The evening started off like any other evening with friends. People were standing around in small groups sipping drinks, chatting and nibbling on the snacks placed strategically around the room. However, this was not like any other party had ever been to, it was my first Jack & Jill party.
…. When a man ejaculates, he receives the greatest natural chemical high that he can possibly experience. Endorphins and enkephalins are pumped through your system straight to the preopticneuron part of the brain, and nothing in the world compares to this experience.
It should go without saying, then, that what we look at before and during ejaculation has a very profound affect on our sexual conditioning. When we release, our brains associate that particular object with sexual gratification. This has amazing implications when you experience sexual release in the embrace of your wife, however many of us come into marriage with our minds already locked onto something else (porn, fantasies, situational conditions) and so the transition to married life is hindered by the things we connected to before our wives.
I mentioned in Part II of this series that the most unhealthy type of masturbation is what author Doug Weiss classifies as “Type C” masturbation; that is, those who masturbate completely disconnected from reality. This an object-focused experience, men in this category objectivify anyone in their fantasies to do anything (picturing the nude model giving oral sex, for example). Many people today claim masturbation within marriage should not only be tolerated, but embraced; that a wife stumbling in on her husband masturbating with a Playboy magazine is a completely normal thing. When it comes to this disconnected, Type C masturbator, however, I could not disagree more. … more Masturbation In Marriage: Part III
Sixth-grade students in a New York City borough were reportedly assigned to read a book that touched on masturbation until angered parents got the title removed from the summer reading list.
The New York Daily News reports that the principal of Public School/Middle School in Rockaway Park, Queens, announced Wednesday that “The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian” was no longer required reading following complaints from parents and inquiries from the newspaper.
“It’s about . . . masturbation, which is not appropriate for my child to learn at 11,” said Kelly-Ann McMullan-Preiss, 39, of Belle Harbor, who refused to let her son read the book. “It was like ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ for kids.”
Every morning I wake up and pull back the curtains in my bedroom to the sight of a giant blow-up sex doll in the backyard.
She lies there with her legs splayed, her gigantic round breasts pert and inflated, and a handy hole in a place where one can only assume a manufacturer believed a vagina should be.
VAN NUYS, CA—A study released this week by the San Fernando Valley Institute for Adults-Only Research indicates that a staggering 96 percent of U.S. pornography is consumed by the filthiest 1 percent of the population. “Of all the pornography watched everywhere in the world, the vast majority is consumed by this elite group of ‘super-perverts,’” the study read in part. “The most disturbing aspect of these findings is that everybody in the top 1 percent thinks that everyone else is looking at porn too, and that this is somehow ‘normal,’ but in fact the individuals who think this are small in number and simply the nastiest, dirtiest masturbating freaks out there.” The report concluded that the filthiest 1 percent should feel deep shame for being such incredibly disgusting deviants.
Officials seemed OK with the basic principle that people masturbate and thus sometimes buy pornography (I may be being generous in thinking they accept this link), so they didn’t oppose the store per se, but they were not terribly keen on people masturbating in a commercial space (home fine, private booth in a store bad), and tried therefore to argue that the booths shouldn’t be allowed. Having ultimately been forced to accept such ‘public’ masturbation they are absolutely firm that it must be alone. They were (I’m guessing) concerned that hordes of men would descend on the business, ejaculating left right and centre, and pumping (if you pardon the phrase) money into the local economy.
Incidentally, the place where the gentleman in question provides his sample is called a “men’s production facility,” “donor cabin,” or “masturbatorium.” If you have never read Polly Enmity’s absolutely amazing article in Best Sex Writing 2005 on being a sperm bank teller, you are missing what must be the most entertaining writing ever delivered on this topic.
According to some researchers, the other association of delayed ejaculation with masturbation is the intrinsic link of visual input of pornography. As the excitement of “real sex” may not be comparable with the pornographic images, the threshold of ejaculation is often unachievable.
An analysis of the functional anatomy of the male
A lot of people have incredible misconceptions about the inner working of their body, and this is particularly true when it comes to sex. Of course, one might easily argue that there’s no need to understand how sex works to insure the reproductive success of the species : after all, cats, dogs and rabbits, for instance, clearly don’t ponder on the subject for long, yet successfully clone themselves in multiple copies !
If it is true that left to our uncultured selves we would still be able to have kids, as educated selves our sexuality can unfold to become much more. In other words, misunderstanding our sexuality leads to an underutilization of our sexual abilities, but full awareness our anatomy helps in using it to good advantage.
This discussion will be centred on the penis and how it interacts with its environment. It is important to keep this in mind as I voluntarily simplified this environment to focus on the impact on the penis. This is not an attempt to belittle or disparage the rest of the sexual encounter. It simply is a choice of focal point… otherwise I’d end up writing a whole book !
History is riddled with urban myths about masturbation. Once upon a time, people truly believed that masturbation led to blindness or caused hair to grow on someone’s palms. While those myths seem pretty ridiculous, there are others that sound so possible they’re easy to confuse for the truth. Some myths claim that using vibrators for too long can damage your genitals, that using sex toys too much can make you unable to orgasm from sex with real people, and that you can get addicted to masturbation. But, mo