Onania Masturbator Forum: The old man next door

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

The old man next door

When I was a young teen wanker in the 70’s I had to rely so much more on my imagination for masturbation inspiration, I envy the lads today who have 24/7 access to every pornographic subject under the sun via the wonderful internet.

One of my techniques was to stand at my bedroom window, naked from the waist down, staring out over the gardens and village below and playing with my penis. Often a pretty girl walking past in a short skirt would be enough to get me off, or a sexy older woman with big breasts jiggling past, even better if they glanced up and saw me in the window, not knowing what I was shamefully doing below. I think every female in our village had a cum tribute at some point, several a day at the weekend.

One summer I started to see an old man lying on a sun lounger tucked behind his shed in the corner of his garden a few doors down, I could only just see into his little sun trap from the corner of my wanking window, I only spotted him while trying to get a final glimpse of a set of big MILF titties a few doors down. The thing that caught my eye was that he was naked! The first time I spotted him he was face down, nicely tanned with a nice big bare bottom. I never thought of myself as attracted to men, but it was a naked bum and enough of a sexual novelty to make me cum into my tissues nicely. I had a few nice cums watching him, and felt suitably ashamed and embarrassed by using a naked man to jerk off to. It made me feel very kinky.   Continue reading

A masturbator wrote: Have the days of the SoloSexual Arrived???

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

I am not sure if it is accepted but it is definitely tolerated,, or is it even encouraged???/.

This is a fascinating topic, I am really glad you brought it up, as I have been exploring this area of my masturbation constantly for the last 6 months. I have expressed to the the members here my intense pleasure in not only performing these tasks, but having the responsibility of taking our lifestyle to what are really main stream people.

I am giving away a bit here but truth is I haven’t published my findings on this very topic yet because I AM STILL IN RECEPTION MODE. Thats right I am still getting messages back and have a few pending.
its been going on for weeks…

Some conversations are so shockingly candid that I cant even begin to tell you. I am also concerned about keeping these people innocent so I have to obscure screen names/images ect…. there is a lot to do,but Richard has already offered any help I need so when I finally get to it I am just tickled pink to share what I have found.

Anyway as a teaser let me just say that I think that it is still reprehensible and can be loathed feared and derided without worry of reprisal. masturbators that are consistent CAN and DO lead normalized nonexistence with a fair number of people knowing and even dare I say accepting such abhorrent behavior as normal. or “just the way he is”

I can say this because I have been overall working on this for 5 yrs but recently have outed myself to around 30 individuals now, majority being female.

I have extensive knowledge and expertise on this area of acute chronic masturbation in its fetishistic form.

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is  a supportive, affirming community of people living with chronic addiction to masturbation. The focus is on our lives as addicted masturbators, and the pleasures / conflicts / impacts related to our compelling habit. If you (or a partner ) are addicted to masturbation, you are encouraged to join. Here are some samples of the discussions:

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In Onania Masturbator Forum  we freely share our masturbatory fantasies and techniques, including extreme excessive practices used to intensify autoerotic gratification. We explore our conflicts about the costs of masturbation addiction on career, family, friends, and life goals. We process residual feelings of shame, guilt, and humiliation that for some attach to chronic masturbation.

Unlike other pro- or anti-masturbation groups, the Forum is value-neutral and non-judgmental. We make no assumption that masturbation addiction is inherently good or bad, or that chronic masturbators should seek to change their behavior. Each member is free to form and express his own opinions without fear of criticism or judgment. We offer understanding, encouragement, and validation — both to those still struggling with their compulsions and to those finally reconciled to permanent and incurable masturbation addiction.

Onania Masturbator Forum welcomes both male and female masturbators (and partners of masturbators), from gay to straight in sexual orientation. Though a large percentage of the members are male, ladies are encouraged to join and are treated with respect.


Onania Masturbator Forum: How I became addicted

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

I was 12 yrs old and I was home alone every day of summer vacation as both my parents worked. My routine was to get naked and play with myself. As the days wore on I became more daring……….leaving doors open……….sneaking out on the back porch and occaisionally allowing myself to be “caught” naked in the house by a relative but making it look like an accident.

By August I needed more of a rush. I would go to the shrubs in front of the house…..remove my shorts and t-shirt. I would ly there totally naked and stroke while having a fantasy of being see by one of the teenage girls from the neighborhood. I constantly had wet dreams about running naked from the girls but not being able to escape and when confronted by them I would helplessly cum in front of them……..which of course was my wet dream. To increase the rush even further the next obvious step was to exit the front door totally naked leaving me no way to cover myself if caught. This was a total turn-on. I was lying there in masturmonial bliss………..totally naked and hard……….on my back with legs spread, eyes closed and playing with my little adolecent dick when I heard my name spoken. It was two of the women from the neighborhood. …..

