Tag: Mutual

I Just Love His Plumbing (1) « peaks-n-pulses

Posted by Onania Org/asm – July 5, 2010

 

There are two ways to make love (i.e. sex) to or rather with a man. You can fuck with him or you can make love to his genitalia. In the first case you want him as a whole being, that´d be a full body / full impact affair. In the latter case you want his dick and his balls and his juice. And you want him to go wild over what you do with his sexual plumbing. I want to talk about this kind of lovemaking.

You go for this kind of sex for two reasons. One concerns your man and one yourself. You want to do it for your man, because you can give him the most intense sexual climaxes he may be able to experience. They include deeply felt orgasms and extended ejaculations and everything in between. This provided he has a 100% trust in you and will devote himself fully to your ability to love his genitals with utmost refinement. It requires good communication skills and you gain best results if you not only just know, but love each other.

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Special friends cont.

Posted by Onania Org/asm – June 7, 2010

a masturbator said:

Glad you’ve gotten something out of reading of my
experience and realised that you don’t have to be gay
to enjoy masturbating with someone of the same gender,
neither does it MAKE you gay, gays are born gay and
look upon men in the same way that straight women do.
Just a word of caution to those members that might be
thinking of ‘sounding out’ any friends.  Don’t!  Mike
seems to have been lucky but I have heard numerous
tales of guys that suggested this to a friend and,
with the excitement of the moment, gone ahead only to
find that the friendship quickly deteriorated after
that.  The reason is that the friendship was based on
other things, not sex, and don’t forget you both have
mutual friends, you never know what the ‘friend’ might
say to others that know you.  That’s what makes a
‘special friend’, (a wanking partner) special, he (or
she) doesn’t know your friends, relatives, workmates
and you don’t know theirs so, no matter WHAT happens
in the future, and even if your special friend tells
everyone they know, none of them know YOU so your
secret is safe.  This gives you both a feeling of
security and you can really indulge yourselves by
describing favourite fantasies whilst stroking and
thus share the feelings.  Believe me, when you know
exactly what point your partner is at, YOU get the
same feelings, even though you’re receiving no
stimulation at that moment.  When the other partner
cums, it’s not unusual to feel as if YOU’VE cum!  You
get the same feeling of satisfaction, believe it or
not!  As my partner observed, it’s like having TWO
wanks, one when each of you cums!
I strongly suggest that nobody should imagine they
could do this with someone who is a current friend,
you MIGHT be lucky, like Mike, but imagine what the
friendship would be like if your friend gave you a
sideways look and declined the suggestion!
Rick

Special friends

Posted by Onania Org/asm – June 6, 2010

 

a masturbator said:

Two members have responded to my experiences with a
Special Friend and they have raised a couple of
points worth consideration.  How did I find the right
guy? and How would I feel about touching another man
in that way?
Members who also enjoy the same fantasy with dreams of
some day making it real will have the same
concernsand many others, too.  I spent several years
enjoying this thought and recognised many problems,
including those same concerns, but also worked out
ways to eliminate or at least to minimise them.

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Straight guys masturbating

Posted by Onania Org/asm – May 30, 2010

a masturbator said:

Wow!!  I seem to have opened a can of worms with this one!  First let
me say that I live in Australia so, unfortunately for those that
offered to meet, I have to say 'thanks, but that's not possible'.
Let me also say that in my 'research' before I got up the courage to
make this real, I discovered that there are a hell of a lot of guys,
regular, ordinary, straight guys, (a lot of them married!) that have
fantasised for YEARS about playing with another cock.  Their biggest
fear is to be thought 'queer' or in any way homosexual.  All those I
exchanged thoughts with by letter, email and phone, continually
stressed that they did not consider themselves in any way homosexual
and were extremely concerned that any such activity would be kept
very strictly private, as private as their fantasies about it had
been up till then.  Usually their answer to my advert was the very
first time they had responded to ANY sex ad and was because most ads
wanted much more, things they didn't want, like anal sex, master &
slave, and suchlike.

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A masturbator’s story

Posted by Onania Org/asm – May 6, 2010

 

a masturbator said:

Hi,
I don’t know that I fit the description of a chronic masturbator, as
I don’t masturbate every day any more.  I read a definition of
masturbation as "the stimulation of the genitals to orgasm by any
means other than sexual intercourse" and since I don’t cum every day
perhaps I can’t claim to be a chronic masturbator.  However, I do
enjoy playing with my penis, the feel of it in my hand, getting it
hard, stroking, letting it down then getting it up again and I do
this for hours most days as I live alone and enjoy this after work
whatever else I might be doing.

 

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Masturbating in Vegas

Posted by Onania Org/asm – April 28, 2010

a masturbator said:

Several years ago on a trip to Las Vegas I responded
to an ad from a "mature lady" who did "toy shows."
She was outstanding!  I had to schedule the show a day
in advance because she only did two a day - one in the
morning and one in the evening. I chose the morning
show.
She showed up at my hotal room and got right down to
business.  We sat in chairs facing each other right in
front of the suite's wall-to-ceiling window for
optimum viewing pleasure.  She was very friendly and
acted like it was just second nature for us to want to
cum together. 

