Science discovers the basis for cuckoldry

Science has finally discovered a fact we masturbators have known all along:  Masturbators get married while Real Men get laid. When a woman wants a husband, a wimpy chronic masturbator is a good safe choice. But when she wants to get her brains fucked out …

Women See ‘Good Mate’ Traits in Effeminate Men | LiveScience

Women see the traits that make a good husband in male faces that tend toward female, a new study finds. …

Similarly, How Women Pick Mates vs. Flings depends on masculinity.

Women seem to judge potential mates by how masculine their features are, new research shows. Men with square jaws and well-defined brow ridges are seen as good short-term partners, while those with more feminine traits such as a rounder face and fuller lips are perceived as better long-term mates.

Overwhelmingly, participants said those with more masculine features were likely to be risky and competitive and also more apt to fight, challenge bosses, cheat on spouses and put less effort into parenting.  Those with more feminine faces were seen as good parents and husbands, hard workers and emotionally supportive mates … Despite all the negative attributes, when asked who they would choose for a short-term relationship, women still selected the more masculine looking men.

Most tellingly,Fertile Women Prefer Manly Men

A woman prefers a more masculine man when she is fertile and looking for a fling rather than a mate for life, according to a new study. … The finding suggests the value that women place on masculinity changes with context and with women’s reproductive cycles and immediate goals.

Women might be drawn to Brad Pitt types at the peak of their cycles for reasons related to evolutionary biology. Masculine bodies tend to have higher circulating levels of the hormone testosterone. … Men with hard bodies and sculpted jaws may therefore have better genes for producing better babies, so it would make sense for fertile women to be attracted to them. … This could also explain why women tend to prefer masculine men when they only want a fling.

As this study illustrates, women tend to prefer more feminine body types when they are less fertile, probably because high levels of testosterone makes men less likely to stay around.

Fucking furniture for practice

a masturbator said:


I agree that thrusting into something is a good form of less
stimulatory training.  I think Richard has shown the way with using
furniture.  Try penetrating a nice firm couch between the "lips" of
the cushions.  You will need to use something silky to put between
the "lips" of the couch as the friction on dry fabric can be hell on
an erect penis!!
You can practice thrusting and technique and try to hold on for as
long as possible before coming.  It will take a while at first but
keep fucking your couch on a regular basis and you will eventually
learn to receive a different sort of slightly less intense but very
rewarding orgasm.

Fuck that couch!

a masturbator recommends:

Here's one you might like
to try.  You need a couch or armchair that has a large
square seat cushion.  Kneel in front of it, drop your
pants and insert cock under the seat cushion.  Place
your hands on the seat so you are basically on hands
and knees as if there's a girl on hands and knees
beneath you.  Fuck slowly and enjoy until about to
shoot then pull out and shoot into a cup.  I use to
use my wife's favourite cup that she wouldn't allow
anyone else to use (it was a gift from her grandma
when the wife was a little girl and she didn't want
anyone else to use it in case they broke it).  There's
the added pleasure of knowing that what to her is a
dumb piece of furniture has actually satisfied you
(like having a girlfriend in the same room but
invisible to the wife) and also of seeing her drinking
from the cup without any idea that you'd ever touched
it, never mind that you'd expired deliciously into it.
It's thoroughly disgusting and depraved but totally
harmless and VERY satisfying!
Rick

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Jerking when you should be fucking

a masturbator said:

I just went through a similar problem with a new date a few months back..I
was wacking like machine gun Pete and had problems staying hard with the new
date. She made me wear a boot and that made it feel even less sensitive..the
whole fuck session turned into a downward spiral.
After my soft prick fell out of her, she tried to blow me and that was too
light as well, even a handfull of lube and some OK grip job for 10 mins
couldn't get me off..
She was a hot chick too..she commented that she couldn't get me off with her
pussy, mouth or hands and suggested I didn't need her. How fucked up. I was
still really horny, so I asked her if I could jerk off with her watching..it
was risky because she felt bad that i couldn't come with her, I wantked off
in just a few minutes with a big flying load hitting her long brunette hair.
I felt great with my orgasm, but it just prroved that I could only come with
my own hand.
I am promising myslef that if I get into a new relationship, that I must
stop wacking off myself..it's the only way to get back to coming inside a
pussy, mouth or other's hand.
She deserves a good hard cock and a decent rogering 2-3 times per week. If
you can't deliver, she will get it somewhere else, just like guys do when
the Female partner isn't interested in sex at all.
We have to give in to stopping the jacking off urges in order to get some
normal sex life back in order...
anyone else feel the same way?
I love jerking off to all my hot buttons and fantasies, but at some point
you have to make it real.

Masterjerker- Masturbation and Screwing

Perhaps some of you think that masturbation is a poor substitute for screwing. This view holds that masturbation is not real sex, but simply a way of relieving sexual tension until the masturbator has an opportunity for genuine sex. And then there are those unfortunate few who can’t seem to connect with the opposite sex and are condemned to a life of solitary masturbation.
However not everyone would agree with this point of view. In fact, some would assert that masturbation is a form of sex at least as rewarding as intercourse with the opposite sex. I, for one, have on occasion masturbated when partner sex was an alternative (see Partner Masturbation ). I’ve also had partner sex and subsequently masturbated later the same day.
Masturbation offers several advantages over partner sex. The most obvious perhaps is that you can get yourself off almost anytime without having to connect with another human being. I know of this personally having spent many years without the company of a woman. I was nevertheless able to have thousands of quality orgasms. When I got married to my ex-wife it would have seemed that all of that was over. Indeed, my masturbation did slow up for awhile. I especially enjoyed the fact that she had a kinky streak. However the frequency of our intercourse dwindled and soon I was back to having sex with my hand.

