Re: How much is too much?
post by Palmlover » Tue Mar 22, 2022 9:04 am
humiliationjunky wrote: ?Thu Oct 01, 2020 2:09 am
But hasn’t anyone noticed that more masturbation leads to some changes? You need “harder” porn for example. That is not so bad as you’re still in control of your masturbation but some have realised that and are embarrassed of their porn taste.
For me personally I have found this to be true but I think it’s a natural progression. For most of us, early in life just the thought of seeing a woman (or man) naked was enough to send us over the edge. From masturbating to bra ads in the Sears catalog to our first Playboy or Penthouse then Hustler (where we saw our first “pink”) on to seeing our first actual porn movie, our porn got gradually “harder”. Then we saw our first anal scene then first threesome scene then first orgy scene then first DP scene then first gang bang scene then first BDSM scene and first lesbian, gay and bi scenes etc., etc., and suddenly those bra ads in the catalog just didn’t do it for us anymore! As I said, I think this is a very normal and very natural progression. In much the same way you spice up your sex life with your partner by trying different positions, wearing sexy outfits, using sex toys, role-playing, etc., watching various kinds of porn spices up your masturbation. IMHO it’s a fantasy world and, for most of us, as long as it remains fantasy then it’s no harm, no foul.
Personally, I’ve run the whole gamut of all the porn that’s available and, quite frankly, watching a “normal” man and a “normal” woman having “normal” sex quit tripping my trigger 20 – 30 years ago. I still like it and watch it some but anymore I require some kind of “kink”, older/younger, IR, cuckold, “family”, shemales, something out of the ordinary (all legal of course) to really grab and hold my attention as I go deeper into the goon state. And yes, the longer my sessions go the nastier and filthier my porn gets but, again, I think that’s only natural. I guess I’m lucky (or just one fucked up unit!) as I’ve never felt any shame or remorse over whatever porn I used to get off to because that’s all I’m doing, just getting off! I use porn as a tool to enhance my orgasms and to let me live out all my perverted, fucked-up fantasies in my head and I see no shame or problems with that.
I’m divorced, retired and have no children. My house and cars are paid for and I have a decent pension. My obligations to the outside world are minimal. I have no place I have to be everyday, all I have to do is pay my bills. I pay for a lawn service and a cleaning service so my house and property are kept up to community standards. Obviously I have a lot of free time to pursue my hobbies like golf and gambling but the one that takes up most of my time is masturbating, a lot! I watch porn and masturbate everyday for as long as I want. It may just be for 2 hours or it may be for 12 hours or anything in between, it’s up to me.
So, how much masturbation is too much? For me, if I stopped paying my bills or was constantly late paying them because I was immersed in my masturbation all the time then that would definitely be too much! But that hasn’t happened and I don’t foresee it ever happening. I do have a couple of girlfriends I see fairly regularly and the only problem I’ve seen from my masturbation is not being able to fuck them properly every time we have sex because I’ve been masturbating for so long that I can’t get hard enough for penetration (which doesn’t matter when I’m masturbating as it still feels wonderful and I can still have an orgasm!). However, on days when I know we’re getting together and the chance for sex is pretty high I do refrain from masturbating so I can “perform”. Actually it’s more of a problem for them because, even though I love the human contact and the intimacy, I’d rather masturbate to orgasm thank fuck.
For others, my bottom line is you must meet your obligations, job, family (if you have one), bills, etc. Once you’ve done that you can masturbate as often and as long as you want and it’s never too much!
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