for it.
Falling in love with my fist each marathon wank. I am a masturbator. An expert in self-gratification. Always better than “sex”. Masturbation is sex. Love being a proud penis masturbator.
chronicperv wrote: ?Thu Feb 29, 2024 9:33 am
For the last year of our marriage, i consciously avoided sex with my wife of 9 yrs. In place of the ole in ‘n out, i found every opportunity to engage in all-out solo orgies. Porn was my lover and my penis clung to my fist continuously. I am not ashamed but regretful of my disregard for my deprived nympho wife
Your solo orgies sound so good! I feel similar. I do find a regret that such a nympho only gets tongue kisses and gropes to know I’m still attracted. She resigned I have given up any idea of penetration and at this point there has become zero oral either. Im grossed by her pussy and more often think of other women for any pussy licking fantasy.
Post by JOlover » Tue Apr 02, 2024 5:48 pm
I’m here to say that masturbation lasts a lifetime while marital sex too often wanes and disappears. I masturbated through the years when married sex was wonderful – at least a couple times a week. I’m in my 70s now and still want the pleasure of my hands, and the satisfying release of a self-rubbed orgasm. I wouldn’t say I would have preferred never to have had married sex – it was wonderful too, but masturbation has been more lasting.
Post by BigStroker » Tue May 07, 2024 12:16 pm
I attempted pussy penetration yesterday. I mostly failed. I had taken 100 mg of Viagra and started a masturbation session. Mona (my wife of over 40 years) saw me and ordered me to the bedroom so she could watch. She then called Phil(her current boyfriend) and had him on speaker. Their dirty talk got me so aroused that I had a very rigid penis. Mona told Phil how stiff it was. Phil then told me to fuck Mona! She laid on the bed and spread her legs, offering me her wet pussy. At their insistance I gave it a try. I actually penetrated her about 1 to 2 inches before I began to lose my erection. My penis softened and slid out of her vagina. Phil was listening and they both started laughing, They told me that at this point I’d be nothing more than a chronic, small penis masturbator. As they made fun of my failure I got hard again and was able to masturbate to ejaculation.
by DrDave » Tue May 07, 2024 6:18 pm
I’ve been married almost 45 years. For the first 10 years, my wife and I had wild monkey sex. Best I ever had, and I was fortunate to have had quite a bit. The 25 years after that were a little calmer, but still wonderful. My ED started really kicking in about 10 years ago, sex with the wife declined steadily and now it has been nonexistent for the last several years. During all the time I’ve been married, I masturbated at least occasionally, and really enjoyed it. I definitely did not prefer it over marital sex back when marital sex was good though. When marital sex started declining, masturbation started increasing. More and more I did prefer masturbation. Now it’s sort of a preference, but also sort of a default. Now I masturbate more than I ever did in the past, and I enjoy it more than ever.
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That’s great to hear! It’s awesome that you and your wife have such a clear understanding and respect for each other’s preferences. Being able to focus on what works best for you both is truly important.
I’m very proud of the fact that I’m a masturbator only. My wife respects the fact that I don’t want to have sex and so I’m able to masturbate as much as I want to.