The first part to quitting porn is you really have to want to quit. You need to be sick and tired of porn and the sickness that it causes you in order to quit. If you are not committed, you will only be quitting until the next time you look. Deep inside you have to want to stop.
The evening started off like any other evening with friends. People were standing around in small groups sipping drinks, chatting and nibbling on the snacks placed strategically around the room. However, this was not like any other party had ever been to, it was my first Jack & Jill party.
…. When a man ejaculates, he receives the greatest natural chemical high that he can possibly experience. Endorphins and enkephalins are pumped through your system straight to the preopticneuron part of the brain, and nothing in the world compares to this experience.
It should go without saying, then, that what we look at before and during ejaculation has a very profound affect on our sexual conditioning. When we release, our brains associate that particular object with sexual gratification. This has amazing implications when you experience sexual release in the embrace of your wife, however many of us come into marriage with our minds already locked onto something else (porn, fantasies, situational conditions) and so the transition to married life is hindered by the things we connected to before our wives.
I mentioned in Part II of this series that the most unhealthy type of masturbation is what author Doug Weiss classifies as “Type C” masturbation; that is, those who masturbate completely disconnected from reality. This an object-focused experience, men in this category objectivify anyone in their fantasies to do anything (picturing the nude model giving oral sex, for example). Many people today claim masturbation within marriage should not only be tolerated, but embraced; that a wife stumbling in on her husband masturbating with a Playboy magazine is a completely normal thing. When it comes to this disconnected, Type C masturbator, however, I could not disagree more. … more Masturbation In Marriage: Part III
Sixth-grade students in a New York City borough were reportedly assigned to read a book that touched on masturbation until angered parents got the title removed from the summer reading list.
The New York Daily News reports that the principal of Public School/Middle School in Rockaway Park, Queens, announced Wednesday that “The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian” was no longer required reading following complaints from parents and inquiries from the newspaper.
“It’s about . . . masturbation, which is not appropriate for my child to learn at 11,” said Kelly-Ann McMullan-Preiss, 39, of Belle Harbor, who refused to let her son read the book. “It was like ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ for kids.”
Incidentally, the place where the gentleman in question provides his sample is called a “men’s production facility,” “donor cabin,” or “masturbatorium.” If you have never read Polly Enmity’s absolutely amazing article in Best Sex Writing 2005 on being a sperm bank teller, you are missing what must be the most entertaining writing ever delivered on this topic.
According to some researchers, the other association of delayed ejaculation with masturbation is the intrinsic link of visual input of pornography. As the excitement of “real sex” may not be comparable with the pornographic images, the threshold of ejaculation is often unachievable.
An analysis of the functional anatomy of the male
A lot of people have incredible misconceptions about the inner working of their body, and this is particularly true when it comes to sex. Of course, one might easily argue that there’s no need to understand how sex works to insure the reproductive success of the species : after all, cats, dogs and rabbits, for instance, clearly don’t ponder on the subject for long, yet successfully clone themselves in multiple copies !
If it is true that left to our uncultured selves we would still be able to have kids, as educated selves our sexuality can unfold to become much more. In other words, misunderstanding our sexuality leads to an underutilization of our sexual abilities, but full awareness our anatomy helps in using it to good advantage.
This discussion will be centred on the penis and how it interacts with its environment. It is important to keep this in mind as I voluntarily simplified this environment to focus on the impact on the penis. This is not an attempt to belittle or disparage the rest of the sexual encounter. It simply is a choice of focal point… otherwise I’d end up writing a whole book !
History is riddled with urban myths about masturbation. Once upon a time, people truly believed that masturbation led to blindness or caused hair to grow on someone’s palms. While those myths seem pretty ridiculous, there are others that sound so possible they’re easy to confuse for the truth. Some myths claim that using vibrators for too long can damage your genitals, that using sex toys too much can make you unable to orgasm from sex with real people, and that you can get addicted to masturbation. But, mo
Masturbation is not a subject that is discussed in daylight but, many people indulge in it privately and it is therefore important to know the dangers of masturbation as well as its negative and positive effects on your health.
This is IMPORTANT: catch him masturbating! when you catch him, make him continue in front of you… offer advice and instruction, offer to teach him how to work his hand around the head of his penis. Often young boys have a great deal of trouble doing this. this will be of great help…