Sex Makes You Smarter- Can ‘Virtual Sex’ Do The Same?

Great news for chronic masturbators: it makes you smarter, not stupid.

Here’s a question to ponder: If sex makes you smarter via changes in synaptic strength  following the act, can you get the same benefit from virtual sex, as long as your brain is convinced it is real at the time?  I’ll discuss this idea in a bit, but first let’s look at the methods and the data from the actual study.

via Sex Makes You Smarter- Can ‘Virtual Sex’ Do The Same?.

Onania Masturbator Forum: Adventures in Masturbating: Aparment Dwelling

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

Ah, the rush, the thrill of stroking my hard cock out in the open, under the sky, and in the middle of the city! I wandered around the rooftop, jacking my throbbing dick and looking around. It was all too exciting and after only a few minutes I gave in to the urge and blasted my hot spunk onto the roof in a knee-buckling orgasm. It turned out once was not enough. I had barely collected my wits from that blinding climax when I felt myself getting hard again. My libido had been spun into overdrive by my rooftop wank and was ready for more. Again I took my tool in hand and some time later I spent another load on the roof.


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Masturbation In Marriage

from Masturbation In Marriage: Part III 

…. When a man ejaculates, he receives the greatest natural chemical high that he can possibly experience. Endorphins and enkephalins are pumped through your system straight to the preopticneuron part of the brain, and nothing in the world compares to this experience.
It should go without saying, then, that what we look at before and during ejaculation has a very profound affect on our sexual conditioning. When we release, our brains associate that particular object with sexual gratification. This has amazing implications when you experience sexual release in the embrace of your wife, however many of us come into marriage with our minds already locked onto something else (porn, fantasies, situational conditions) and so the transition to married life is hindered by the things we connected to before our wives.
I mentioned in Part II of this series that the most unhealthy type of masturbation is what author Doug Weiss classifies as “Type C” masturbation; that is, those who masturbate completely disconnected from reality. This an object-focused experience, men in this category objectivify anyone in their fantasies to do anything (picturing the nude model giving oral sex, for example). Many people today claim masturbation within marriage should not only be tolerated, but embraced; that a wife stumbling in on her husband masturbating with a Playboy magazine is a completely normal thing. When it comes to this disconnected, Type C masturbator, however, I could not disagree more. … more Masturbation In Marriage: Part III

Onania Masturbator Forum: Developing Addiction

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

About a week or so ago I revealed my biggest fear to my wife. It is that she would prefer her huge black dildo over sex with me. If she had sex with other men, it’d be something I could compete with. Like I could argue, at least to myself, “I’m better than him because of this and that”. But with a dildo I can not compete. It’s bigger, harder, better shaped, always ready, never complains, and goes on as long as wanted.


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Onania Masturbator Forum: Confession of Masturbation

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

Guys! I Love your replies and especially that MASTURBATION is happening as some of you read my post. It makes me feel so naked! My pants are coming off as I can no longer resist. The many ways I masturbated as a teenager are coming to mind from endless pillow humping to putting my upended rock hard cock against my powerful stereo speakers while feeling up my firm ass! Oh how mother knew!! And the shame made me penis beating crazy! I made hands off orgasms all over the place and my mirror. My pillows and sheets were always stained with my cum and the times mother pulled down my pants to spank me, my pleasure would increase and I could not possibly stop my love pleasure sessions for hours every night. I was doing the up and down off and on and adoring my hardness. Panting and gasping became unstoppable with the beautiful agony of aching to cum but needing more and more sexual near orgasms as my penis pulsated and I fixated on total pleasure exhaustion. …


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Masturbated in front of a woman

a masturbator wrote:

In my 29+ years since I first brought myself to an orgasm, the amount
of times I have jacked off in front of another woman could be counted
on one hand with enough fingers left over to hold a cigarette and
maybe even my television remote control. :-)  And, to be honest, those
few times were not under the best of circumstances…that’s a long,
sad story I will avoid telling for now, especially since what I’m here
to write about is much more pleasing.
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Online Semen and Robo-Sperm | violet blue ® :: open source sex

Incidentally, the place where the gentleman in question provides his sample is called a “men’s production facility,” “donor cabin,” or “masturbatorium.” If you have never read Polly Enmity’s absolutely amazing article in Best Sex Writing 2005 on being a sperm bank teller, you are missing what must be the most entertaining writing ever delivered on this topic.

via Online Semen and Robo-Sperm | violet blue ® :: open source sex.

