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The twitching is the first visual sign of an… • Fuck Yeah Chastity

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The twitching is the first visual sign of an orgasm. When this happens I know that my husband has passed the point of no return and I immediately let go of his dick. When my stimulation stops he always starts clenching his buttocks and thrusting his hips but his dick doesn’t receive any more stimulation and his orgasm is ruined. His cum just drips out of him and when I know the danger of orgasm is over i milk the rest of the cum out of him by gripping his shaft by my thumb and forefinger right underneath his balls and milking his cock by sliding my thumb and forefinger along his shaft being careful to release the grip and taking a new one in such a manner that I “milk” his cock.

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Fun solo or couples ruined orgasm play | tantalism.org

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Here’s a fun little tease you can do by yourself or with your Dom or some other play partner if you’re into ruined orgasms or tease and denial:

Get about 5 clothespins. You’re going to use them on your pussy lips and clit so if they are too strong, get some of the ones that come with those temporary paper blinds, they have a much milder grip.

Queue up some porn and masturbate until you are on the edge. Get your clit really big. Get yourself really wet. Then start buttoning everything up. Continue reading →

Ruined Orgasm (Wikipedia)

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A ruined orgasm is a technique usually used by the stimulator who is dominating the stimulated during the sexual practice of orgasm denial. The object of orgasm denial is to deny the submissive an orgasm over a long period of time or to allow him or her to orgasm but make it unsatisfactory, awkward or even painful to experience therefore asserting the dominant position of the dominant in the sexual relationship.

This technique allows the physical release of sexual climax while denying or minimizing the satisfaction and pleasure associated with orgasm. The sub is stimulated to the moment that orgasm is inevitable. Stimulation is then stopped by breaking all physical contact with the genitals the moment orgasm begins (i.e. past the “edge”). Alternatively, the stimulator may bring up decidedly non-erotic or nonsexual topics during the orgasm, inflicting non-erotic pain, or stimulating the submissive with an unpleasant smell.

Another technique is to interfere with the orgasm by some sort of constriction. Ruined orgasms expanded to include such methods as Thumbing, Palming, Dictating, Thwacking and several more unpleasant ways for an orgasm to be disrupted or “ruined”. Many of these methods are merely disruptive physical actions that come after psychological or emotional trickery has taken place on the part of the dominant. Deception can play a key role in the effectiveness of a ruined orgasm.

When performed on a man, this practice allows the release of seminal fluid and physical sexual release, but keeps the man in a state of arousal because the orgasm is never psychologically “actualized”. Because stimulation is not continued through the orgasm, that man is left still in a state of want, which allows continued stimulation after a very brief period, unlike after the actualized or completed orgasm which may require a considerably longer refractory period.[citation needed]

When performed on a woman, the effect is similar, but without the ejaculation typical of the male response. The woman experiences orgasmic contractions (though typically less intense than with continued stimulation), but again, the orgasm is never psychologically “actualized”, and the orgasm is considered non-satisfactory. The woman so affected is thus kept in a state of want for a “full” orgasm. Because of the relatively short refractory period in most women compared to that of most men, this practice can often be done many times over a short period of time. If the woman is afterward given a “full” orgasm with stimulation continuing into the orgasmic contractions (and gently afterward, depending on the specific woman), the resulting orgasm is generally very powerful and lasts longer than would be typical.

via Erotic sexual denial – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia.

cuckold husband: Not really ruined

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IN the past year or so I have come across some sites that talk about ruined orgasms. I suppose what they mean is that the one who “ruins” the orgasm does so by removing stimulus at the exact moment a man begins to ejaculate, hence reducing the pleasure, inhibiting or reducing the orgasmic level and there fore making the ejaculation not as pleasant as it could be. There is even a couple who has a web site devoted to tease/denial and ruined orgasms.

Personally, I don’t think one can have a ruined orgasm…..but I also have come to understand that a male can orgasm without ejaculating and can ejaculate without orgasm…..I know because I have been able to achieve either or both and have done so on many occasions. I often orgasm without ejaculation and believe me its intense and pleasant.

