This is from a commercial phonesex mistress, but it is well said:

Let’s face it, boys. When you’re a chronic masturbator, you can’t help but notice the lack of energy and stamina after you’re blown your load. Most orgasm denial phone sex focuses on the phone humiliation aspect Don’t you agree when you haven’t splooged for a week or so you’re more focused, more productive and even more creative? Think about how drained you feel when you’ve orgasmed, how weak and limp and useless… In fact… when you leave all your juices where they belong, you’re a better man for it.

Many so-called secret sexual practices like tantra revolve around sexual intercourse or masturbation to the edge, over and over without orgasm at all. Satisfaction is attained by the slow build, the anticipation, the increased sexual awareness that leaves you eager, energetic… unlike the weakness that orgasm brings. In this vein, it’s not so much cockteasing blueball that’s the goal, rather raising your consciousness by deliberately containing your most vital essence, semen. It’s about keeping it inside, flowing free. There’s no real celibacy, stimulation is encouraged, often required…. so this isn’t about chastity training in the least.

Do you feel more ambitious when you’ve mastered self control? Does the feel of your aching balls remind you of all the things inside you that need release, not just your spunk? Balzac claimed that with every orgasm, another novel was lost. Perhaps you need this self control, this erotic denial to push you closer to the man you long to be? Orgasm denial isn’t always about humiliation or female domination, often it’s an act of self mastery and control. Does that fascinate you as much as me? If so, give me a call and let’s explore orgasm denial as a journey of enlightenment, not humiliation or domination.

Orgasm Denial As An Act of Self Mastery, Not Humiliation