a masturbator wrote:
So the below is an excerpt from what I just sent to a group dedicated to caging
cocks, but as so many here are interested/do this, wanted to please get the same
feedback…
“On to the subject matter now directly, I wanted to get feedback on how people
masturbate while in their cages or otherwise how they like to get themselves
aroused enough for one’s penis to strain against the device, trying in vain to
get hard. Would love to hear your stories. I’m sending this as I’m finding
now the real pleasures and frustrations of getting myself this aroused,
especially as I deliberately watch porn and read dirty stories and fantasize.
I touch myself all over a lot more now, something common from what I hear. I
sometimes hold the device by where the key holds it and I shake the whole thing
to provide stimulation to the penis and a sense of more interactivity, this is
also a less frustrating position.
Hard to type this as currently very aroused.
And that’s the other thing, arousal in the cage is amazing, the attempt and
failure at being hard makes me feel so verty very aroused, it’s almost like
when you’re near orgasm, sort of vaguely. Anyway,it’s so fucking intense. So
in a way masturbation is so much better, at least right now when it’s novel.
But it’s also so frustrating. Can’t of course get hard actually. Last night
got so aroused and got myself so hot that the penis was holding the whole cage
up at an angle such as 45 degrees, although from the bottom side (so in other
words if you think of the traditional degrees as being measured from the
stomach to wherever the line the cock is making, this is really being measured
from the legs upward due to the cage holding the penis down naturally).
Anyway, that’s such a strange erotic feeling, especially when knowing thereis
no release. Wife sleeping now adn anyway she’s busy tomorrow so I dont’ want
to pester her for the key and anyway just for this first time it’s only a
minimum wait until Saturday night. Although I do see why the more attention
thing, more wanting to touch, as one hopes the wife will get frisky enough to
break out the key.
So a bunch of newbie notes….interested in your experiences around this topic
of deliberate arousal and masturbation when locked up. Oh, re that
masturbation part, have found a nice and somewhat relieving method of one hand
on each ball cupping from under and kneading forward. Feels kind of like
“regular” masturbation especially as so close to the penis…yet so far, so
frustrating. ”
Will add that I am staying home today largely to keep myself aroused and wrapped
in feeling this way. Last night was an interesting “masturbation”/arousal
session. Strange not to actually be masturbating yet getting so aroused.
Not only should we feel enabled and empowered to masturbate, but we should be proud of how beautiful it is to pleasure ourselves. Maybe it’s embarrassing to do it out of need, but if you want to masturbate, there are ways of sharing it with others. Webcam random chat sites (see the discussion here: http://lovinglyshared.blogspot.com/2011/10/random-chat.html ) can be great ways to embrace and share your masturbation with others who enjoy it.