“You don’t need to fuck your Johns.” Maya said as she took a puff from her cigarette. Cathy listened attentively to the older woman’s account. “There are plenty of old perverts there who will pay just to have you watch them jerk-off.” Cathy relished the thought. Her last date had slapped her around and then stiffed her. She enjoyed a good fucking, but most of these guys weren’t at all concerned about her pleasure, only getting their rocks off in her cunt. “Come with me.” Maya said. “I have a date with one of these perverts. We’ll make it a double date.”
As a public service, Onania . Org/asm offers a Tumblr Blog illustrating the kind of materials (photos and videos) that some masturbators find arousing during their self-gratification sessions. We do not publish this material on the main blog (here) because the graphic and arousing nature might tempt some recovering masturbators to abuse themselves. If you are interested in studying this material and have the will power to resist the powerfully addictive nature of visual images, then please refer to the
- Onania . Org/asm Tumblr Blog (updated daily). These photos and videos are often captioned, to emphasize the frustration and emasculation that chronic masturbators feel. You may see an overview of previous posts on the archive page.
- I also flag certain photos for future captioning, or for personal use.
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I’ve talked about my first orgasm before. I enjoy orgasms very much. Some are more intense than others. But my first is one I remember very well and one I still think about often. My parents were out on a Saturday night and my brother had me go into our bedroom, pulled down my pajamas, and started beating me off (that’s what he later told me it was called). The funny thing is, at the time I don’t recall that it was all that pleasurable. I really didn’t know what to make of it. Mostly I was curious as to what my brother was up to when he started stroking my dick and I was surprised when that white stuff came out. I remember that it felt strange- not necessarily pleasant or unpleasant- only different than anything I had experienced before. One thing is for sure, it really had an impact on me since it is so prominent in my memory even after all of this time. Was your first orgasm sheer ecstasy? Or was it a surprise?
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What is Compulsive Masturbation?
Among all the kinds of sexual acts, compulsive masturbation is one of the most secret and isolative of them all. But, what is compulsive masturbation addiction. A man or a woman who compulsively masturbates with or without the use of porn is often the last to seek help, often not seeing or understanding their behaviour as problematic. Most of them masturbate after watching some of the BEST FREE PORN VIDEOS. Their hidden behaviour is often related to past trauma, familial societal or religious shame associated with the sex act and intimacy. People have internal beliefs about masturbation as one of the “dirty,” “shameful,” or “sinful” act it.
While most sex addicts actively seek treatment when they pushed by some obvious external consequence of the legal, occupational, health, or relational type, the solitary nature of the compulsive masturbator’s behavior leaves his or her actions less subject to the direct consequences of other forms of sexual acting out. The sex addict engaging in compulsive masturbation more often seeks help for anxiety, obsession, isolation, and the inability to seek or maintain healthy intimate relationships. Some compulsive masturbators do experience consequences through the viewing of inappropriate materials (e.g., child pornography), through masturbating in inappropriate places (e.g., the workplace or an automobile), or due to self-injury. However, the most frequent consequence of compulsive masturbation is a life devoid of intimacy, removed from feeling, and filled with hidden shame.
While some compulsively masturbate in a brief, routine fashion, others can act more as binge masturbators. They may find themselves spending hours at a time “lost” in fantasy, porn use, and masturbation. Likely responding to some strong internal, intolerable stressor or emotion combined with an external identifiable trigger or stimulus (like a disagreement or hurt), this type of compulsive masturbator can lose hours or even days to online and offline porn with or without drug use and masturbation. They can literally lock themselves up at home, or in motel rooms, and disappear into their masturbatory escape.
This type of behaviour may result in genital injury due to the amount of time and energy devoted to the masturbation. While usually the injury and pain is not sought for pleasure, the binge compulsive masturbator will not use physical damage as a guide toward stopping or self-care. Instead they will likely continue their sexual activity, even hurting themselves further and bringing about more shame.
I fully agree with the comments of this masturbator:
I believe that the primary function of pornography is to facilitate masturbation. I ran across a reference to an article in a journal called “Sexuality and Culture” recently. I could only read the abstract as I do not have access to this journal and would certainly not pay the $39.95 they publisher is asking for it. But the abstract was good enough for me. The abstract for “Masculinity, Pornography, and the History of Masturbation” states “This article takes as its starting point the observation that contemporary pornography is, in a significant sense, about masturbation. This connection has been largely ignored in recent research on pornography.” I couldn’t agree more. I’ve noted that on sites that have porn and allow comments that a lot of guys talk about the woman’s looks or say that they’d like to have sex with them. Who wouldn’t? But when I see a pic of a beautiful naked women I grab my dick and start stroking (unless, of course, I’m already doing it). How many people looking at porn on-line don’t touch themselves? And how many of these poor horny individuals stop right there?