Tag: Impact

Three Myths about Porn

Posted by Onania Org/asm – July 5, 2010

Three Myths about Porn – Reuniting

 

"My ex told me that he knew porn was an "addiction" for him. He used that term, and he said he wanted to stop and that because he couldn’t porn had "ruined his life." He also showed me a scar from masturbating to the point of bleeding because he was unable to stop.
He said porn made him want to cheat all the time, and made him constantly fantasize about "nasty" sex with strangers, and young (teen) girls. …
He would become agitated, irritable and mean when he could not look at porn because I was home, and he would become so angry and abusive due to frustration that I would unwittingly give him what he wanted by leaving. He would also abandon me places and run home and get online. He routinely had unprotected sex too – not thinking of reality or consequences like abortion, and STDs.
I have spoken to many guys in various forums who claim that their main problem with porn is that they cannot stop even when they want to."

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Lose fluid from the brain | JackinWorld

Posted by Onania Org/asm – June 23, 2010

Dangers of masturbation

… Once, when I was about 13, my parents took me to a doctor. I was having problems with asthma at the time. The doctor, a female, performed all the usual tests and then asked to speak to me alone. My parents left the room, and the doctor fixed me with a cold stare. “Do you play with yourself?” she asked. I was dumbstruck, shocked out of my wits, and started stuttering, eventually denying it. She would have none of that and told me flat out that I was lying. Then she said if I didn't stop, I would become feeble-minded, because each time a man ejaculates, she said, he loses fluid from his brain. The white stuff that comes out when you play with yourself, she said, was actually brain fluid. If a man continues with this, then after a while he loses his mind. And if that wasn't enough, masturbation was the real cause of my asthma, she said. So everyone around me knew of my filthy habit, because I got asthma from playing with myself. When we went out to meet my parents again, she said to me — right in front of my mom and dad: “No more monkey business!” I was mortified.

Later, I shared this with my best friend, and we decided to stop masturbating for fear of becoming morons. It was no good; neither of us could last more than a couple of days without masturbation. Besides, we soon figured out that married people must have sex on a regular basis — perhaps even daily, and that there could, therefore, be no truth to the doctor's story. I had already figured out that there could be no connection between masturbation and asthma. So we just resumed our masturbation and went at it with more gusto than ever before. …

via Lose fluid from the brain | JackinWorld.

Can’t She/He See I Need Sex?

Posted by Onania Org/asm – June 17, 2010

More problems caused by over-ejaculation

More intense stimulation produces quick orgasms but can further desensitize the brain, so this tactic can increase distress over the following days. Remember, an over-stimulated brain is a desensitized brain. And a further desensitized brain is even harder to satisfy for long. In fact, perpetual over-stimulation may turn your brain into a neurochemical black hole that urgently demands more and more jollies. At the same time, your recovering partner may feel an even greater need for soothing affection…only, or emotional distance. …  Some of us naturally attempt to equalize out-of-sync libidos by turning to potent sex-aids and masturbation. Unfortunately, today’s vibrators and extreme porn videos do their jobs with such intensity that they can further over-stimulate and desensitize the brain. After a time, the thought of normal sex with a familiar partner may no longer power up the urge to merge. …

via Can’t She/He See I Need Sex? | ScienceBlog.com.

Being chronic

Posted by Onania Org/asm – June 14, 2010

masturbators said:


One day while on a jobsite where I needed to stay on top of things to
keep up with the schedule, I was standing next to the van using the
passenger seat as a desk. It was a beautiful warm day, the first one
in ages and I soon started thinking how wonderful it would be to be
masturbating while sunbaking naked. Once that thought had popped into
my head I couldn't stop thinking about it and trying to concentrate on
work was proving impossible. It wasn't long before I gave up on
getting any work done and went home to spend the rest of the day
jacking off.
That day has stuck in my head as a good example of how the desire to
masturbate often rules my life.

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The more orgasms, the less attractive women find men

Posted by Onania Org/asm – June 12, 2010

Instead what he found matched with what we’ve been theorizing. The more orgasms the women had across the board…the more unattractive and aggressive they ranked the pictures of the men.

And the women who only masturbated during that time ranked the men the lowest. (Women engaging in oral sex with a partner and so forth didn’t like the men much either.) The PVI women ranked the men the highest – which suggests that it was the intercourse (deep connection with a partner), not the orgasms, that truly created a sense of loving wellbeing in the women.

