The Open Zipper Project: an oral history by chronic masturbators [periodic posting]

Note: click to see current recordings in the Open Zipper Project and the Wank Bank

 

Wanted: Men and Women to talk about themselves for an Oral History of Chronic Masturbation Addiction

Are you a chronic masturbator? Would you like to metaphorically “open your zipper” and share your story of living with chronic masturbation addiction? Would you like to tell complete strangers (safely and anonymously) about the most secret, most private, and most important thing in your life? And do it with your real zipper open and let your listeners know you are masturbating as you speak, perhaps even orgasming for them?

Onania . Org/asm is conducting the Open Zipper Project, an oral history of, by, and for chronic masturbators. By telephone I will interview you and record a frank, open, and revealing confession about your masturbation addiction. The recording will be posted to Onania . Org/asm in a public oral history archive. (See current Open Zipper Interviews)  

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Delightful Frenzy

Delightful Frenzy 

The passion attained during a long non ejaculatory masturbation may sense stronger than any conceivable orgasm. I’m not talking about having strong “almost orgasms”. I’m referring to becoming overexcited; achieving a kind of narcotic state of excitement. Preparing for an orgasm that never happens works like a natural drug*. The enduring masturbation pours an excessive amount of sexual hormones are into the blood system. Who wants to stop when masturbating only becomes better and better? Having a number of “almost orgasms” or prolonging an “almost orgasm” during the high is just extra bonus.
http://uncummed.blogspot.com/2011_12_21_archive.html#2284650995554268049

Polly has a climax [Open Zipper Project]

zipper Polly (yes, guys, a lady maturbator) provided this wordless but heartfelt celebration of her female masturbatory pleasures. Enjoy. She did.

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As always, feedback is welcome. Also see

For the record, all opinions are those of the conversation participants and not necessarily those of Onania . Org/asm. The recordings are made with knowledge and approval of the participants. Click Open Zipper Project for more information on this series.

Too Much of a Good Thing? When Sex Lasts Too Long – FoxNews.com

One of the major reasons is the rapid proliferation of Internet porn—these days, all you have to do is log on to your laptop to be a few clicks away from everything from the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue to hardcore video clips. Easy access to porn has made frequent masturbation among men more common, which turn can increase the time it takes to reach orgasm and ejaculate during real sex. With so many varieties of porn at your fingertips, you may get in the habit of having a steady flow of sexual novelty and intense visual stimulation and therefore have a more difficult time reaching peak levels of sexual arousal with your real-world partner.

via Too Much of a Good Thing? When Sex Lasts Too Long – FoxNews.com.

The orgasm that lasts FOUR months

…..Daedone stresses that OM is not foreplay; it’s practised separately from sex and away from the bed and is not designed to induce orgasm, but to keep the woman on a plateau of sensation.

The way I read things, OM is a form of recalibration that prepares the body for better, more intense sex. It seems far-fetched until you consider how the intense practice of Pilates and stretches are an essential preparation for ballet.

Daedone believes most people don’t know the lightest touch can produce the greatest sensation in the female body and that the most important thing is stripping away the barriers to true feeling and becoming joyfully, guiltlessly connected.

The lights-on, talky-talky strategy is designed to help dismantle inhibitions….

via The orgasm that lasts FOUR months… and how achieving it involves keeping your clothes on and not turning out the lights! | Mail Online.

”Karezza: Sex, Please…But, Hold the Orgasm!” | Reuniting

Is “edging” a form of Karezza with yourself?

…If having an orgasm wasn’t going to define your sexual experience and you were just going to breathe in your lover’s scent, enjoy the feeling of their body rhythmically moving to the sound of your hearts beating, where would you go in that experience? By changing how we view our sexual experiences with one another, from something we must “achieve” to something we can enjoy, the entire experience opens to us like a flower blooming….

via ?”Karezza: Sex, Please…But, Hold the Orgasm!” | Reuniting.

Open your zipper: a request for submissions (and emissions)

I am reviving the Open Zipper Project. Rather than trying to schedule a telephone interview with chronic masturbators, I invite you to make a solo recording and send it to me for inclusion.

Wanted: Men and Women to talk about Chronic Masturbation Addiction

Are you a chronic masturbator? Would you like to metaphorically “open your zipper” and share your story of living with chronic masturbation addiction? Would you like to tell complete strangers (safely and anonymously) about the most secret, most private, and most important thing in your life? And do it with your real zipper open and let your listeners know you are masturbating as you speak, perhaps even orgasming for them?

Onania . Org/asm is conducting the Open Zipper Project, an oral history of, by, and for chronic masturbators. I invite masturbators to contribute a frank, open, and revealing confession about your masturbation addiction. The recording will be posted to Onania . Org/asm in a public oral history archive. The Open Zipper Projectwelcomes adult chronic masturbators of both genders and all sexual orientations. Also females who enjoy interacting with masturbators are welcome to discuss their perspective.

See Open Zipper Project for further information.

Male Chastity: Why it’s really not a big deal « The Edge of Vanilla

When I see the comments about male chastity devices in other venues (Yahoo Answers, Boing Boing, etc.) invariably a few guys seem totally freaked at the idea that anyone – i.e., any other guy – would even stand for having just one orgasm denied, let alone being denied for weeks or months at a time.

But let’s put this in perspective: I’ve often written that having sex without orgasm is not much different than having sex with orgasm (i.e., mine).I still get aroused. I still get to sensually explore my wife’s body, and she still sensually explores mine. I often even get very close to coming, even if I’m still in the device. In fact, all I’m really missing is that few seconds of “fireworks” at the end.

via Male Chastity: Why it’s really not a big deal « The Edge of Vanilla.