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Why won’t my husband sleep with me? – Ask Wayne – Salon.com

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Dear Wayne,

My husband of eight months now prefers masturbation,  with or without porn, to having sex with me. He had a stroke four months ago and claims that he is afraid if we have sex that he will have another stroke.

It is humiliating to have him prefer his hand to me and deny that he is masturbating when I walk in the room as he is climaxing. Then he gets up — still denying the act! — and drips ejaculate across the carpet.

What can I do? I am a healthy, willing and able female and did not get married to continue auto-eroticism as my sole sexual outlet.

via Why won’t my husband sleep with me? – Ask Wayne – Salon.com.

Too Much of a Good Thing? When Sex Lasts Too Long – FoxNews.com

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One of the major reasons is the rapid proliferation of Internet porn—these days, all you have to do is log on to your laptop to be a few clicks away from everything from the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue to hardcore video clips. Easy access to porn has made frequent masturbation among men more common, which turn can increase the time it takes to reach orgasm and ejaculate during real sex. With so many varieties of porn at your fingertips, you may get in the habit of having a steady flow of sexual novelty and intense visual stimulation and therefore have a more difficult time reaching peak levels of sexual arousal with your real-world partner.

via Too Much of a Good Thing? When Sex Lasts Too Long – FoxNews.com.

Should you worry about your partner’s self-lovin’? – Jonathan Alpert

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My boyfriend masturbates all the time. He has no problem doing it around me and it seems our sex life has declined as a result. For various reasons I really think its wrong and don’t understand why he does it at all and I feel he’s cheating on me in a way.

via Should you worry about your partner’s self-lovin’? – Jonathan Alpert.

I Obsessively Monitor My Husband’s Lube Bottle | xoJane

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“So,” I said, “the stuff was out on the bed today.” (We call it “the stuff” — very adult.)

“Huh?” he muttered.

“The stuff?” I said “It was out on the bed?”

“Oh. Oops,” he replied, and then changed the subject.

A couple days later I brought it up again. “I don’t know why it bothers me but I freak out when you go to take a shower because I’m afraid that you’re going to masturbate and I KNOW it shouldn’t bother me, but it does.”

via I Obsessively Monitor My Husband’s Lube Bottle | xoJane.

Health | How to talk to kids about their father’s addictions | Seattle Times Newspaper

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Q: My ex moved out six years ago. We have two daughters he saw every other weekend. They are now 18 and 20. My ex remains a “functional alcoholic” but his more debilitating addiction is pornography. Since my daughters only saw their dad every other weekend, they were unaware of his addictions. When my older daughter left for college we discussed the alcoholism. As the younger daughter leaves this fall, it’s time both know about their addiction history. Alcohol I can explain. How do I discuss porn’s dangers and addictiveness while respecting their love for their dad?

via Health | How to talk to kids about their father’s addictions | Seattle Times Newspaper.

The orgasm that lasts FOUR months

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…..Daedone stresses that OM is not foreplay; it’s practised separately from sex and away from the bed and is not designed to induce orgasm, but to keep the woman on a plateau of sensation.

The way I read things, OM is a form of recalibration that prepares the body for better, more intense sex. It seems far-fetched until you consider how the intense practice of Pilates and stretches are an essential preparation for ballet.

Daedone believes most people don’t know the lightest touch can produce the greatest sensation in the female body and that the most important thing is stripping away the barriers to true feeling and becoming joyfully, guiltlessly connected.

The lights-on, talky-talky strategy is designed to help dismantle inhibitions….

via The orgasm that lasts FOUR months… and how achieving it involves keeping your clothes on and not turning out the lights! | Mail Online.

August 25, 2010 : Savage Love | The A.V. Club

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I lost my virginity last night.

I’m a straight male in my early 30s, so it was about time. It wasn’t awkward, and we had a good time. However, I didn’t climax during sex, which is a result of years of death-grip masturbation. (Thanks for the warning, Dan, I’m sorry I didn’t heed it.) She took it personally, but seemed satisfied when I said it was only nerves.

via August 25, 2010 : Savage Love | The A.V. Club.

Beatin-Off: my collection of my ex’s pics

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…So now I’m in my new apartment, alone. I had a nice collection of porn mags, but on occasion I would pull out her pics to jerk-off over. It was a real turn-on. I’d ogle that pic of her in her wedding dress. She was so pretty, and flat-chested! I’d stroke my little dick and think about how she had rejected me. I’d wonder if she realized these pics were missing and that I was masturbating over them….

via Beatin-Off: my collection of my ex’s pics.