The Onania . Org/asm Tumblr Blog [Periodic Posting]

As a public service, Onania . Org/asm offers a Tumblr Blog illustrating the kind of materials (photos and videos) that some masturbators use in stimulating their self-gratification sessions. We do not publish this material on the main blog (here) because the graphic and arousing nature might tempt some recovering masturbators to abuse themselves. If you are interested in studying this material and have the will power to resist the powerfully addictive nature of visual images, then please refer to the

Onania . Org/asm Tumblr Blog

Sexual Arousal Warning: The Onania . Org/asm Tumblr Blog is offered only for educational and scientific purposes. However, some viewers may become sexually excited and experience an uncontrollable urge to masturbate. If you are attempting to control or stop masturbating, you should avoid viewing and seek professional help. Onania . Org/asm is not responsible for unintended orgasms resulting from your use of this material.

Curing Pornophobia | Psychology Today

But what most of us don’t acknowledge is that our private fantasies during sex are often more exciting than what we are actually physically doing. Self-styled pornography is constantly running in our head. We focus on the images, thoughts or stories from our imagination that truly arouse us, especially when our true desires are not aligned with the experience at hand. It’s our dirty little secret: our hidden fantasies are what actually make us climax.

via Curing Pornophobia | Psychology Today.

Fourteen Ways to Observe Pornography Awareness Week «

To counter the obscene lies that our media and legislators will be hearing this week, perhaps you could do one (or more!) of the following:

* If you use porn, talk about it with your partner.

* Thank the clerk in your local convenience store for carrying porn magazines or DVDs.

* Thank your local hotel for carrying pay-for-porn, even if you personally have never stayed there. Alternatively, write to a national chain that carries pay-for-porn (and has been bullied about it by groups like Citizens for Community Values), such as Marriott or Westin.

* Write a letter to the editor of your local newspaper explaining that most people who use porn have no problem with it.

* Write about this on your own blog. Tweet about it: “I use porn and my sex life is fine,” or “I use porn and my sex life isn’t very good—but it has nothing to do with porn.”

via Fourteen Ways to Observe Pornography Awareness Week «.

brain changes have hooked you on porn

Although you may not realize it, you are here because you have a numbed pleasure response. A decline in dopamine receptors and other brain changes have hooked you on porn. It’s physiology, not morality.
The cycle of porn addiction mimics other addictions:
bingeing?numbed pleasure response?cravings?bingeing escalates?further decline in dopamine receptors?even less pleasure response?cravings?bingeing escalates
And soon you are hooked on porn, because nothing else is anywhere near as interesting to your brain.
From your genes’ perspective, it’s the perfect design—to keep you fertilizing frantically—before this “valuable opportunity” slips away.

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The Blog of Pornographicus Porno Blog List

One of the hard, cold facts of online life is that most blogs dedicated to the subjects of pornography and masturbation do not live a very long life. …. I thought it would be a suitable time to highlight these blogs that have shown they are in it for the long haul…as a few of these have been linked by me going all the way back to 2007 when I first started The Blog of Pornographicus at Blog.com.

I hope my readers will check out at least a few of these blogs and find them to be as enjoyable as I have for so long…..

via The Blog of Pornographicus.

Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction Is A Growing Problem

A growing number of young, healthy Internet pornography users are complaining of delayed ejaculation, inability to be turned on by real partners, and sluggish erections.

Lots of guys, 20s or so, can’t get it up anymore with a real girl, and they all relate having a serious porn/masturbation habit. Guys will never openly discuss this with friends or co-workers, for fear of getting laughed out of town. But when someone tells their story on a health forum, and there are 50-100 replies from other guys who struggle with the same thing, this is for real.

more Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction Is A Growing Problem | Psychology Today


My Journey through Porn Addiction, Part III: ‘The Mechanics of Porn Addiction’ « The Anti Porn Men Project

…The first process urged me towards greater sexual gratification and the easiest way to do that was through porn. The second process then kicked in and made me feel ashamed of viewing the porn. The first process retaliated by increasing my desires, driving me back to the ‘net and escalating from soft porn to hardcore. The second process responded by heaping greater shame and self-disgust upon me. This Catch-22 spiralled with ever-increasing intensity until it took over my life. Both processes were simply doing what they were programmed to do. This was a cycle without end – until, as already related in this series, I realised that unconditional acceptance of my sexual self was the key. This disempowered the negative process, allowing me to disengage from the Catch-22. And because I was then free to allow sexual joy into my actual life, the need for the porn substitute subsided…..

via My Journey through Porn Addiction, Part III: ‘The Mechanics of Porn Addiction’ « The Anti Porn Men Project.

Health | How to talk to kids about their father’s addictions | Seattle Times Newspaper

Q: My ex moved out six years ago. We have two daughters he saw every other weekend. They are now 18 and 20. My ex remains a “functional alcoholic” but his more debilitating addiction is pornography. Since my daughters only saw their dad every other weekend, they were unaware of his addictions. When my older daughter left for college we discussed the alcoholism. As the younger daughter leaves this fall, it’s time both know about their addiction history. Alcohol I can explain. How do I discuss porn’s dangers and addictiveness while respecting their love for their dad?

via Health | How to talk to kids about their father’s addictions | Seattle Times Newspaper.