 

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Candeo Podcast – Episode 31 – Is Masturbation a Healthy Outlet?

Posted by Onania Org/asm – June 11, 2010

Candeo Podcast – Episode 31 – Is Masturbation a Healthy Outlet?

A podcast on the issues of masturbation.  How much can you masturbate before it is harmful? What happens in your brain during masturbation? How does addiction take hold?

via Candeo Podcast – Episode 31 – Is Masturbation a Healthy Outlet?.

Porn and Perception: Is Your Limbic Brain Distorting Your Vision?

Posted by Onania Org/asm – June 3, 2010

Porn could be changing how you see your life

Can frequent porn use change users' perception in unexpected ways? Within a month or two of stopping porn, former users posting on the website's forum report greater clarity and optimism, and less dissatisfaction with their lives. They also see women and relationships differently. It may be that porn's effects are more invasive than generally acknowledged—even if devilishly difficult to measure. Said one guy:

Eight or nine years ago, I started to watch porn daily. Today I am 21. I masturbated at least once a day, but often up to 6 times. I truly thought it had no effect on my personality, but one day I realized that I had sort of a split personality. When horny I saw women as an objects for satisfaction, as vaginas with two legs. I know this sounds really degrading. On the other hand all my friends thought the same way, so I never got a reality check.

A perception shift is subtle. It's usually gradual and is seldom apparent to the person affected. Indeed, it may be evident only after clearer perception is restored. (Contrast such a shift with erectile dysfunction, a very tangible symptom that more and more heavy porn users report since free Internet videos became widely available some five years ago.)

It may be that comparing the outlooks of today's users during use with their outlooks a couple of months after porn use stops would reveal more than relying on snapshots in the form of self-reports, i.e., merely asking current users about porn's effects.

Here are recent excerpts from the posts of a long-time porn user. After a month without porn, he decided to stream some new porn videos without masturbating and record his impressions.

via Porn and Perception: Is Your Limbic Brain Distorting Your Vision? | Reuniting.

Warning: Do not exceed recommended usage of penis [podcasturbation]

Posted by Onania Org/asm – May 6, 2010

A Pants-Down Podcasturbation

It is very important for every chronic masturbator to maintain a healthy, sustainable level of usage of his penis. The level varies from masturbator to masturbator, but each of us has a maximum recommended level that we should not exceed. Of course, the penis will urge us to masturbate more and more, even to unsafe levels of usage, but we must resist. The results of excessive penis use include exhaustion, depression, and mental impairment (also called Penis Brain). This podcasturbation addresses these important issues.

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What have you sacrificed for masturbation?

Posted by Onania Org/asm – May 1, 2010

masturbators said

In my quest to become more addicted to porn and masturbation, I know
that I need to devote more time to it. Other things will get neglected
but I’m willing to pay that price.

What things have you, my fellow perverts, sacrificed for masturbation?

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Settle for a lower paying job to have less distracting stress and more
time for my only true obsession of Penis masturbation

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I’ve always heard that if you’re skipping meals or missing work, you
may have a problem with masturbation.
I’ve done both.

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This pervert has willingly sacrificed all of the things an addict does when
he has surrendered to a lover greater than anything else in his life, i.e.
the lord god of male masturbation. I have eagerly surrendered my mind, body
and soul. I have withdrawn from friends in order to reduce the demands of
friendship and socializing that require time.
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Stopping [Periodic Posting]

Posted by Onania Org/asm – April 27, 2010

Warning for Satire-Impaired Readers

blind.kubrickheaderChronic masturbation is one of the major social and personal challenges facing males today. The pornographic temptations of the Internet are irresistible for males with weak moral characters, and once in the grip of masturbatory addiction, it is virtually impossible for the male to free himself from the habit. If left unchecked, genital self-abuse can and often does take over his life, seriously impacting self esteem, career achievement, social ties, and family well being.

Barbberi774Although masturbatory addiction in the habituated male is irreversible and incurable, the damage wrought can be limited if the addict, with the help of his partner, works to control his more compulsive and vicious excesses.

For those males sincerely struggling to control the habit of masturbation, we offer the following resources.

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