But of course, there’s a longer answer, too. As a matter of fact, despite the fact that I’m very happy with the genitals I was born with, there are some great toys out there that make me kind of wish I had a penis to play with too. You can find strokers at a wide range of prices. That’s important because everyone should be able to access sexual pleasure, regardless of their financial situation. It’s good to note that all of these toys are going to feel a lot better if you use some good water-based lube with them. Things like hand lotion and hair conditioner can be hard on the materials that sex toys are made with. Using actual lube will make it more fun, and preserve the life of your toy.