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Kids gone wild

Posted by Onania Org/asm – April 24, 2010

masturbators recall:

Mine run to about the same age...all the neighborhood kids used to get
toghether and head to some fields behind our houses that were
undeveloped...trees, grasslands, etc. One summer we scavanged enough
old wood and materials to fabricate a tree house...platform actually
where we would lie down and pull out our little dicks to rub them on
each other, hold, fondle, and show off.  Sometimes one of the kids
would get an older cousin with pubic hair to drop by and share in a
circle jerk - he being the only one that would cum. We loved dropping
our pants and pulling pud!  This went on well into high school and was
normal for our neighborhood!  Can't get enough self pleasuring and am
soooooo glad for a proper upbringing!

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Different points of view

Posted by Onania Org/asm – March 17, 2010

…”So it just spurts out?” Rachel asked. [I had deliberately gotten him on the topic of sex and masturbation in a way I am quite proud of. You'd be amazed at how easy it is to stear teenage boys to the topic, especially when your hands keep sliding to the crotch of your jeans or to a bra-strap.]

“Yep. Well, sometimes it dribbles.” I replied.

“Can I…can you show me?” She queried.

My erection was practically ripping through my shorts, I not only wanted to show her, I wanted to soak her in my semen, to push her into a pool of it and roll around with her, let it submerge us both in its sticky ozone scented goodness, okay, so that is kind of weird, but it was my first thought. I smiled. [Eew, more on this later...but...not all that hot.]

“I will. If you promise not to tell anyone and if you do something for me.” I said, not believing the words that came out of my mouth. “Let me touch you while I stroke myself.”

Rae paused for a second before speaking, seeming either deep in thought or lost in space, she always had that bright but ditzy way about her [Fuck you, Andy, who is the fucking college graduate now! Ahem, sorry about that. He dropped out after his first semester...and is probably much happier for it]. “Okay” unbuttoning my shorts and letting them drop the floor before sitting back down on the bed. It was summer, so I had gone commando, Rachel seemed fascinated with my bush of curly black and brown hair that covered my crotch. “Is it always that big?” She asked. I replied that it was hard only when I was really excited. [He was not 'that big', this is actually just something that Kaja said (and she was right) that all boys (and men, etc) liked to be praised for.]…

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Erotic sexual denial – (Wikipedia)

Posted by Onania Org/asm – March 7, 2010

Erotic sexual denial, also known as orgasm denial, is a sexual practice in which a person is kept in a heightened state of sexual arousal for an extended length of time, without being allowed to orgasm, and is commonly practiced in association with BDSM and sexual bondage. Erotic sexual denial is a more extreme form of orgasm control, in which the subject is ultimately allowed to climax.

An alternative form of erotic sexual denial is the total denial of all genital stimulation. To ensure a total denial of stimulation, a couple may use a chastity device that physically prevents touch to the genitals and/or full erection.

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Orgasm control (Wikipedia)

Posted by Onania Org/asm – March 3, 2010

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Orgasm control, also known as “peaking”, “surfing”, and by other terms,[1] is a sexual technique involving either an active partner taking control over a passive partner’s orgasm, or one person controlling their own orgasm in sexual intercourse or through masturbation. As it pertains to this page, the orgasm is controlled and held back for an extended period of time as near as possible to the orgasm itself, and then the person is finally allowed to experience the orgasm.

Called “slow masturbation” in Alex Comfort’s The New Joy of Sex (1984)[2]and “extended massive orgasm” in Vera and Steve Bodansky’s 2000 book of the same name, it is similar to the Venus Butterfly technique used in the volume The One Hour Orgasm (1999) by Leah and Bob Schwartz. However, any method of stimulation–manual, oral, intercourse, or with sex toys–can be used by either a single person or by one or more active partners to prolong the sexual experience leading up to orgasm.

In a two-person exchange, a partner will stimulate the receiver, gradually bringing them up to the point high in the plateau phase where an orgasm is actually building, and will then reduce the level of stimulation just below that needed to trigger the orgasm. By carefully varying the intensity and speed of stimulation, and by practicing with the same partner to learn their responses, a person is held in the highly-aroused state near orgasm. This process may be repeated as desired, but at some point repetition may cause the urge to orgasm to become overwhelming. When a partner eventually provides enough stimulation to achieve an orgasm, it may be stronger than usual due to the increased tension and arousal that builds up during the extended stimulation.

Since orgasm control prolongs the experience of powerful sexual sensations occurring during the final build-up to orgasm, the physical demands of being kept or keeping oneself in this highly-excited state for an extended time can induce a pleasurable, almost euphoric state, and at times creates changes within an individual’s perceived consciousness.

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