Recently, I have gotten fascinated with the concept of “ruined orgasm” and watching several videos of supposed “ruined orgasms” I have tried to duplicate them. …

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Ruining Orgasms – Part I

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 good discussion of ruined orgasms

It’s not that ruined orgasms are not a totally awesome topic in and of itself. Personally I just think that just the expression is great enough to discuss when you stop to think about it. To put it simply, those are two words that normally just do *not* get filed together in my mind. Ruined. Orgasm. When I first heard of it, I thought it was just such a crazy idea – almost impossible for me to grasp. But such a thing definitely does exist. And it’s really a unique experience. What was extra funny about it, is that I’d actually experienced this years ago with one of my more devious girlfriends.
But before I get into "remember whens" let me explain a bit about the sensations. First, if you haven’t ever had one, and you are curious (and have enough self control) you can experience it by yourself. Just at the very moment you begin to have an orgasm, stop all contact. Completely abandon touching yourself. It’s the opposite side of the coin to an overstimulated style of orgasm. You know, when after you cum, how extremely sensitive it all gets… and yet she continues to and maybe even with greater intensity – rub things. And you start to buck against the restraints, and flail about, and whimper through your gag and then well… ummm… where was I?

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Sean’s Blog: Ruined Orgasm

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Sean ruins himself  

Spent the last couple of days masturbating 2 hours in the mornings and 2-3 hours again in the afternoons. To keep myself worked up and horny, I will intentionally "ruin" my orgasm in the mornings by pulling my hand away just as I cum. Guys know how frustrating this can be. By the the late morning, I am horny and ready to go again, but wait until the late afternoon to masturbate. …

Sean’s Blog: Ruined Orgasm (10-10)

His brilliant cum

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a masturbator said:

I just gotta tell everyone about the way I came during my jack off
session on Friday, it was so hot.
I’ve always shot my cum a long way over my chest if I wank laying
down, or ahead of me if I’m standing up. Lots of guys have said how
cool it is to cum so hard and far but then when I see a guy’s cum
leave his penis kinda ‘gently’ I always think it would be hot to be
able to cum like that too, then I can catch it in my hand or cum in a
certain place like on a table or whatever.
Well I was having a fairly normal jack off session last Friday, I had
been showing on my open cam for about 2 hours or so, stroking my
penis slowly at times, fast and hard at others, occasionally edging
but not cumming. As I normally do during my wank sessions, I had let
go of my penis, leaving it erect and vertical, foreskin pulled back,
to write something to a guy I’d been chatting with, and something
truly brilliant happened!
My penis wasn’t in an edged state, but suddenly while typing I could
feel I was starting to cum! I looked down at my penis and a stream of
thick juicy cum just helped itself slowly out of the top of my penis,
trickled down over my glans, down my shaft, over my balls, down over
my thigh, and into a pool on my chair! This was so HOT! It went on
for about 20 seconds I guess, and as well as ending up with cum on my
penis, balls, and thigh, there was a pool of cum about 3 inches in
diameter on the chair! It is totally true that I have Never cum like
this before! It was unbelievable to see my cum like this, but also
the feeling inside while it was happening was brilliant! Even better
yet was that it did not have the effect of a normal orgasm and be an
end to my wank, so I was able to carry on masturbating, with the
bonus of having all that cum there to rub into my penis, balls and
thigh!
I would be so happy to be able to cum like this again whenever I
like, but I am really not sure what I did differently to make it
happen in the first place! I gotta go now to have another try!!!
See ya soon :-)

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Something similar happens to me if I masturbate right up to the edge, then
let go of my penis as soon as I feel ejaculation start. Some people call
that a "ruined" or "minimized" orgasm. But it feels good, and I can start
right away building to a new one. I can do this 2-3 times before I have to
squirt a final complete release.

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I know what you’re saying. The difference to what you describe
Richard, is that I hadn’t actually masturbated to the point of
feeling the ejaculation about to start in this case. There was no way
of knowing that this was about to happen. Thinking about it a bit
more, a few other differences with what happened to me and cumming
because of ‘passing the point of no return’ were:
the time between last touching my penis and when the cum started
to ‘cum’ – which was much longer, maybe about 30 seconds or so, and
also that I didn’t really feel that much pumping from my balls, if
any, like you would have in a normal ejaculation.
In a way, cumming after not touching my penis for so long could be a
case of ‘cumming without touching my penis’, [which I've sadly never
been able to do], but if that was what happened, then wouldn’t I have
felt something in my balls, and wouldn’t it have ‘ruined’ my eventual
orgasm, rather than extending and enhancing it!?
I dunno about that but what I ‘do’ know is it was excellent!!
One other thing is that in my original post I mentioned other guys
cumming and seeing me cum etc, well I hope that hasn’t offended the
females here because I am happy to discuss my jack off sessions with
anyone! It’s just that I copied and pasted the post direct from my
masturbation blog and forgot to change certain words.
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