In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:
I’ve told my roomates that I like to masturbate a lot. That’s the easiest way to really explain it without getting to weird. I did show them my sex toy as well so I guess you can’t get much weirder lol. Honestly, I’ve had a few conversation with friends about masturbation and porn. I figure the only way to find a friend that is a masturbator (because I know they’re out there) is to really ‘out’ myself a bit.
Admitting to friends that I’m a masturbator
I’ve lived in secret and sadness for so long and it’s gotten old. Around the time I was turning 30 I changed things up and decided that I would be honest about who and what I am. I told my parents I am bi sexual and I told my best friends my love of masturbation. I told my best friend about Bateworld and the world of guys who really love to masturbate. Not sure if he really understands but it feels so good when he says something like “edging” or “masturbation” in our conversations, knowing that he’s listening and maybe interested. I wanted at least one person in my life to know and he’s my best friend for a reason! He’s straight and I trust him more than anyone on this planet. I’m very lucky.
I’ve told my roomates that I like to masturbate a lot. That’s the easiest way to really explain it without getting to weird. I did show them my sex toy as well so I guess you can’t get much weirder lol. Honestly, I’ve had a few conversation with friends about masturbation and porn. I figure the only way to find a friend that is a masturbator (because I know they’re out there) is to really ‘out’ myself a bit. I love feeling the tension as we continue to discuss our favorite hobby. I’m always bringing it up and will continue to do so. I love masturbation so much!
So I wanted to ask how many of my fellow masturbators are open about to people in their real lives? If none then have you ever thought it?!?
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Time have changed so much and so has acceptance of masturbation as a normal activity, even a lifestyle. I recently came “out of the closet” to several str8 friends and a gay friend. That I was “Solosexual” and so I masturbated quite a lot. My str8 friends were startled and I had to explain more for them to understand. They adjusted though and accepted me. One friend was very curious and confssed he masturbated often but mostly out of pleasure when he had a girlfriend he still regularly had sex with and he needed that. We’ve since both become very open about our masturbation with each other and he masturbated more now from that experience.
My gay friend was thrilled and happy for me from the start. He understood and respected me for it. He fully supports my need and sems to get pleasure knowing when I’m masturbating and how much. Both friends have just been a surprise and such a positive support.
I feel that I can almost cum in my pants.
I will just jack off tonight since I have read your input.
P. S. Maybe you and I could exchange some e-mails.
I have not told any of my friends that I am a Solosexual Masturbator.
I have seen other men openly masturbate in a porn theater.At first I was a little shocked but now I must admit I really enjoyed seeing men masturbating themselves or or other men. After I enjoyed viewing this the next thing you know I am milking my cock for the Voyeurs in the audience.i had a Intense Cum as did others. I would enjoy watching women masturbate in a adult theater but it hasn’t happened.
Once one person starts stroking in a adult theater you heard zippers and see men taking out their throbbing cocks to give themselves penis pleasure.
Wouldn’t it be nice if we had a friend or two we could tell that we are a Masturbator?We could ocassionally meet somewhere and openly give our penis the attention it craves-in the presence of other Masturbators.
I Masturbate A lot to the thought of masturbating for others and myself watching them masturbating for me. Don’t You?Masturbation should be shared.
I’m so Horny composing this my penis is throbbing.I am masturbating for you the reader.Will you masturbate for me?
I can Proudly tell you I’m a Solosexual Masturbator.Are You?