QUESTION: I recently found out that my husband masturbates. This has made me feel very hurt and unattractive. I don’t understand why he needs to do that when I am here. Is it normal for my husband to masturbate in the bathroom when I am available and waiting for him in the bedroom?
ANSWER: You are hurt because you believe that the reason your husband is masturbating is because you are unattractive to him. Although your feelings are understandable, it is more likely that your husband is having trouble with intimacy in the marriage, which includes bringing his sexual needs to the relationship. This could have to do with marital dynamics, but it could also have to do with his own sexual development.
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