Fast or Slow?

a lady asked:

I am just curious as to what really gets you fellas going? Is it a
fast stroke? Or a much slower stroke ? Even strokes…What does one
think about when you are pleasuring yourself ?
Especially with that machine LOL !

and masturbators answered:

For me, slower strokes are pure and delicious agony……..arousing
but don’t get me over the edge, but keep me stranded there for a bit !

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Sloooooowwwww!
Don’t get me wrong, fast has it’s place in my heart too, but slooow is the way to gooooo.
It is quite a luxury to have the time for slow stroke masturbation and I enjoy every long, drawn out second of it; getting right to the edge of cumming and then riding that edge with slow, almost unmoving strokes for as long as possible.  Moving from one fantasy to the next in your head until you find the one that fits your mood perfectly at the moment and then luxuriating in it with long, slow strokes.  Quite a few of my masturbation fantasies are better suited to slow strokes anyway so that could be part of the reason for my preference.
Well…there goes the next hour or so of productivity at work.  How the heck am I supposed to concentrate NOW??

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When I am masturbated by a partner, it is definitely slow, and unpredictable
strokes. I want to be made to work for my release, driven to almost
desperation by slow barely adequate stimulation, applied in an irregular and
unpredictable manner.
When I masturbate myself it is quite different. I alternate sequences of
fast hard strokes right up to the edge, then pause and lightly tickle my
penis while I cool down, then start again.
In watching handjob movies, I am always disappointed when the female gives
the male the “ketchup bottle” treatment, assaulting the penis with fast hard
strokes as if shaking ketchup out of a bottle. Perhaps some males prefer
this, but give me the slow and teasing release every time.

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About 3 mths ago I was at a girls apt. and after a few drinks she said that she wanted to give me a cock massage…….I thought, that sounded great and that in about 15 or 20 minutes I would have a great orgasm. But when she started it was evident that she intended for it to last for much longer than that. She was very slow and knew that as long as she massaged it she was in total control, which she was. She massaged and slowly stroked every inch of my cock and when I would get close she would let go and start playing with my balls. She kept this up for at least two hours even though I begged her to make me cum. She told me that I would cum when she was ready to let it happen and not before. She finally started going a little faster and told me to go for it……. I did and it was the most intense orgasm I have ever experienced. Slow is the was to go.