The Batehole: Married Masturbators, on Bateworld

Here are some of the comments from my group, Married Masturbators, on Bateworld:

- Married masturbator here. So addicted I go limp in real pussy. Haven’t fucked in years. But I masturbate 2-3 hours a day and get real hard for handpussy. 

- Slowly becoming more and more addicted to masturbation. Wife calls me a pervert for masturbating for hours and hours in front of the computer, looking at women getting fucked and men masturbating. Little does she know that calling me a masturbator only gets me more turned on.

Getting to the point where we fuck once a quarter. But I’m so into my dick and love to masturbate so much it that it doesn’t bother me like it used to. I love being a beatoff 

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just say no to fucking

in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OnaniaSupport/ a masturbator wrote:

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During our years of marriage i never had
intercourse. I tryed a few times when we first got married bu due to
my heavy addiction i couldn’t keep an erection after penetration.She
had hundreds of lovers trough the years and i was quite happy with my
sessions fueled by the humiliation of being a known wimpy
cuckold.knowing about her affairs and at time listening at her bed
room door use to make me have several orgasms in one session,I’m sure
i fully qualify for the new group.

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Starting a New Society – Just Say No To Fucking

in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OnaniaSupport/ a masturbator wrote:

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I found one other member like me, and we decided to start our informal
group “Just Say No to Fucking”. We are married guys who have given up
having sex with our wives so we can dedicate our whole life to
masturbating to fantasies and porn, and enjoy chatroom talk. My wife
doesn’t care. Told her I was a compulsive masturbator when we married,
and she laughed, and got somewhat turned on by it. She catches me here
once in awhile, and just laughs, says something about ooh look at
those dirty pictures and walks away. We really are best friends and do
everything together. She insisted on an open marriage when we got
married, so I had one affair with a gal that my wife would even invite
over to dinner while it was going on (wife knew she was my mistress).
My wife had stepped out a few times, but never wants to talk about who
or what is going on. But I digress. Is there anyone else in this group
who would qualify for membership in our club. Married or single or
divorced?
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Blog | Porn is a Marriage Killer

… Pornography is often portrayed as harmless, maybe even part of a healthy sex life. Hollywood and the media want you to believe porn is good and safe because they make hundreds of millions of dollars perpetuating the myth.

Over the last 5 years the amount of pornography available on the Internet has grown exponentially. Increased Internet pornography equals increased online pornography addiction.

That’s right, it can become an addiction and you may not even know it’s happening. It’s normal to become aroused when viewing pornography. The brain triggers the release of chemicals when arousal occurs. These chemicals can produce feelings of intoxication and heightened senses. In a normal, healthy relationship, these naturally occurring “drugs” bond man to woman in a beautiful, healthy sexual relationship. But, when a man views pornography, these chemicals can bond him to unhealthy fantasies, which often lead to Internet pornography addiction, which is seemingly impossible to break. Porn is a marriage killer. …

via Blog | Porn is a Marriage Killer.

a married man who has been relegated to masturbation

a masturbator wrote:

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Hello,
First, let me say that I am a married man who has been relegated to
masturbation due to the dreaded wifely loss of sexual appetite.
However, I have always been highly sexual and a masturbater for
longer than I can remember. As a young boy, I remember laying in bed
looking at my mother’s magazines and getting a tingling feeling in my
little penis…which I began to rub. I do remember some early dry
orgasms. I can’t say I remember my first wet experience…but, then I
began to have to deal with my lustful ejaculate once I reach puberty.
Well, somewhere in my teen years I discovered that I was turned on by
female dominant situations…I would get erections when I would view
old mainstream movies where a woman would seduce, tease, or otherwise
trick a hapless male and take advantage of him. It wasn’t until later
that I discovered that this was a sexual genre’ and this became part
of my jackoff scene.
I had also always been intrigued by tickling but also with the female
dominant. But, until I became Internet active, I couldn’t satisfy
this fantasy.
It was though my tickling fantasy and surfing for stories…reading
is so much more vivid that videos are…that I discovered that I was
also turned on by a male dominant tickling scenario…with a male
victim. It was also about this time that I found that orgasm
control…either way…forced orgasm or orgasm dinial…were also
major turn ons…and I loved it when combinded with my favorite
tickling.
I am not gay…but I have been intrigued by the thought of a “circle
jerk” that has been discussed here.
Well, that’s a little of my story.

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A masturbator who can’t fuck his wife’s pussy

a masturbator wrote:

I also enjoyed masturbating to this podcast. I only masturbate – I cannot fuck my wifes pussy, because I cannot stay erect inside it. The reason that I cannot stay erect inside her pussy is because I enjoy prolonged masturbation much more than fucking, I sometimes masturbate for hours! Oh! How I love masturbating, been doing it for years – I’m hard and doing it right now. My wife does not like me masturbating, but I do it in front of her. No-one can play with my penis quite like I can, I’ve tried other things, I really have, but I much prefer masturbation!!!!! Of course, when I masturbate, I make sure that nothing goes to waste.

