…. When a man ejaculates, he receives the greatest natural chemical high that he can possibly experience. Endorphins and enkephalins are pumped through your system straight to the preopticneuron part of the brain, and nothing in the world compares to this experience.
It should go without saying, then, that what we look at before and during ejaculation has a very profound affect on our sexual conditioning. When we release, our brains associate that particular object with sexual gratification. This has amazing implications when you experience sexual release in the embrace of your wife, however many of us come into marriage with our minds already locked onto something else (porn, fantasies, situational conditions) and so the transition to married life is hindered by the things we connected to before our wives.
I mentioned in Part II of this series that the most unhealthy type of masturbation is what author Doug Weiss classifies as “Type C” masturbation; that is, those who masturbate completely disconnected from reality. This an object-focused experience, men in this category objectivify anyone in their fantasies to do anything (picturing the nude model giving oral sex, for example). Many people today claim masturbation within marriage should not only be tolerated, but embraced; that a wife stumbling in on her husband masturbating with a Playboy magazine is a completely normal thing. When it comes to this disconnected, Type C masturbator, however, I could not disagree more. … more Masturbation In Marriage: Part III
a masturbator wrote:
In my 29+ years since I first brought myself to an orgasm, the amount
of times I have jacked off in front of another woman could be counted
on one hand with enough fingers left over to hold a cigarette and
maybe even my television remote control. :-) And, to be honest, those
few times were not under the best of circumstances…that’s a long,
sad story I will avoid telling for now, especially since what I’m here
to write about is much more pleasing.
Sometimes I amaze myself
This morning I was at the end of the lifecycle of a cialis pill, but my gf and I managed to have a nice little fuck, but we didn’t cum and weren’t ready to quit. After I starting losing my erection I let my semi-soft cock dangle against her crack. It was still slippery from the lube and her juicy pussy. I rocked against her for a time, and played with her nipples. It felt pretty good and I was getting excited again, although not very hard. I rolled off to take a break and she started stroking my cock. This started feeling really good and I soon took over myself.
I was stroking away, kneeling between her legs and staring at her pussy as I stroked. She was mostly just lying there listening to me moan. The moans must have started getting to her, as she started rubbing her clit. This always gets me going, especially when she jammed a couple of fingers inside her cunt. I then started to get hard and the feeling was great. I finally felt an orgasm starting and I blew my load all over her pussy.
Then we went out to eat and run some errands. I went home later and was messing about the house. I started feeling some twinges “down there.” I wasn’t doing anything important, and I figured, what the hell. I went into bedroom and took my clothes off. I lay on the bed and started playing with my cock. It didn’t take long at all to get really hard. It felt pretty good and I thought it would feel even better with some lube, so I put some on. Now I was going pretty good, but I couldn’t quite cum. This went on for a while, almost cumming a few times, but ending up having to back off and rest.
Finally I thought “I need some porn.” I went to the computer and fired it up. I watched a couple of blowjob videos, including one with Heather Brooks, who has amazing deep-throat talents. Again, it was feeling great, but I needed more inspiration. I played one of my old favorites, “Couple I Feel Myself.” It’s got a very attractive couple (damn cute blond), amatuers, I believe. It starts very slowly, and it takes a while for them to even get undressed. They start playing with each other. She sucks his cock some, then he starts eating her pussy. By this time I was getting really hot and finally blew my load well before the guy in the video. And it (mine) was a pretty good load, considering it was my second of the day.
I know that’s not a record or anything, even for my age, but I was just happy to get off again, because I have such a hard time usually. Hell, I’m happy when I get a hard-on, but that’s nearly every day, so I’m pretty much a happy guy. And it’s a real bonus if I cum – especially twice!
Oh, did I mention I’m 69?
Sexual activity other than intercourse carries some risk of sexually transmitted disease, and doctors should make sure their patients understand that, according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG).
Many people may engage in “noncoital” sexual activities such as oral sex, mutual masturbation and anal sex to prevent pregnancy and cut the risk of STDs. However, all of these sex acts come with some degree of STD risk, and it’s still important for people to protect themselves, according to an ACOG expert committee. … more All types of sexual activity carry some STD risk | Health | Reuters
Xmas Eve Masturbation Memory
Christmas Eve always brings back my favorite masturbation memory.
So long ago. 1964. I was 19.
My first real love Bett and I had gotten back together a few weeks earlier after a breakup when I’d first entered college. Sitting on her couch late Christmas Eve with just the lights of the tree on. Her parents had gone to bed. By now Bett and I were very accomplished “heavy petters”. (We were a little behind the curve, folks, I admit; in those days we weren’t courageous enough to fuck yet. You didn’t fuck until you were at least engaged to be engaged we thought. ) We had been ‘necking’ that night for a good half an hour. It was kind of romantically perfect in the low light and the soft Christmas music. I still remember her kisses as probably the best that ever were.
We had gotten to that stage where the French kisses were long and very passionate, we were breathing hard. I had already gotten the top of her dress open and had been indulging in her favorite play: I kissed and sucked her nipples in between French kisses while she held my head to her chest and guided me from one breast to the other – the girl was in charge of just how far a guy could go, at least that was the way it was for me and other “nice” boys. From there she would give me some body signal to begin sliding my hand up under her skirt for that long slow advance to her pussy. Continue reading
Guided Masturbation Stories
Jacking Off With An Audience
These days, it’s a challenge to enjoy sex in a safe, responsible way. Several years ago I launched an experiment in safe sex which brought me two of the most exciting evenings of my life.
I guess I’ve always been a closet exhibitionist, one who is especially attracted to the joys of self-pleasuring. Why not try to meet others who enjoyed masturbation and share the fun together? It seemed like a good idea.
Masturbating to Masturbators
The bulk of my edging isnt even touching myself. It is reading these posts, looking at the videos. When it becomes too much to take, my thoroughly soaked pussy gets filled by my dildo. Sometime I am cumming within 1 min of starting because I have been wet and pre orgasmic most of the day. It is very rare I will touch myself while reading or watching videos. Or my pussy would be raw as sometimes I make an afternoon of it!
Other times, I will put on a recording of a favorite Onania masturbater. Him telling me he is masturbating while listening to my recorded messages that I have sent him, sends me over the edge. Dont see him here anymore, wonder where he went…[bet you’re still out there listening to me while you fuck yourself]
i too am partnered, that’s no secret. i can’t recall if i’ve ever discussed my partnership on the message board or not but i have discussed it frequently in individual chats i’ve had with various members. we’ve been together 8+ years and undoubtedly will continue our relationship for hopefully many more years in the future. my partner knows i’m an obsessed chronic and dedicated edger gooner marathon masturbator. he knows that male masturbation is my passion….
Guided Masturbation Stories
alt.sex.stories, 1995. Breasts aren’t only for babies
I want to relate a story about a girl that I knew in college, her name was Dru. This was about 14 years ago, but I remember her like she was standing here in front of me. You see, I’ve always been a big tit lover. The bigger, the better. Nowadays, you get the strippers and porno stars with their enhancements, and I might be the only one around here who actually loves seeing them that large. Anyway, Dru was all natural. And her tits weren’t HUGE, but they were big, nice and big. She told me she was a size 40DD. Continue reading