Early Adopters
Post by JOMaster » Thu Nov 23, 2023 10:39 am
In surveys on masturbation practices, there is an interesting connection: the percentage of respondents who started masturbating in childhood (that is, prior to puberty) and the percentage who masturbate well into middle age and older are roughly the same: about five percent. I can’t help wondering—are these five-percenters at each end the same people? Not literally, of course. Some younger people responding to these surveys will be child masturbators. But then…
I started young. According to family stories, I was masturbating by grinding against things while I was still in diapers; I literally learned to masturbate before I learned to walk! And now, here I am in my sixties, still jacking off at least once a day and a lifelong masturbationist. Are those two things related, or mere coincidence?
There a number of posters on Onania who, like me, discovered the rapture of masturbation as youngsters and are now seniors who are still chronic Onanists. Is there a pattern here? Is there a “Use It Or Lose It” effect? The difference between the experience of the ‘average’ masturbator in these surveys and myself is truly amazing. Even granting that many survey subjects are underreporting their real activities (a fairly safe assumption), I am statistically out-wanking the average American male by orders of magnitude [Lucky me!].
Is it nature, or nurture? Are we lifelong jackaholics born or made? My masturbation as a toddler suggests the former, but I also grew up in a sex-positive house where masturbating boys were considered normal and healthy…
Post by hairybi » Thu Nov 23, 2023 3:21 pm
Kinsey’s book, Sexual Behavior of the Human Male, points out that those who mature early, masturbate early, tend to have higher sex drives throughout their lives.
Like JO Master, I started young, but perhaps a bit later than he did! I know I was having very strong orgasms long before I could ejaculate. And like JO Master, as an older men, I am ejaculating daily, and occasionally even more. I think my high sex drive now is definitely related to very frequent masturbation as a child. And I would be willing to postulate that many here who are defined as chronic were masturbating long before they had their first pubes.
I think there is a strong possibility that lifelong jackaholics were born with a high propensity to enjoy sex, but perhaps their upbringing also permitted them to explore it more than most. But let’s face it, the pleasure we experience with our hands on our cocks and pussies is indescribable, and we want and need that joy all the time. That’s why we found others like us on sites like this one, as they understand our lifelong need.
Post by Wet Jane » Fri Nov 24, 2023 9:06 am
I started masturbating at a very young age, I know I was rubbing up against a chair corner in my bedroom around five years old. I also would love the couch arm as I straddled and rode it. I did not know what I was doing, but I did know that it felt good. I have been a very horny woman, and I love sex. I have masturbated my whole life, with or without a partner. I have been promiscuous, and love to have pleasure whenever I can. I have also done some kinky things with partners. I love the nude beach, it is so erotic. I love when I am swollen and wet, as it’s a sign of arousal. I love being aroused. I found my dad’s stash of pornography, and I masturbated to it, he had his magazines between the mattress.
As an adult I’m always thinking about when will be the next time that I can get off. I masturbate every day, especially in the morning. It’s a great way to start your day. Sometimes when I get to work, I think, “An hour and a half ago I was rubbing my clitoris, pretty hard!” I think of myself, naked on my bed, my legs spread, my nipples hard, the vibrator pushing hard on my hard Clit.
I do believe that there is some sense to people who are sexualized early and a higher libido. When I found those magazines, I was curious, and I’m sure I probably had those electrifying tingles and throbs that I still get to this day. I have been called a nympho by a few boyfriends. I have also heard, “ You’re the horniest girl I’ve ever met, you just want it all the time!” I love to get off and I always have. Having others to talk to about my masturbation is wonderful. I have completely embraced it, it always makes me feel better. I think I use it a lot to soothe myself! It makes me feel better, and it works.
I am rubbing on my clitoris right now!!!!