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Onania Masturbator Forum: Addicted to jacking

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

I mentioned in my introduction that I started masturbating compulsively at age 7. By age 10, when my friends would spend the night, I was begging them to sleep naked so we could jack off together. One or two of them were even nice enough to let me jack and suck them as well. At 14 I had a steady dose of hardcore porn on a daily basis. I knew immediately that porn was all I cared about in life – it was (and is) so glorious. In 8th grade, I masturbated so much during the course of one weekend that the entire underside of my penis was rubbed completely raw (I still have a slight scar there). That did not stop me though, I simply grabbed a soft cloth, wrapped it around my cock and kept stroking. During this time I discovered that the cloth rubbing against the sides of my head caused great pleasure sensations, so to this day I always masturbate with something wrapped around my cock, usually a pair of panties, but even a washcloth will do.

I never even tried to have sex with a girl during high school – my hand was all I needed.  …

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Onania Masturbator Forum: Exposing my cock

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

From the time I was a small kid I seemed to be in one situation or another where I saw grown men and their cocks. My Dad used to always wake up with a boner and he was never embarrassed or ashamed to walk down the hall scratching or rubbing his balls.

Usually there were Uncles or other relatives around. While I was not sexually molested as a kid I would say that I was sexualized at a very early age.

At the age of 11 I was staying at my Aunt and Grandmother’s house in Los Angeles. It was a two bedroom apartment. My cousin and I would have one room, my Aunt the other and my grandmother slept on the couch.

The next day my Aunt and my Grandmother decided to do a big shopping at the store. They asked my older cousin if he could keep an eye on me that we could hang out together while they did the shopping.

So my cousin said, “yeah that’s okay.” As soon as they left we went into the back bedroom. I turned on the TV in the room and put on a show. ….

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Onania Masturbator Forum: Solotouch and masturbator community

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

I had no idea, or concept of a masturbation community when I first typed “masturbation” into a crude, early search engine. It was the first naughty thing that I looked up, and I was shaking. I didn’t know what I would find–I just needed to search “masturbation>” I found solotouch.com, a free site dedicated to promoting masturbation as a choice for sexual pleasure and fulfillment. It featured first-person stories about masturbation. I stayed up night after night reading the stories, and masturbating. http://www.solotouch.com/erotica/all/page1.html?filter=All

Hundreds of stories of all kinds, but all having something to do with masturbation–I could not feast enough on these stories. It did not matter what they were about or who told them–it was masturbtion that turned me on, although I didn’t realize it at the time. I came out as a masturbator, and wrote some of my own stories. I was exhilarated.  Continue reading

Onania Masturbator Forum: “I love masturbating.”

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

“I love masturbating.”  
We all say that and write it a lot here and elsewhere. And why not? It’s so true. There is nothing quite as physically satisfying as touching ourselves, manipulating our genitals until we climax. There is nothing so spiritually satisfying as the release we have when we cum. I can’t think of anything better, can you? I had an old girlfriend tell me this week that she thought of masturbation as “satisfying her soul”. I asked her didn’t she think fucking was better. And she answered that fucking was wonderful, but that being able to give herself exactly what she wanted from sex was even better. When she was fucking part of her had to be concerned with the other person, and she didn’t have the control or the intensity she desired like she did when she masturbated. She said that the best of both worlds was when she could demand a sex partner stimulate her nipples or let her suck on a dick or a clit while she played with her pussy until she orgasmed several times in a row.   Continue reading

Onania Masturbator Forum: my first wet orgasm trying on my Mommys nighty

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

i began to jill off in my Mommy’s lingerie when i was just 9 years old and curiously slipped into one of Her nighties that was laying on Her bed. To tell the full truth i already used to wear Her nighties and lingerie pretty often before whenever i needed to feel my sensual nature. But since i used to be Her “special baby gurl” my Mommy never used to say anything against it.

But this day something was different … and i really didn’t know what it was. i was already used to get a little stiffy. And yes, i even knew pretty well how it felt to get a dry orgasm. But now i was thinking about my own Daddy … and how He used to fondle my Mommy … and somehow it felt just as if i’d be a real Woman myself … having sex with my wonderful Daddy … and i simply coudn’t stop to rub and rub my tiny clitty…!   Continue reading

Onania Masturbator Forum: I want to suck my own dick

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

I want to suck my own dick. I’ve always wanted to. I know it would be so good if I ever could. I know just how I would kiss it and lick it, chew it and suck it into my mouth. It would feel wonderful. I could make such wonderful love to my penis – to myself. But I was never that flexible, even when I was young. Now I’m so old and stiff it is laughable to imagine trying it. I’ve really envied those friends of mine who were flexible enough to accomplish it. The first time I ever watched someone do it, I watched a band mate of mine suck himself off one night when we shared a motel room. Seeing him do it was so hot! Naked, he laid on his back on the bed and just folded himself into this pretzel with his legs in the air. It was amazing that his cock ended up right in front of his mouth.

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