Earl Flen: Hand Pussy

Hand Pussy

by Earl Flen

I like all sex terms and words, but I love these two words very much. They invoke so much about the positive nature of masturbating. Hand pussy is the pussy I have fucked most. Hand pussy is the first pussy I ever fucked. Hand pussy is the pussy that is always there for me. Hand pussy can respond to my fantasies and be any pussy I want it to be. I can close my eyes and fuck my hand pussy as if she was any woman I want, or I can stare into the photographed eyes of my favorite masturbation muse and fuck her pussy in my fist. My hand pussy can turn into the anus (or mouth) of a man I fantasize about fucking. (Or a finger from my hand pussy can be his dick sliding into my anus – my man pussy.)

I can fuck my hand pussy as hard or as gently as I wish. Hand pussy always grips my cock just perfectly and always squeezes at the right time and the right amount. I love my hand pussy. I can fill my hand pussy with cum or let it spurt out the back. I can put my limp dick inside my hand pussy and fuck when I don’t have an erection. My hand pussy can quiver and pulse until it makes me hard, or until it makes me cum even though I’m soft.   Continue reading

Onania Masturbator Forum: Locked up and the key at home

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

As a Chronic compulsive Bator when ever I take road trips I usually jackoff a few times on the way. Either driving or at rest stops, side roads, fast food bathrooms etc. fellow Bators now what I mean! LOL.  Today however is a different game for me. After denying myself last night and this morning, I locked myself in my new Holy Trainer! It took me about twenty minutes to get it on my bator dick but I am all locked up for a 3 to 4 hour drive and over night stay! I’m leaving the  key at home so I can’t get out!  This the craziest thing I have ever done and I’m so excited. I might have to stop at the rest area and see if I can suck a hot trucker dick or two. I have never had the nerve to show anyone my dick locked up but I think it could be time to show off my bator dicklet on my knees servicing Real Men.  I’m so fucking Hot writing this I want to take it off and Jack off before I hit the road but I can’t and won’t . When I get home tomorrow night watchout This Bator is going to beat it like teenage boy with his first Playboy Mag!   Merry Christmas Fellow Bators  wish me luck! 


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Onania Masturbator Forum: My first pussy was dissapointing

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

 Damn that’s Hot!  My first piece of real pussy I was 14 and my Dad and his buddies set it up! Im had been Jacking off since I was about 7 8 years old and I masturbated that day in the shower. I  kinda knew what was up but I played along. Man that evening in the shower my dick was hard as a rock I played and jerked as always but wouldn’t let myself cum because I knew I was gonna get some Pussy! Man was I disappointed!  She wasn’t even tight! It was like fucking an loose pillow. I couldn’t keep it up and the night was a disaster! I Know she reported back to my Dad who set the whole thing up. And he never said anything but I think he knew that I preferred men or better yet my tight fist pussy! From that night on I was a dedicated Bator!  There was no web sites like this one back then So I didn’t even know that other guys liked to fuck their tight fist like I did. Over the years I have had relationships with other women but I have always hated f-cking pussy! Its not pretty its not sexy I would much rather Jackoff ! I LIKE TO WARM UP MY LUBE AND PLAY WITH MY BALLS My dick gets so hard and my balls tighten up when I wrap my fist around my hard dick! Shit IT FEELS Great!  I meant a guy I worked with when I was in my teens and he like to jackoff too. We beat it together a few times and then I started to jack him and well It wasn’t long before I had to taste that pretty dick! He was 19 and I 14 but he was so hot with a hard dick and when he started to cum I bent down and caught a sput on my tougue! Shit I was hooked I shot my load at the same time!. After that we would jack off together and he would let me suck him a bit. But he  really liked it when I would lick his balls when he jacked off and then just when he was ready to cum he would hold his dick up to my lips and cum!   Id open my mouth and lick his fist and dick head while he came in my mouth! He used to brag about the girls he took home but II think he was just a Wanker like me! Shit I love to beat off and I have a lot of  stories about jacking off!  My most recent thing is driving and jerking off!  Yeah I know its dangerous but I commute 1 1/2 hour everyday. Heres how it starts. In the morning I always have a hard dick! Like most guys!  LOL  Shit I I start jackin and getting it hard !   but then Istop and get dressed and this is the fun part! I let my hard little dick stick out of my fly and I walk out of my Apt and down to my car! (Its 530 am so Im the only one out at the time Its so hot )  My little dick is so hard when I get in my car! Once on the road I start jacking my dick!  Right now its Dark so I can get bold and so last week I pulled my pants all they down around my knees!  I was naked and Jackin off in my car at 60 mph! An on coming car put me over the edge and I came all over my belly and legs!   I had to stop a few miles down the road and clean up!  But Damn It was HOT 



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