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All Male Fiction: “The Jerk Off Club” Part 1

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The Jerk Off Club

Part 1

By: Maddrapper

Remember the first time you jerked off? How intense the feeling was and the sight of your cum shooting out of your dick? Most women don’t understand the need men have to masturbate all the time, but other guys do. Even though we never talk about it, or if we do it’s in the past tense. Like, “oh yeah when I was a teenager I did, but not anymore.” Bullshit. I knew that wasn’t true of any of my friends: we talked about fucking all the time and would swap pornos back and forth with each other. We would kid each other about what we were going to do with them as if it was some surprise that we whacked off to them when the wife or girlfriend wasn’t around. But no one would come out and directly say it, don’t ask don’t tell kinda stuff. So I decided to make things easier for all of us. Continue reading

My Addiction and Love for Masturbation

 

a married masturbator wrote

Hello All, 41 yo mwm with a deep addiction to masturbation! I am
married and love my wife dearly and we still, after 15 yrs, have sex
weekly but not as often as I would like. Since we’re married, I dont
and wont cheat on her but with a high sex drive, I must curve it to
keep things in check. Well I have found that in edgin and long
masturbation sessions. I edge for up to 4 hrs when I have enough time
and of course alone. I do cam during those long edge sessions. Also, I
masturbate several times a day without cumming so the build up
maximizes until I do cum, and then … BOOM! A wonderful explosion. If
there are any other fellow bators in Raleigh NC and would like to
chat , please contact me. As for any others with this affection and
addiction, lets chat as well. My wife is aware of my affection for
masturbation and is cool with it, on occassion she asks me to "perform"
for her.
Hope to hear back from one and all!!!!
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Hi Bud, I have the same situation, the wife’s libido is not as high
as mine but she likes me to have pleasure.  Dont want to cheat on
her so masturbation with long edging sessions is the solution.
Luckily, Mollie occasionally enjoys watching (she got hooked on guys
masturbating an spurting when she was very young) and I love having
her eyes on my cock as I stroke, seeing her breathing deepen as I
start to ooze my pre-cum, she often will help in the effort by
tweaking my nipples (which are very sensitive) and tickling my
asshole with her slender finger nails….nothing like a finger tip
penetrating my anus as I start to cum…

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Science discovers the basis for cuckoldry

Science has finally discovered a fact we masturbators have known all along:  Masturbators get married while Real Men get laid. When a woman wants a husband, a wimpy chronic masturbator is a good safe choice. But when she wants to get her brains fucked out …

Women See ‘Good Mate’ Traits in Effeminate Men | LiveScience

Women see the traits that make a good husband in male faces that tend toward female, a new study finds. …

Similarly, How Women Pick Mates vs. Flings depends on masculinity.

Women seem to judge potential mates by how masculine their features are, new research shows. Men with square jaws and well-defined brow ridges are seen as good short-term partners, while those with more feminine traits such as a rounder face and fuller lips are perceived as better long-term mates.

Overwhelmingly, participants said those with more masculine features were likely to be risky and competitive and also more apt to fight, challenge bosses, cheat on spouses and put less effort into parenting.  Those with more feminine faces were seen as good parents and husbands, hard workers and emotionally supportive mates … Despite all the negative attributes, when asked who they would choose for a short-term relationship, women still selected the more masculine looking men.

Most tellingly,Fertile Women Prefer Manly Men

A woman prefers a more masculine man when she is fertile and looking for a fling rather than a mate for life, according to a new study. … The finding suggests the value that women place on masculinity changes with context and with women’s reproductive cycles and immediate goals.

Women might be drawn to Brad Pitt types at the peak of their cycles for reasons related to evolutionary biology. Masculine bodies tend to have higher circulating levels of the hormone testosterone. … Men with hard bodies and sculpted jaws may therefore have better genes for producing better babies, so it would make sense for fertile women to be attracted to them. … This could also explain why women tend to prefer masculine men when they only want a fling.

As this study illustrates, women tend to prefer more feminine body types when they are less fertile, probably because high levels of testosterone makes men less likely to stay around.

My wife is willingly seduced

a pathetic cuckold masturbator wrote:

My wife is hot. She is 5’4" and around 110lbs. She has perfect tits
and a knock out ass and legs. I often marvel at the fact that she is
MY wife. We’ve been married almost 20 years. She is 41 and I am 43.
I have fantasized for years about her giving herself to another man. I
often bring this fantasy up but it is quickly shot down. Over the
years our sex life has almost disappeared. Even though she is hot as a
firecracker, she does not seem that interested in sex. When we first
met she was a little vixen. If my memory serves me, she gave me a blow
job on our second date. I remember her kissing me and then moving her
head down to my lap. She started rubbing me and asked if I would like
her to eat me. I of course said I would. She said "Oh good. I wasn’t
sure if you liked that or not". The funny thing about that statement
was it implied to me that she was familiar with giving head.
Well from that point in I was getting blowjobs in a lot different
places and times. I quickly realized that I was definitely not the
first man to enjoy this talent of hers. How many others have there
been? I wondered. As the years went by this lovely pastime of hers
disappeared. Within the last 5 years I would have to say we have had
sex maybe a dozen times. I think its been over a year to date now. I
often try to initiated sex with her by kissing her neck and cuddling
her but this always ends up with her getting the giggles and me
masturbating with my head in her lap. She will suggest I play with
myself instead.

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