What is Compulsive Masturbation?
Among all the kinds of sexual acts, compulsive masturbation is one of the most secret and isolative of them all. But, what is compulsive masturbation addiction. A man or a woman who compulsively masturbates with or without the use of porn is often the last to seek help, often not seeing or understanding their behaviour as problematic. Most of them masturbate after watching some of the BEST FREE PORN VIDEOS. Their hidden behaviour is often related to past trauma, familial societal or religious shame associated with the sex act and intimacy. People have internal beliefs about masturbation as one of the “dirty,” “shameful,” or “sinful” act it.
While most sex addicts actively seek treatment when they pushed by some obvious external consequence of the legal, occupational, health, or relational type, the solitary nature of the compulsive masturbator’s behavior leaves his or her actions less subject to the direct consequences of other forms of sexual acting out. The sex addict engaging in compulsive masturbation more often seeks help for anxiety, obsession, isolation, and the inability to seek or maintain healthy intimate relationships. Some compulsive masturbators do experience consequences through the viewing of inappropriate materials (e.g., child pornography), through masturbating in inappropriate places (e.g., the workplace or an automobile), or due to self-injury. However, the most frequent consequence of compulsive masturbation is a life devoid of intimacy, removed from feeling, and filled with hidden shame. Continue reading
Hi, my name is John!
I am 44, and have been a chronic, compulsive masturbator as far back as my memories go. I can remember being 7 years old and putting a hook lock on my bedroom door (I told my mom it was to keep my little sister out) and would spend hours every day stroking my cock even at that age. At age 14 I got hooked on porn (I had an 18 year old friend with an extensive collection I saw just about daily). My addiction has grown every year until where I am at now; it is all that matters in my life, and I love being this way. I have not had sex with my wife in 6 years, as I can only get it up for my hand now. I masturbate throughout the day, including driving and when at work, and when time permits, sometimes for 5 or 6 hours straight without cumming (I love to edge). There are times I jack so much my cock can no longer get hard, but I stroke it limp then. Usually I’m up on Friday and Sat. nights masturbating until the sun comes up. Continue reading
How Much Masturbation is Too Much? – Psych Central
by Michael Ashworth, Ph.D.
June 13, 2007
Oh, the classic masturbation question — how much is too much? Do people who are in a relationship masturbate? Oops, Delilah’s getting carried away here and asking the questions instead of answering them…
More to the point: Individuals vary tremendously in how much they masturbate. Some folks wouldn’t dream of it, while others masturbate two or three times in their lives, and others two or three times a day. (And those aren’t the only options!) There are no deleterious effects of masturbation itself, and it shouldn’t matter whether you’re single or in a relationship.
On the other hand, since you’re worried about how your masturbation may be affecting your relationship with your partner, here are a few things to think about to help you decide if it’s a problem or not:
- How is your health? Has it changed in any way since you increased your masturbation?
- Are you satisfied with your life — career, relationship, friendships — or are you using masturbation as an escape from things that are bothering you?
- Is your penis or clitoris sore or bruised?
- Do you have any problem orgasming or ejaculating alone or with your partner?
- Do you still have sex with your partner? Are you having an amount of sex that you’re both content with?
You see, it’s not about how often you masturbate but about how you’re living the rest of your life. As long as masturbation is a part of your life and not instead of your life, you’re fine. When masturbation becomes an escape from problems in your relationship, or it begins to affect your health, or turn into a substitute for real life experiences, then you should consider slowing down on your stroking and dealing with who and what’s around you.
Addicts speak about their habits
hi, i am a 42mm whose is a chronic addicted bator. I have tried hard to resit my addiction but i constantly fail. The power of my cock is to overwheming and i cannot resist the need to masturbate. Even as i write this i am using one hand. the other is slowing moving up and down my rock hard cock. Pre cum is dripping out of the head as i get nore and more gooned writing this for everyone to read. I would love to chat with other hard core bators and i thank Richard for this and his other great sites..Hail cock!! Continue reading
A masturbator said:
I’ve been waiting for this for sooo long. Spent the holidays with the in-laws and didn’t have an opportunity to spend quality time with my genitals. Sure, I made myself cum everyday but no time to just kick back and really enjoy myself.
Last week, I was debating about whether I should spend the days after Christmas at our lake condo. That decision was made when we scheduled some repair guys at the house today. Oh well, I guess I will just have to lose myself in internet porn and phonesex for hours and hours every day while the wife is at work. All I’m going to do is masturbate. Continue reading
A masturbator said:
Hi Guys, Banging my bell means feeling the hot sensations peak and peak at my penis head, the “bell”. I have been listening to Richard and I need a marathon masturbate. I like my legs spread wide and have to have it hard and naughty. Ohhhhhhhh! Thats it! I am an addict and I love to say it because I have such a naughty naughty cock. I like being naked and humping my hips as I think of what to write. I am aching to have this horny pole make me feel like a naked girl on a horse again having no control over her hot sensations. My breathing is excited and I am panting, then I stop. I feel my angels of orgasm watching me. “Harder, Harder!” they demand! Such lovely perky breasts and high perfect behinds! They finger themselves. I adore their beauty with my savage rythm up and down my naughty cock. Stop! They demand! Continue reading