Fourteen Ways to Observe Pornography Awareness Week «

To counter the obscene lies that our media and legislators will be hearing this week, perhaps you could do one (or more!) of the following:

* If you use porn, talk about it with your partner.

* Thank the clerk in your local convenience store for carrying porn magazines or DVDs.

* Thank your local hotel for carrying pay-for-porn, even if you personally have never stayed there. Alternatively, write to a national chain that carries pay-for-porn (and has been bullied about it by groups like Citizens for Community Values), such as Marriott or Westin.

* Write a letter to the editor of your local newspaper explaining that most people who use porn have no problem with it.

* Write about this on your own blog. Tweet about it: “I use porn and my sex life is fine,” or “I use porn and my sex life isn’t very good—but it has nothing to do with porn.”

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brain changes have hooked you on porn

Although you may not realize it, you are here because you have a numbed pleasure response. A decline in dopamine receptors and other brain changes have hooked you on porn. It’s physiology, not morality.
The cycle of porn addiction mimics other addictions:
bingeing?numbed pleasure response?cravings?bingeing escalates?further decline in dopamine receptors?even less pleasure response?cravings?bingeing escalates
And soon you are hooked on porn, because nothing else is anywhere near as interesting to your brain.
From your genes’ perspective, it’s the perfect design—to keep you fertilizing frantically—before this “valuable opportunity” slips away.

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The Blog of Pornographicus Porno Blog List

One of the hard, cold facts of online life is that most blogs dedicated to the subjects of pornography and masturbation do not live a very long life. …. I thought it would be a suitable time to highlight these blogs that have shown they are in it for the long haul…as a few of these have been linked by me going all the way back to 2007 when I first started The Blog of Pornographicus at Blog.com.

I hope my readers will check out at least a few of these blogs and find them to be as enjoyable as I have for so long…..

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Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction Is A Growing Problem

A growing number of young, healthy Internet pornography users are complaining of delayed ejaculation, inability to be turned on by real partners, and sluggish erections.

Lots of guys, 20s or so, can’t get it up anymore with a real girl, and they all relate having a serious porn/masturbation habit. Guys will never openly discuss this with friends or co-workers, for fear of getting laughed out of town. But when someone tells their story on a health forum, and there are 50-100 replies from other guys who struggle with the same thing, this is for real.

more Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction Is A Growing Problem | Psychology Today


My Journey through Porn Addiction, Part III: ‘The Mechanics of Porn Addiction’ « The Anti Porn Men Project

…The first process urged me towards greater sexual gratification and the easiest way to do that was through porn. The second process then kicked in and made me feel ashamed of viewing the porn. The first process retaliated by increasing my desires, driving me back to the ‘net and escalating from soft porn to hardcore. The second process responded by heaping greater shame and self-disgust upon me. This Catch-22 spiralled with ever-increasing intensity until it took over my life. Both processes were simply doing what they were programmed to do. This was a cycle without end – until, as already related in this series, I realised that unconditional acceptance of my sexual self was the key. This disempowered the negative process, allowing me to disengage from the Catch-22. And because I was then free to allow sexual joy into my actual life, the need for the porn substitute subsided…..

via My Journey through Porn Addiction, Part III: ‘The Mechanics of Porn Addiction’ « The Anti Porn Men Project.

Health | How to talk to kids about their father’s addictions | Seattle Times Newspaper

Q: My ex moved out six years ago. We have two daughters he saw every other weekend. They are now 18 and 20. My ex remains a “functional alcoholic” but his more debilitating addiction is pornography. Since my daughters only saw their dad every other weekend, they were unaware of his addictions. When my older daughter left for college we discussed the alcoholism. As the younger daughter leaves this fall, it’s time both know about their addiction history. Alcohol I can explain. How do I discuss porn’s dangers and addictiveness while respecting their love for their dad?

via Health | How to talk to kids about their father’s addictions | Seattle Times Newspaper.

Brain’s chemistry the biology behind porn addiction | one, pornography, chances – LOCKNANE – Odessa American Online

Statistics indicate that almost one in two Americans (yes, women included) frequent internet pornography sites. Are you one of those people?

Chances are, if you do visit pornography websites, you wouldn’t tell a soul. Sex addiction has such a taboo about it that no one speaks of it, but all across the nation, it is tearing marriages and families apart. So are you really an uncaring, selfish individual?

More and more research is being done in this area all over the world and one of the interesting things about sex addiction that has been discovered is that it is directly related to dopamine levels in the brain.

via Brain’s chemistry the biology behind porn addiction | one, pornography, chances – LOCKNANE – Odessa American Online.

erotic haecceities

Hi, I just discovered your blog and I love it. I’ve been masturbating to it for hours. I wanted to ask you if you are a premature ejaculator, like me. I noticed you refer to it frequently, which I really appreciate, since I love the humiliation of premature ejaculation, but have not been able to find many people who are into it. I know it was my fear of cumming too soon that got me interested in femdom, chastity and so on, long ago, but I’m surprised that so few other men seem to acknowledge this.

Thanks so much, wankydoodle.

Yes, i am a premature ejaculator because i jerked off too much in puberty and my dick gets scared by the power of the pussy !

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