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Avarice « Easily Aroused (cuckold story)

… Soon, her pace begins to quicken, and her husband sees how hard she is pressing herself down against her lover’s pubis. He looks at her face, sees her eyes screwed tightly shut, sees her teeth gnawing on her bottom lip, and knows that her senses are climbing towards yet another crescendo.

Without warning, her lover reaches up and grips the back of her neck; he tips her over onto her side, then onto her back. He doesn’t wait for her to ready herself; he pushes her thighs wide and thrusts forward, piercing her cunt to her cry of ecstasy. He fucks her hard, savagely, and her husband realises that the stranger is close to reaching his own climax. His laden balls smack against the cheeks of her arse each time he penetrates her, and her breasts bounce wildly in accompaniment.

“Oh, yes! Fuck me hard!” she cries.

The knowledge that the stranger’s semen will soon spurt against his wife’s most intimate flesh, that she wants to feel it erupting inside her, and that he himself can do nothing to stop it, excites her husband more blackly than anything he can ever remember.

He gets to his feet, pumping his cock with a fury he has never felt before. He can feel the pressure building in his face, can feel the sinews standing out along the sides of his neck. He watches his wife’s contorted expression, and then she sees him, sees his pleasure, sees his furious strokes.

“Oh fuck!” she gasps. “Don’t come yet!”

The stranger trembles and emits a drawn-out growl as he spills himself inside her. He withdraws quickly, and her husband looks down at his wife’s dark red, swollen cunt, sees the thick, milky semen already oozing out of her.

Another man’s come in my wife, he thinks.

The sight tips him over the edge. He staggers towards the edge of the bed, almost throwing himself towards her as he explodes, anointing her belly and her pubis with thick streams of his own come. Then, spent, he collapses at her side, gasping for breath as his wife runs her fingers through the seed of two men, blending it against her sex as she uses it to lubricate one final, frantic orgasm. …

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Edging and Denial…why they work!

A member of OnaniaSupport offered this:

There is an interesting article in Psychology Today which discusses the chemical effects of orgasm, and suggests that repeated, gentle stroking–without orgasm–may be the best way to stay in love. I have a passion for edging and denial,stroking for days without orgasm, and this would explain why.

“Both sensual Romans and sex-positive ancient Chinese Daoists recognized that sexual satiety shifts perception. Over two thousand years ago, Ovid, the elegantly earthy poet, wrote that the “cure for love” is to satiate oneself with orgasm. Want to stay in love? The earlier Chinese Classic of Su Nu states, “If one engages in sex without emission…exercising self-control and calming the passion, love actually increases.”

And there is an explanation for our addiction to masturbation:

“….We humans, of course, often don’t wait. We find it easy to boost sagging dopamine after orgasm. Some options help restore balance without throwing us back onto the dopamine roller coaster: friendly interaction, time in nature, meditation, exercise, and so forth. But many of us reach for stronger “medication” (higher dopamine surges). We gamble, spend money, grab junk food, drugs or alcohol, or fantasize about, click to, or engage in, more sexual stimulation.

“Bouncing from lows to new highs, we need never experience equilibrium again! However, as biologist Robert Sapolsky observed, there is a price for blasting our reward circuitry too enthusiastically in our efforts to counter the blues. “Unnaturally strong explosions of synthetic experience and sensation and pleasure evoke unnaturally strong degrees of habituation…. Our tragedy is that we just become hungrier.” In short, there are advantages to steering for equilibrium initially, rather than always reaching for more stimulation to cope.”

Frequent fertilization-driven sex is often followed by growing alienation.  However, daily stimulation WITHOUT orgasm can increase affection and bonding.  I have to say, if a girl wants to win my heart…edging and denial is definitely the way!

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/200908/the-passion-cycle

Secrets of the Phallus: Why Is the Penis Shaped Like That?

Secrets of the Phallus- Why Is the Penis Shaped Like That– Scientific American

Evolutionary psychologists decipher the "Rosetta stone" of human sexuality

By Jesse Bering

If you’ve ever had a good, long look at the human phallus, whether yours or someone else’s, you’ve probably scratched your head over such a peculiarly shaped device. Let’s face it—it’s not the most intuitively shaped appendage in all of evolution. But according to evolutionary psychologistGordon Gallup of the State University of New York at Albany, the human penis is actually an impressive “tool” in the truest sense of the word, one manufactured by nature over hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution. You may be surprised to discover just how highly specialized a tool it is. Furthermore, you’d be amazed at what its appearance can tell us about the nature of our sexuality.  … more

Masturbating Over You- First Time With You

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Masturbating Over You- First Time With You

…. I don’t think you know that there are people who feel this way about you. I think you are sometimes sad and think your not the sexual woman you actually are. That’s why I’m writing this, so you’ll finally know.
You are so powerful. You make my penis ache, it gets so hard from wanting you. I lay on the carpet and gripped myself with my fist, pretending I was entering you, fucking you. I jacked and jacked, building an orgasm until I couldn’t hold it back. I shot my sperm all over myself, but it was so good. I was so loud groaning out your name so many times as my sperm squirted out in honor of you, of that nipple, of your smile.
I want to fuck you, I want to lick you, I want to caress your naked ass and kiss every part of your crotch. I want you to know. But I know you are private, although I don’t think it scares you to know I masturbate to you. You have to say the first words, you have to give me the go ahead.
Oh, tell me, – just whisper. “Yes!” If nothing else say you’ll let me suck on your beautiful tits as you masturbate yourself.
I lay on the carpet and sucked at my arm, feeling my seed dripping down, imagining it was your thigh it was running across.